dipitydoo said:except she's a chubby lesbian so I doubt she will be into sex with a guy...
stickdoctor said:bad bad bad idea. If you can be id'ed at all, from your email or fingerprints or DNA, I can guarantee she will come after the "donor" for child support.
The courts in BC and in Canada don't give a shit about the male in paternity cases - the only question they will ask is "is the child conceived by you?". If yes, regardless of the circumstances, they will award child support.
I have a distant friend who donated sperm to a casual friend that he once had a one night stand with. She swore up and down she just wanted sperm from a donor she knew and she had no intent to go after child support or a further relationship, and so on.
Of course she later came after him for child support and got it. $2200 a month for the next 18 years.
dipitydoo said:if you go for it, then you should bring a little "contract" with you, where you get off the hook from child support with the girl accepting and signing the little paper saying that she will not come after you to demand any financial gain from you, the sperm "donor".
Nope. It doesn't mean a damn thing if the courts say so. That's nothing, though, you should see what the courts can do to what once was a perfectly legal will. Fucked up doesn't even begin to describe it.dipitydoo said:wow that's a mutherfuckin' FUCKED UP legal system!!! doesn't a binding written contract between 2 parties mean anything anymore?
They don't. There was a case recently (off the top of my head, I think it was in England, but we've got similar laws here, and it could just as easily happen here) where that happened. A woman went to a sperm bank, had a baby, and then a few years later hunted down the donor, and now the poor bastard who tried to do something good for the world (ie. allow somebody who really wanted a baby to have one) has to pay child support.dipitydoo said:So then how do official sperm donors know they will be left alone and not have some crazy person come after their money in child support payments because "the kid is from his sperm"?






