Get a need hobby or a life

[Dickson]

i guess posting rules have changed for ladies in blue?
so that being said..i prefer to chat /correspond alot before i book! thats why i miss ersbook. i like to have some kind of connection with a fellow im going to be intimate with,as well as get a feel for who he is and what his desires are so i can plan the perfect session for him. i have no problem answering their questions concerning what they are seeking. its just the guys who dont go past the pic and phone number and so are asking all the basic questions that are answered in the first lines of the ad ! only to have them conclude with "oh thats too far away" or "oh i was looking for a young girl" . these are the ones that frustrate me

I feel the same way but from the other side. I hate hearing from a 20 something who meets me and trys to nickel and dime me. Extra this extra that and keeps looking at her watch or her phone and says are you done yet. Talk about disconnect. I pay and and I want to feel something. I want her to want to spend time with me. Yes I pay her to have dinner to say things I want to here. What is wrong with that?

So it sounds like we have the same issues just from different sides. Even though I am paying ant her to at least pretent to be into me or have an interest. Too much to ask?

 

[Aleister Crowley]

Not sure what you are saying?
My point was she complained about her time being wasted with stupid questions.
She wasted my time when I asked her a valid question ie "how much is this gonna cost?"

good point Lucky...
i think she is doing her drama and bitchy attitude to get free advertising as she is promoting without being in RED.
and with her nose high attitude , i wouln't touch with your lucky dick...

 

[kauffman]

I think that you need something like what Vanessa uses.
If not, you’ll be getting more comments like Elmore’s below.



I can understand if you’re starting to lose patience with problematic Pooners, but this thread and the one about shaving don’t really come off well for you.
I’ve never met you, but you don’t project a very positive image and eventually that will start to affect your business.
Not only is your target audience reading this but also good guys that wouldn’t bother you in such ways but have no desire to meet anyone they think to be high maintenance or a complainer.
Remember, we like to feel welcome, not on trial.

Complaining to your GFs and other SPs will be better for you in the long run.

Give the girl a break. Sometimes people just need to vent. Always "presenting a positive image" is insincere and not very realistic. Arent these forums places to be able to put one's honest thoughts out? Sometimes there are thigs to be learned by the honest "venting" of others in this hobby. Positive or negative. It's how she handles herself during sessions that will dictate her business. People ask the same questions because there are generally certain things that clients are looking for. If one advertises on CL then it is hard to be specific in the ads as certain things arent allowed t be written. It's better to have the questions asked than to make assumptions of course. What I find annoying is those that ask questions about details that are already answered in the ad. Some potential clients dont bother reading the ad before they ask questions. But i have to admit, im guilty of the same thing when it comes to answering questions on this forum at times so I may complain about being on the receiving end of this but then I remind myself that usually it is not intentional. There is a diference between an honest mistake and someone who is just CLEARLY acting disrespectfully.

 

[cherise]

good point Lucky...
i think she is doing her drama and bitchy attitude to get free advertising as she is promoting without being in RED.
and with her nose high attitude , i wouln't touch with your lucky dick...

if you check the OP's other posts i think you are absolutely correct

 

[Dickson]

Ihave many people tell me this. Get a life. Well I got one. They think because I work all the time and have no family or friends that I have no life. My companies and my customers and employees and suppliers and my shareholders are my family. I have no home but I get to stay in hotels all the time. So I have a life. I might not have a girl friend or a wife but I have SPs. So I don't get it. Why is my life not of value to people who say this? There are better and worst. Just never understood that statement.

Sorry a little off topic but I just had to say something.

 

[cherise]

Ihave many people tell me this. Get a life. Well I got one. They think because I work all the time and have no family or friends that I have no life. My companies and my customers and employees and suppliers and my shareholders are my family. I have no home but I get to stay in hotels all the time. So I have a life. I might not have a girl friend or a wife but I have SPs. So I don't get it. Why is my life not of value to people who say this? There are better and worst. Just never understood that statement.

Sorry a little off topic but I just had to say something.

people often seem to project their misery onto others that they envy,so as to try and feel better about their own lot in life

 

[Dickson]

Get a life = Do what my judgement of you says you should do in this situation.

Yea an't that the truth.

 

[Dickson]

Get a life = Do what my judgement of you says you should do in this situation.

Yea an't that the truth.

 

[sevenofnine]

People are who they are.

 

[VanessaofBC]

People are who they are.