For those of you with fetishes..

[Relbo420]

I don't know how I got my fetish. My guess is I was probably sexually abused as a very small child. My first sexual thoughts were I want my face to get sat on by attractive women and that was probably before I was 10 years old. The fetish has evolved quite a bit, I like most femdom there are only a few aspects I am not keen on, however it has evolved fantasies that I am not sure I want to bring away from fantasy. I am sure porn is what helped it evolve into I want to be used as a human toilet. There are about a million different scenarios my brain has come up with. I am hiring this escort in the very near future to sit on my face. The thing is though, I tell these escorts about all my fetishes including the extreme ones and explain the power exchange aspect of it etc. I don't know what it is about this woman's ass but it sets me right off. I fantasize about being a full on slave and if this woman wanted to make me one she probably could. Women generally don't want slaves, just saying she has that kind of power over me.

Edit - not sure why insert image isn't working so here is the link instead..

https://imgur.com/buVfww2

Edit 2 - this is pretty close to my 100% ideal ass. Problem is I have seen this lady before and she doesn't understand what I want. She thinks facesitting is 69 ing. If she did understand and enjoyed doing it, this woman could also easily make me her slave.

https://imgur.com/UMflR5Z

 

[onslaught13]

My main fetish is also the school girl uniform, my latest I went on a date was she wanted to be tied up, she had me watch a Video on how to do it without hurting her. She just loves to be dominated.

 

[nightswhisper]

I am the boss to about 90 people, outside the bedroom.

I want to be bossed by my woman, inside the bedroom.

#theFetLife

 

[BCS2018]

I think mine developed the morning after losing my virginity. I was a (ahem) late bloomer. At 21 a girl I worked with found out I hadn’t had sex before and we’ll, we had sex. The first night was when I realized I really really liked going down on a girl, but it was mostly awkward sex. But the next morning waking up next to a naked woman. Ugh.. that flipped a switch. She was still sleeping and I vividly remember admiring her naked body, smelling the air of all her amazing scents, and being extremely turned on while she slept. I couldn’t help myself but start touching her body. She would later wake while I did it and started a whole new round. But it was the touching of a Sexual partner when she slept that became my shamed desire with all women I slept with. I know it shouldn’t be shameful, but it was in my head. I never desired to do it to someone who hadn’t just slept with me, but still it did feel like I was taking advantage of their unconscious body. Hearing the breathing increase as you touch or caress certain body parts, was an absolute intoxicating feeling. Kissing or sucking on those sensitive areas would make my heart pound loudly. And lastly, feeling their body react encouragingly as a finger slips in, well that would just about fill my wank bank for the next year. It’s something I would love to try with a provider, but I’d want it to be with someone who has seen me multiple times and trusts me not to do anything foolish/likewise I trust with my fetish. Of course I wouldn’t expect them to be asleep, but more just pretending to be.

 

[PuntMeister]

I used to believe that at the tender age of 11, seeing an illustration of a woman arm-bound to a tripod and gagged in a magician’s book of tricks was the Origin of my kinky lifestyle.

No I realize it was just an awakening moment. The pre-disposition was already there, probably originating before I was born. Yup, I am hard-wired that way. It is not an environmental happenstance for me. But a few choice Penthouse issues confirmed and nurtured that tendency into a raging bdsm crazed sex machine.

 

[westcoastrider1982]

Started a thread about waterbeds.
Had a small one when I was younger but I often find myself fantasizing about having sex with a girl or a couple girls on a giant waterbed! Think it would be fun to do it directly on the vinyl mattress without sheets etc.
Combine that with nuru gel and I’d be in heaven!

Nice pic of a sexy looking lady on a waterbed.

This lady has a website with her posing on her custom giant waterbed. She special ordered a clear mattress and had LED lighting installed under it. Fuck that’d be fun banging in a dark room with the waterbed LED’s reflecting off the walls!

I also get excited seeing hot girls on big pool floaties or at the lake etc! Fucking a girl out on lake on one of those! Yes please!!

