Frank talk about masterbation

[johnsmit]

It not talked about that much in the out side world but we all know people do it .Male and female masterbate, it us Acctually a natural thing to do, contrary to any religious beliefs or weird ideas about wasting your bodily essence.

Once we accidently found we could get are selves off many just continued to please them selves .And even in relationships there is still masterbation involved in most couples sex activities. Hand job, blow job for him and sucking,rubbing and digital stimulation for her.It still masterbating.

And when there is no company to be had there is porn which is a major part of our social sexualty today.
As for other means ,how many women have a few sex toys from vibratory,big and small to just big rubber or glass clocks to help please them selves.

And men these day have pocket pussys or real dolls and even might use a vibrator or rugged rubber cock to get a prostate massage. It all normal but not often acknowledged.

Of course I notice that some guys do have a hesitation to masterbating ,they seem to think it wrong or not being a nan ,I am not sure what.But in any case it cases them to think they have to have sex to get off and they don't care how they get it , often in leads to abussing women and even rape and other sex offences.

For us that are not in a relationship or not in a sexually full filling relationship there is seeing SP ,but that has its limits. As to what one can afford.

So masterbating is still the option if your inclined.
And ladies no guy complains if you use your toys and masterbate in front of us.

 

[summerbreeze]

release of endorphins during orgasm is considered beneficial to your health

plenty of research available on this

 

[Warl0ck]

I enjoy my Lelo Ina 2

Is that what you call me now? *wink*

 

[Warl0ck]

"It appears that not all orgasms are created equally," says Tobias S. Köhler, MD, MPH, an associate professor at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine in Springfield. Study after study shows that intercourse has all sorts of benefits for men -- for your blood pressure, heart and prostate health, pain, and more. You'd think that masturbation would, too. But it doesn't. Why would it make a difference whether you ejaculate during sex or on your own? No one's sure. But your body seems to respond differently. Even the makeup of semen is different if you masturbate instead of having sex.

^^Quote on found on the health benefits of masturbation vs sex. Personally, I can't imagine not masturbating every day. I can't see it being a problem unless you're sitting down jacking off to porn constantly. I do find the orgasm is different from the full sex orgasm. A full sex orgasm is a full body experience whereas jacking off is more localized which makes for more intensity.

I think it's a really good idea for women. They're taught that good girls don't do that and the result is they don't understand their own body or what turns them on. That can lead to an unhealthy sex life which creates grief and frustration in a relationship. A dutiful husband should buy his SO lots of toys & a Sybian. And ladies if you've never ridden a sybian they are worth the $1500 bucks.

 

[johnsmit]

Even though I have never had an orgasum while having sex , I deffinetly would think there is a difference and better then just masterbating. There is lot more of the brain involved with all the emotions and interaction deffinetly should be a better high.

 

[Lets Review]

My Doctor told me I had to stop masturbating. When I asked why, he said "Because I'm trying to examine you!"

 

[tiger69]

I used to do it like twice a day, maybe even 3 when I was a teen, and even now I did once/twice per day till last year. Then I found the materials on nofap, and tried to quit it and see if it'd fix the delayed ejaculation issue I've had for years- and guess what, it did fix it. So as I mention in the other thread, if I know I'm getting together with a woman on a given date, I'll lay off jacking it for 2 to 3 weeks prior to make sure everything goes as planned. If no such date's planned, I have adapted a week on, week off approach because I simply find that the orgasms that much better if you don't do it for awhile- it's much mroe intense and gratifying. Also I find the week/weeks I am withholding wanking my productivity go way up at work because I seem to be full of restless energy. Down side is that those week/weeks I'm also extremely aggressive and cranky and just no fun to be with.

 

[johnsmit]

Well I am not whanking twice a day
Sometimes a few night in a row but then not interested for a while .and usually around the male time of month don't feel like it for a week .(yes we get our time of month when testosterone levels are low) there is some disagreement on this but I know i experienced for years.

When I was younger I found it a great stress releaver ..allways Melo after .if you got a health sex life you should not need any trequlizers or anti depression med.
Of course just masterbating is not a health sex life lol

 

[Aesthetics>all]

I've been completely abstinent since mid September, squat/dead/bench/ohp have gone up 30/50/70/50 lbs and I'm up 6lbs. I also have become easy as hell to set off... fair trade I'd say

 

[JoshuaP]

PREACH PEOPLE!!

I have also been a regular of NoFap and it is a miracle aid. Abstaining from masturbation/porn not only gave me increased Energy and Productivity however helped tremendously in the bed room. I could go on like a porn star and haven't felt this horny since I was a young teen. It is truly something that I recommend for people who are just fed up and not satisfied with how things are, you notice such an increase in confidence and well being after just a few short weeks

GIVE IT A GO PEOPLE... Day 20 for me and I am lovin it!

 

[johnsmit]

I Acctually have not been seeing that much porn for that last month or more .Don't have Internet access any more so can't which what ever I wanted..I deffinetly need the choses. Now a couple of often seen DVDs on't cut it much .
But I find i acctually need it to keep me interested in sex.
I only see an SP once a month or so.and have not been hanging with any of my girl friends any more. So just not much female company to prime the sex drive.

Through the years I have abstained from masterbating for weeks at a time but I was younger and also there was no sex partners or SP in my life.So real it made very little difference to my enjoyment other then I had none lol

 

[johnsmit]

I am lucky there are to ways two spell that , at least on the internet .I probably "ducked" up again because in reality there probably is only one right way and all those people that watch porn can't spell either.

