We are all the better for friends. I have a friend that I thought I knew when we became friends. She told me much sooner than that.
Friends or relationship?
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All this discussion about feelings, friendship etc. you have to remember how an sp’s income is earned
The bottom line and the most important question is whether she is still taking money for your time or you are paying for services
If you are, you need to get a grip and realize she’s taking you along for a ride trying to squeeze every dollar out of you and i assume she is because that question has been asked multiple times now and you haven’t responded once. Good luck, im out.
The bottom line and the most important question is whether she is still taking money for your time or you are paying for services
If you are, you need to get a grip and realize she’s taking you along for a ride trying to squeeze every dollar out of you and i assume she is because that question has been asked multiple times now and you haven’t responded once. Good luck, im out.
Good point.....What if she isn't taking money for the time spent?
What if she is only joining you for dinner, and your paying for the meal?
What if there is nobody taking someone for a ride?......you can't automatically assume that all SP don't have some social time.
They are human beings after all....for me, when the money stops changing hands, it's a friendship.
Some friendships last, some don't ....if she starts asking for money, that's classed as outside of the friendship, or perhaps it's over, and she may want to go back to a business relationship.
Regardless, he's got a point!
I honestly can't believe some people go to an SP looking to find "the one":loco:
Seriously doubt anyone does that. It can be a reverse psychology situation though: I remember (decades ago!) with my first serious girlfriend, we became close because I wasn't trying. NSA can mean you're more relaxed.
I never pay her for social time, we often spend a whole evening together and I usually sleep over once or twice a month. We go out for lunch on occasion and take turns buying for each other. We generally text each other every day and if she doesn't hear from me for a couple days she checks to see how things are. I know her kids quite well and have met some of her friends, she has met some of my friends, although she doesn't go out much.