 

[westcoastrider1982]

I'm not sure if this counts as a fetish, but the fantasy of kneeling in front of a tall woman and giving her cunnilingus gives me spontaneous bonerage - "Going up" was the term another PERB member coined a while ago - especially if she were vocal and slightly bossy but certainly not a domme.
How did this start? Penthouse has been mentioned up-thread and there is a famous image of Bob Guccione seated in an armchair with a seemingly tall & curvy brunette with a full bush standing next to him... her pussy at eye-level... I probably fapped to that image more than any other in my teens.
My 1970s high school crushes were always for the cute, petite & popular girls... maybe because I was more in the nerd gang? In my 20s & 30s I rejected convention in many ways and definitely gravitated to "exotic" girls (mixed race/middle eastern/east-Indian with long, dark hair, voluptuous figures).
However, for the last decade or so, since I turned 40, I began desiring much taller women... maybe because I'm not a tall guy and as I get older I loose my inhibitions & self-imposed limitations?
When I was pooing 9-10 years ago there was a wacky girl in Surrey, Natalie/Nadia, and a blonde girl in the West End (forgot her name, she had a couple of dogs if anyone else remembers her?), both close to 6' tall, who were amazing and I repeated with both.
Now, when I poon, the taller the better, "alternative" even more so... but I wonder if finding a woman who would indulge me with a short skirt, no panties and give me "instructions" to kneel & service her full bush would be like meeting a unicorn LOL?
I sometimes see girls like that on MFC but not on Leolist...?

Maybe sorta similar to what you like but I really enjoy it when a hot girl straddles over my face!
Not in a domme type way but I’ve had a couple girls at massage parlours ride my face a bit after I flip over! Hot!

Going back to my schoolgirl fetish, girls doing this in a short dress or mini-skirt...damn!!

 

[sybian]

The official definition is:

an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

Although I've never considered it a fetish until reading your definition....I suppose I now know I have a boob fetish.
I like em all, big , small, natural ,fake, and everything in between.

 

[AMG-GTR]

I have a pussy ass legs boobs hair smile eyes fetish based on the definition above!

I am a huge sucker for fuck me boots and stockings. Just thinking about it now I wish it was earlier so I could text an SP lol

 

[cynicalbadger]

I definitely have a costume fetish. I've had a couple of SPs wear costumes for me and I've even brought em around on occasion.

 

[Miss Hunter]

The how’s and where’s are blurry, mostly through exposure via exploration. My current focus is prostate play. I’ve watched videos and even seen a couple SPs in an effort to experience a true hands free cum. No luck yet but it’s fun trying. That has in turn led to an interest in sounding. There’s a lady that I’m looking at to try it with the first time. I just haven’t worked up the courage yet.

My advice for experiencing that elusive "hands free cum" is don't think about it. It's more likely to sneak up and surprise you one day when you're not consciously chasing it. It's like chasing a butterfly...

 

[Miss Hunter]

^^Another thing worth a mention, men are capable of having multiple dry orgasms.

The butterfly analogy applies to this as well...

 

[Avioneto123]

I have been attracted to feet my whole life. There was not an specific incident that I can remember that drove me to this fetish. I was born with it. The funny thing is that the older I get, the stronger this fetish is getting. IMO, there is nothing more beautiful than a cute petite Asian lady with petite,cute and sexy feet.

 

[sts87]

I like to crossdresser in stockings or leggings especially and bang muy bum with an 8" dildo while watching porn with a woman in sexy stockings. I just love women's legs and ass and how they can decorate it. When pointing I often dress up to bang the girl oh

 

[westcoastrider1982]

I also fantasize about fucking hot coffee shop girls right next to the espresso machine!
Popped into a coffee shop on commercial drive yesterday where there were a couple hotties working!
Those cute little aprons they wear are adorable!

Going in late at night, alone with the hot girl behind the counter....leave the rest to your imagination! Lol!

 

[Equity Market investor]

I got my " fantasy " scenario / fetish play way back by watching video's on xvideo's. The ones I got attracted too were the ones where males got dominated by the female. Since then, I love being dominated being bound to a chair, bed etc. I'm simple and always up for that type of play lol.

Especially, tease and denial then her finishing me off towards the end of the session. Hot!! :flame:

 

[2bfair]

I confirm multiple dry orgasms. There are a few who have released these in me.. woe.. convulsions to an extent occur too. Just relax let it happen.
Also recently learned that men can squirt from prostate massage. Best when the bladder is empty to get the clear scentless liquid.
I have too many kinks to mention on one page.

^^Another thing worth a mention, men are capable of having multiple dry orgasms.

The butterfly analogy applies to this as well...

 

[CDNVT]

Good read also , This forum needs a like button !

VT

 

[AMG-GTR]

I confirm multiple dry orgasms. There are a few who have released these in me.. woe.. convulsions to an extent occur too. Just relax let it happen.
Also recently learned that men can squirt from prostate massage. Best when the bladder is empty to get the clear scentless liquid.
I have too many kinks to mention on one page.

I just recently started sticking things in my ass. I have to be super drunk off my ass but then it’s pretty cool. Different feeling, sort of this being “full” sensation. Not so much the in and out though. I’m a noob.

That’s cool about the male squirt. I didn’t even know that’s a thing!

 

[Miss Hunter]

I find it amusing that men’s g-spots are in their asses