Masterbating or masturbating , that is the question.

 

[johnsmit]

Considering the problem I posted in another thread.I would say No.

 

[Caramel]

"It appears that not all orgasms are created equally," says Tobias S. Köhler, MD, MPH, an associate professor at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine in Springfield. Study after study shows that intercourse has all sorts of benefits for men -- for your blood pressure, heart and prostate health, pain, and more. You'd think that masturbation would, too. But it doesn't. Why would it make a difference whether you ejaculate during sex or on your own? No one's sure. But your body seems to respond differently. Even the makeup of semen is different if you masturbate instead of having sex.

There was a documentary I've seen before that showed how men produce "better" more resilient and lots more sperm when they have sex with or masturbate to a new woman as opposed to their SO/wife & gf etc. Some of the wives and gfs were feeling insecure :lol: during the research and results

 

[Warl0ck]

There was a documentary I've seen before that showed how men produce "better" more resilient and lots more sperm when they have sex with or masturbate to a new woman as opposed to their SO/wife & gf etc. Some of the wives and gfs were feeling insecure :lol: during the research and results

Sentiment with some professionals is men are all about a sperm competition. That's why males like gang bangs it's a sort of sperm competition. The male dick and his virility very much define a man and who he is. Not being able to perform can be destructive to a man's ego & his self worth. Even the dick is designed to "scoop out" another guys jizz. That's what the tip of the penis does. Fires in your stuff & pulls back the other males semen. Males also have a faster refraction rate in a threesome versus with just a single woman. They'll get harder faster & stay harder longer.

As a side note, some have pointed out that the female prefers the rugged, swarthy man during ovulation whereas wants a more normal male during the rest of her cycle. That's nature too. In a day when men's jobs was to provider and protect, it only made sense for a woman to exchange her beauty for the biggest, strongest and smartest guy she could. It also explains why females will choose an average looking male who is intelligent and confident over some ripped gym junkie. They're forward thinking (and far more sexually complex than males are).

 

[FreeG]

All things in moderation, nothing in the extreme.

I learned that in HS English class of all places! (Probably during the 3 mos we dissected Macbeth...). I find masturbation once every two weeks or so works best for me, before I go batty but not too often to risk taking over my life. I was a 1-2 times a day porn-user before and it got to an hour+/day! Ridiculous waste of time, definitely addictive in my opinion tho it may not meet the definition since I don't feel particularly averse physical side effects of withdrawal like I read occurs with nicotine or drugs. Nofap looks like a good source;for me, it was just taking away the temptation by limiting alone time on a computer and staying very busy. Working out helps, as I'm then either too tired from a previous workout or too focused on an upcoming workout to spend much time on porn.
When I do view porn, it's maybe 10-15 minutes then on with the rest of the day, definitely not as disruptive as before.

 

[Warl0ck]

In terms of frequency the answer is a lot. It's at minimum once per day & some days it's much more to the point I've actually chaffed myself because of frequency. I just have a very high sex drive and I'm an exhibitionist and a voyeur so sometimes you just have to get it out of you. It's bad enough that during a LTR with an SP I'd actually get hot thinking about her with other men & do myself.

tl:dr. I'm a freak.

 

[Damaged]

Around my ovulation time I'd do it all day if I could.

I've been like that since I had my fallopian tubes removed. I have a supercharged yet highly selective sex drive.

I'm curious, what do you think about when masturbating? Do you look at anything or just use your mind to imagine something or just focus on the pleasure?

 

[ChappyM]

I am of age where master bating was considered a homosexual act, and was a gateway to being with other men.
For this reason I and many like me wouldn't masterbate, we aren't gay. That seems to be changing maybe because
Of online porno. I still don't master bate and maybe why sps are a hobby and why half hour msog is
An option when it is available

 

[resercher]

PREACH PEOPLE!!

I have also been a regular of NoFap and it is a miracle aid. Abstaining from masturbation/porn not only gave me increased Energy and Productivity however helped tremendously in the bed room. I could go on like a porn star and haven't felt this horny since I was a young teen. It is truly something that I recommend for people who are just fed up and not satisfied with how things are, you notice such an increase in confidence and well being after just a few short weeks

GIVE IT A GO PEOPLE... Day 20 for me and I am lovin it!

Just out of curiosity I sighed up for emails from one of the leaders of the nofap movement I got 3 emails from the man.

The first two where linked to some rather odd insulting videos on you tube IE He was telling you how to keep from masturbating and the third one was a link to a secure payment page where for $50 a month you could join his Exclusive nofap membership which included links to a nofap members Olney forum and a once a week chat room. I found it unreal that guys are actually paying this man $50 a month so he can tell them to stop masturbating reminds me of Harvey Kellogg and his insanity

https://stickythemovie.wordpress.com/2011/10/30/punishments-for-masturbation-throughout-history/

I personally don't believe in addiction and I really hate the whole 12 step thing that starts with the sentence
We admitted we were powerless over whatever addiction —that our lives had become unmanageable
What if your an alcoholic the beer just pours itself down your throat ?
.
If your doing something anything so much that it is affecting your life and health in a negative way Its not whatever you doing your so called "addiction" that is the problem . It is that you are using whatever it is to escape from the other problems in your life . Fix those problems and you wont have any need for the so called "addiction"


on that note here is some info


for the guys http://www.jackinworld.com/

could not find a free one for the girls .