G F E???

[Sandi Laine]

GFE to ME is....

I am selective and have higher levels of "gfe", when I am more comfortable with my partner of the moment.

When comfort and trust are down the guardrails are up and we do not continue. I believe that if I have agreed to gfe by phone or email,and decide differently in person, that this is a "no go", then I decline right away.

This is a good way to prevent a bad review, and keep our fine gentlemen friends from feeling they got ripped off, hard earned dollars.

Hope this doesn't cause any conflicts, I just thought I would share what works well in my world.

Quintessential Companion,

Sandi Laine

 

[kehoe]

To the Ladies who do this,

I am selective and have higher levels of "gfe", when I am more comfortable with my partner of the moment.

When comfort and trust are down the guardrails are up and we do not continue. I believe that if I have agreed to gfe and decide differently in person that maybe not, then I decline right away.

This is a good way to prevent a bad review and keep out fine gentlemen from feeling they got ripped off their hard earned dollars.

Hope this doesn't cause any conflicts, I just thought I would share what works well in my world.

Quintessential Companion,

Sandi Laine

I applaud your approach Sandi. One might be disappointed that he's not going to get a GFE session from you but at least you are up front and let them know immediately before any $$$ changes hands. To me that is much more fair than taking the clients' money, not following through with the advertised services and then crying "YMMV" if an unfavorable review follows.

 

[love...alex]

I'm glad I found this- even if it has been done to death I guess I'm just not as talented with the search function as I should be!

I'll have to re-think the whole 'safe GFE' that I've been putting down... even though I would definitely consider an experience with me a GFE, I only do CBJ.
How about GFE with a GF you're sleeping with for the first time? When I sleep with a BF for the first time I use a wrapper for a BJ just 'cuz I might find out he's actually a player. And then dump his ass.
Okay, enough abbreviations.

Go play in the sun, everyone.

 

[kehoe]

I'm not opposed to CBJ at all, even though in many cases I would prefer bbbj. As far as restrictions go if an sp says no DATY or -ugh- covered DATY and no kissing then she has no business saying GFE, safe or otherwise. Alex, if that's your only restriction then as far as I'm concerned you are a GFE, especially if you're a sweetie personality - wise.

 

[john23]

I'm glad I found this- even if it has been done to death I guess I'm just not as talented with the search function as I should be!

I'll have to re-think the whole 'safe GFE' that I've been putting down... even though I would definitely consider an experience with me a GFE, I only do CBJ.
How about GFE with a GF you're sleeping with for the first time? When I sleep with a BF for the first time I use a wrapper for a BJ just 'cuz I might find out he's actually a player. And then dump his ass.
Okay, enough abbreviations.

Go play in the sun, everyone.

I think safe GFE with CBJ is perfectly consistent with the idea of GFE. GFE is about intimacy: the provider sharing the experience and the pleasure with the client. Its definitely not about risky behaviour.

 

[Curious Boy]

It's not about agreeing, its about understanding

I am selective and have higher levels of "gfe", when I am more comfortable with my partner of the moment.

When comfort and trust are down the guardrails are up and we do not continue. I believe that if I have agreed to gfe by phone or email,and decide differently in person, that this is a "no go", then I decline right away.

This is a good way to prevent a bad review, and keep our fine gentlemen friends from feeling they got ripped off, hard earned dollars.

You could not ask more of a provider than this simple gesture. Thank you Sandi for being honest, polite, to the point.

If a word has no meaning, then it only leads to confusion. If we are to speak the same language, we should agree on what terms mean, otherwise don’t use them. If a girl advertises that she is blonde, and when the door opens I see a brunette, that’s false advertising. If it takes longer to put on the wrapper than to lick it, that does not count as a cbj. If a girl advertises as a good kisser, and you get 3 quick pecks on the kips in the hour, then putting the term “kissing” in her ad is simply misleading.

I think the ladies should charge anything they want, and provide any service they want. I have the option of deciding where to spend my money. I scour the ads looking for, well, what it is I’m looking for! But, if she takes my money and does not provide the services agreed upon, then that is a scam.

GFE = Girl Friend Experience (providing aspects of social and physical interaction beyond the act itself)
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1227

GFE = girlfriend experience. Typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID15/2.html


When I was younger and more naïve, I would have said the former. Now that I’m older (& been subjected to "misunderstandings"), I’ll state the latter. More specifics, less confusion.



And yes, I’m still naïve

 

[tedsweettangv]

It has to include kissing at the very minium. Who ever had a girlfriend that they slept with before they kissed even once?

I am surprised there are no women offering WE (Wife Experience). You give her the money, she tells you that you can't have a bj because your dick is so big it makes here gag, leaves and goes shopping while you cut the lawn.

 

[Sandi Laine]

I Will Try WE

Sure I will do WE, however the donation will be double and I want some flowers too! lol I am just kidding.

If anyone is interested please do not call me, I am the ultimate gfe, original. Often immitated, never duplicated.

Quintessential Companion.

Sandi Laine

Why is the bride smiling when she walks down the isle to get married?
No more blowjobs!!!!!!