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[ChappyM]

Amazing. I seen 3 SPs at Costco today, I mean ones I'd had sessions with. The six degrees of sepration sure at work in Victoria". Felt good that one recognized me even if the others pretended not too. A simple wave or nod was not much to ask.

Time for meet and greets again to break ice? Lots of bars available this time if year.

THOUGHTS on place and time?

 

[Peyton Anders]

Amazing. I seen 3 SPs at Costco today, I mean ones I'd had sessions with. The six degrees of sepration sure at work in Victoria". Felt good that one recognized me even if the others pretended not too. A simple wave or nod was not much to ask.

Time for meet and greets again to break ice? Lots of bars available this time if year.

THOUGHTS on place and time?

I don't think that you should feel slighted because an SP didn't acknowledge you in public.

We all (clients and ladies) have personal lives, and sometimes something as simple as a wave to a stranger could bring up awkward questions. I'm only speaking from personal experience.

 

[StunninglySexyCC]

Hi. I agree with Peyton. As an SP one has to respect the privacy of their clients at all times, including a chance encounter in public as one never knows who a client may be with. I occasionally run into clients in my private life and, like Peyton, choose to err on the side of discretion and respect for a person's privacy. If a client acknowledges me in public, I generally reply with a brief smile and move on.

I wouldn't feel slighted by an SP choosing not to acknowledge you; she's just respecting your (and her) privacy, that's all.

Cheers,
C.C.

 

[not2old]

Felt good that one recognized me even if the others pretended not too. A simple wave or nod was not much to ask.

First rule of this "hobby" is no wave, no nod. Just walk on by.

It's all about discretion, both ways. I have no idea if a SP is with family/friends and likewise the SP would have no idea if my SO is in the next isle.

What happens behind closed doors stays there. There shouldn't be any expectation beyond that.

 

[ChappyM]

I hear you but a nod, wave or smile is only manners. Not looking for a hug or whatever. Everyone has friends that others don't know at costco it's normal to see a work buddy or partner, that's all.
Class is defined by manners, just look at Jackie O or Lady Di, perfect manners.
Lots of classy ladies, don't get me wrong though.
Cheers!

 

[Unpossible]

I hear you but a nod, wave or smile is only manners.

No, it's not.

 

[*emmanuelle]

I hear you but a nod, wave or smile is only manners. Not looking for a hug or whatever. Everyone has friends that others don't know at costco it's normal to see a work buddy or partner, that's all.

The thing is though, it's a very different situation for her. For the average hobbiest, how many escorts has he met? A dozen maybe? Let's say Twenty. With twenty possible people you could bump into, it obviously doesn't happen very often, and is therefore easy enough to explain away with something "oh, that's... uh... my old hairdresser!"

But imagine for a second what it's like for an escort. How many people can we potentially bump into? I don't want to spoil the fantasy for anyone, but it's a little more than twenty. :eyebrows:

In a city the size of Victoria, an busy escort could bump into twenty clients in a single day. That's a bit of an exaggeration, but still. Think of how difficult it would be for a 20-something girl to explain why she's smiling and nodding at all these middle-aged men.

 

[Unpossible]

But imagine for a second what it's like for an escort. How many people can we potentially bump into? I don't want to spoil the fantasy for anyone, but it's a little more than twenty. :eyebrows:

... and on that tip... maybe she doesn't remember you.

 

[dickincider]

100% agree with NanaimoGuy on this one. Some pooners are married, others have girlfriends, but we all (both pooner and escort) have families and friends who we would most likely not want to share our "hobbying" with. I would never be offended if an escort walked by me without a wave. I'd be thankful. Discretion in this hobby is incredibly important. Never want to awnser the question "who the hell is that chick?"

 

[ChappyM]

I agree mostly gents. Discretion and so forth. But the world is losing manners. If you saw your hairdresser at wal mart you'd say hello, same with your auto broker from ICBC. I am saying manners are important, and SPs aren't above that, or clients. If your old lady asks, you can say she's a colleague or soft ball teammate or whatever.
Tired of this internet world where people aren't meeting they're social expenpctancies.
I'm in a bar and I see a friend I'm saying hello, same with an SPs. You can't disagree with proper action, no way.
Cheers!

 

[ChappyM]

... and on that tip... maybe she doesn't remember you.

Than she's bad business person, and rude.

 

[scooter953]

Than she's bad business person, and rude.

nah…maybe you're just really forgettable. Please get some class.

 

[luvsdaty]

Than she's bad business person, and rude.

Wow, how dense can some people be? I mean if you keep calling sp's out that you've seen in Vic. Pretty soon there gonna put you on their do not see list. And lets face it Vic is a small town, so sooner or later you're gonna run outta sp's to see? But as long as their acknowledging you in pubic, so that should make you happy.

 

[D12]

I agree mostly gents. Discretion and so forth. But the world is losing manners. If you saw your hairdresser at wal mart you'd say hello, same with your auto broker from ICBC. I am saying manners are important, and SPs aren't above that, or clients. If your old lady asks, you can say she's a colleague or soft ball teammate or whatever.
Tired of this internet world where people aren't meeting they're social expenpctancies.
I'm in a bar and I see a friend I'm saying hello, same with an SPs. You can't disagree with proper action, no way.
Cheers!

A hairdresser and a sp is to very different things the whole seeing a sp thing is based on discretion what is so hard to understand about that

 

[Hugh-pickle]

Thankfully I've only seen an sp in public once. It was such a terrifying moment. My heart raced and started sweating profusely. She was a true lady, and casually walked out of sight. Maybe we all get a but lazy in regards to privacy. Thank you to her for being classy, when I was damn near in cardiac arrest!

 

[kenchorney]

Than she's bad business person, and rude.

No she is being professional and discreet.

You may not have an issue with being approached by an SP in public but you are in the vast minority and I'm sure 99% of SPs feel the same way about being approached.

 

[peter putter]

I'm sure most would agree that discretion is the better part of valour and I for one would prefer to remain under the radar on this hobby; a nudge nudge wink wink grim grim is not required. :eyebrows:

 

[Mod-2]

Smarten up. You do not acknowledge a provider in public period and likewise the other way around. It a business not a romantic relationship. Discussion closed.