forbidden temptation.

[klamkracker]

Why do Women Get Attracted to Married Men? Just would like to have your thougts on this!

 

[uncleg]

Why do you consider it a Forbidden Temptation ??????????????

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

Why do Women Get Attracted to Married Men? Just would like to have your thougts on this!

It's safe ... you don't have to totally let that person into your life because they are attached.

 

[uncleg]

As I am no expert my opinion is just that an opinion. I have never and would never be with a mired man other then being a sp.

We all want what we can't have. The grass is always greaner on the other side. No one is perfict and if you actualy have that person in time you will find they have lots of flaws as well.

A very good friend of mine has been in this type of situation for a few years now. I love her and she is a great friend but to me she is not respecting her self. This man is one that she feels is a great catch and out of her range. She hasn't said that but I get it. He isn't even nice. It's not a sugar daddy situation where he takes her out and buys her gifts. No he just calls her up for sex. I feel it is lowering her self esteem and not helping her in the long run.

I'm sure every one will have a different light to shed on the situation and my angel is just one perspective. To me it is a very dangerous situation because there is so much that can go wrong. You can't think it will last for ever and no ones feelings will get in the way.

If you are in a loveless marriage but getting a divorce is not the answered at this time then visiting a sp can definitely help keep your sanity till you are in a better point of your life. Then you can revaluate things and make the necessary changes at that point.

That cute lady at your office that you know has always has a little thing for you is not a smart option. Sure you may be able to fool around for some time but it won't last. She will start wanting more and then your problems will start. Now you will be getting that divorce weather or not you wanted it right now. Your friends and family will be very disappointed in you. Prepare for some very expensive court proceedings ahead.

All the money you thought you would save from not seeing escorts and having an affair is going to be much more expensive in the long run. Step back and have a real look at the bigger picture. Make calculated choices in life. Just because it can be fun does not mean it is smart. If the consequences out weigh the rewards then it's time to look at other options.

Was that a slip or a deliberate play on words ?

 

[klamkracker]

Well thought out and writen! I dislike reading but was will wroth the three times that I did.

As I am no expert my opinion is just that an opinion. I have never and would never be with a married man other then being a sp.

We all want what we can't have. The grass is always greaner on the other side. No one is perfict and if you actualy have that person in time you will find they have lots of flaws as well.

A very good friend of mine has been in this type of situation for a few years now. I love her and she is a great friend but to me she is not respecting her self. This man is one that she feels is a great catch and out of her range. She hasn't said that but I get it. He isn't even nice. It's not a sugar daddy situation where he takes her out and buys her gifts. No he just calls her up for sex. I feel it is lowering her self esteem and not helping her in the long run.

I'm sure every one will have a different light to shed on the situation and my angel is just one perspective. To me it is a very dangerous situation because there is so much that can go wrong. You can't think it will last for ever and no ones feelings will get in the way.

If you are in a loveless marriage but getting a divorce is not the answered at this time then visiting a sp can definitely help keep your sanity till you are in a better point of your life. Then you can revaluate things and make the necessary changes at that point.

That cute lady at your office that you know has always has a little thing for you is not a smart option. Sure you may be able to fool around for some time but it won't last. She will start wanting more and then your problems will start. Now you will be getting that divorce weather or not you wanted it right now. Your friends and family will be very disappointed in you. Prepare for some very expensive court proceedings ahead.

All the money you thought you would save from not seeing escorts and having an affair is going to be much more expensive in the long run. Step back and have a real look at the bigger picture. Make calculated choices in life. Just because it can be fun does not mean it is smart. If the consequences out weigh the rewards then it's time to look at other options.

 

[LJG]

Ohhh -- I wish you hadn't changed "mired" to "married." There's something elusive about the word, "mired," that says so much more than "married."

 

[CLIT COMMANDER]

Why do Women Get Attracted to Married Men? Just would like to have your thougts on this!

Cause they are already trained by their wives and have so much to lose!

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I don't know why but here's a story that sums it up.
Many years ago a friend of mine's wife passed away. They were both in their early 30's and very much in love. He continued to wear his wedding ring for a long time afterwards up until a few years ago when he decided it was time to move on with his life. One night over a few beers we were comparing dating "war stories" and he told me that when he was recently widowed but still wearing his ring, women were constantly flirting with him. Now it helps that he is very good looking but still it would be waitresses, store clerks, bank tellers, airline reps. He said as soon as he stopped wearing his wedding ring the flirting dropped off dramatically. He even joked he might put it back on.
Anyway he's remarried now so it all worked out in the end but still an interesting observation.