Is that because you now realize what a fukkin sausagefest it actually is?
His point, while sarcastic, is still an important one. It is true, in my experience, that some guys can't get into GBs for the very reason Mr.Knuckles mentions. Some guys should consider how they will feel once they're actually in that setting and wanting to participate. Viewing it on a porn tape is a very different experience from being there. I enjoyed my experience and never gave the other dicks a moment's thought because there was a beautiful young woman present who was really into it and made herself the centre of attention. She had a fabulous body, a great sense of humour and made a wicked attempt at dirty talk. Remember too that in the hour or so of action each guy only gets a short time at bat. The lady or ladies involved are the focus and their looks, attitude and abilities are very important. If the guys don't all know each other and have never been to a GB it's going to help having a professional lady with GB experience. There's likely a difference between an amateur event and one with professional SP talent. Also important to get the proper fit between menu expectations and what the talent is/are able/willing to offer. Some guys think GB and automatically assume DP and greek action but most ladies aren't likely to oblige, especailly if they feel strongly about being able to walk afterward. Ladies offering their services may feel free to disagree with any comments I make here, of course. Some ladies love to be the centre of attention and love to orchestrate mulitple dicks.
I think I was very lucky as my first GB was a very nice experience that left me with positive memories. I'd happily do that again, though I doubt I'll particpate in one in the near future. I hope you guys find some great SP talent and everyone has fun. GBs are not for everyone, though, and an epidemic of coldfeet is more than possible. Here's hoping your cluster fuck doesn't turn into a clusterfuck!