Fool me once, shame on you......

[Riza]

Well twice in one week I know I am to trusting but hey I live in Canada. If I was back in the Philippines I would trust no one. I think the thing is I like to make my sessions as GFE as I can. Asking for a client to produce money up front rather than him offering it just kinda kills the moment I would think for him. Same goes with standing there counting the money in front of him, this to me just says to him "I don't trust you" Well twice this week, one incident being after our session I have to run out to me car to get my wallet, of course the next thing I saw was headlights speeding out of my driveway lol and second one being shorted on the donations because I didn't count it. I know most are going to say I deserve it for not being more careful and being stupid when it comes to business and you are right. I am to trusting and think this week I have learned my lesson. So please, when you come see me or any other SP please offer up your donation at the door so we don't have to make either of us feel uncomfortable asking for it. All my previous clients nothing will change. I respect you and I think the same in reverse and I will take your word for it. New clients, I apologize in advance when I ask for your donations in advance.

Note to the guy that drove away without paying, (you know who you are) I am a nice person and I know that Karma is a bitch so I am sure you will get whats coming to you but it won't be from me. Its cool that you have Viber on your phone so I can see your picture with your girlfriend beside you. Don't worry, your secret is safe with me. I am sure she will figure it out on her own.

As always, your Filipinia MILF at your service..
What you see is what you get..... Riza

 

[Man Mountain]

Sorry to hear that you were taken advantage of like that. Please don't get fooled again

 

[Peyton Anders]

I believe it's pretty standard to receive the donation up front, no matter what. I never count it in front of a client, but everyone makes mistakes. Anytime the amount of money in the donation isn't correct it's always been an honest mistake where they miscounted the number of twenties or forgot to include the 50 in their wallet, etc.

Also doesn't hurt to mention in your booking discussions that asking for the compensation makes you feel uncomfortable so you would much rather they hand it to you soon after coming into your home.

 

[Cami Parker]

I hate having to ask for the donation.,.. That really is so AKWARD.

 

[Riza]

Thanks Cami, I'm glad its not just me :doh:

 

[VanessaofBC]

Guys are nervous when they get there some are first timers some are not familiar with the aspect of "giving" over being asked for the donation.

So I am up front. If I do not have it within the first couple minutes I jist say " So your staying for a massage, right? Ok that is $xyz".

Sorry about the walk out. I rarely get them either but it happens. Guys don't have the money but they gotta have a look. Just a different kind of kink, that we will never understand.

 

[Riza]

Thanks Vanessa, I guess it could have been worse, could have been a two hour session that I had completed and then he dash for his car lol, As it was I only lost a hour of my time

Guys are nervous when they get there some are first timers some are not familiar with the aspect of "giving" over being asked for the donation.

So I am up front. If I do not have it within the first couple minutes I jist say " So your staying for a massage, right? Ok that is $xyz".

Sorry about the walk out. I rarely get them either but it happens. Guys don't have the money but they gotta have a look. Just a different kind of kink, that we will never understand.

 

[yazoo]

Hi Riza,
Recently got back from your beautiful country, and yes the Filipina GFE is absolutely second to none!!

As far counting cash goes... I prefer it when the SP counts it. I have made mistakes before and pre-counted incorrectly handing over a stack of bills that were short a bill. I now ask for it to be counted so that there are no misunderstandings.

As far as pay after... I notice when in cities that are pay after I tend to tip more. Pay before - I pay the requested amount.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Hi Riza,
Recently got back from your beautiful country, and yes the Filipina GFE is absolutely second to none!!

As far counting cash goes... I prefer it when the SP counts it. I have made mistakes before and pre-counted incorrectly handing over a stack of bills that were short a bill. I now ask for it to be counted so that there are no misunderstandings.

As far as pay after... I notice when in cities that are pay after I tend to tip more. Pay before - I pay the requested amount.

I see what you are saying. A dishonest lady may leave the room and come back stating she was $20 or $50 short, when in fact she was not. When I first started this business I used to count in front, always. Now I count in privately, before the session. It has happened when it has been short but the client is embarassed because it is still in his pocket,he has no intention of shorting mee, or course.

 

[P_e_r_b]

New clients, I apologize in advance when I ask for your donations in advance.

No worries, Riza. It's too bad there are some jerk-offs that ruin it for everybody. There's always some "slippage" with any business and you don't want to have to go to the expense of a "collector". Karma, yes. Fool has it coming.

-- Yeehaw! 100th post. --

 

[pusher69]

Always ask for donation from new clients... the regulars you should be able to trust eventually....right?

I used to get asked...but then it went to kissing and groping at the door to the shower...and left the donation after.

 

[UhOh]

I hand it over within the first minute and then ask to use the bathroom with the assumption she will take the opportunity to check everything is in order.
If I book an appointment its with an SP that has positive reviews and someone I feel can be trusted. If she says I'm short I'll take her word for it.

 

[peter putter]

I see what you are saying. A dishonest lady may leave the room and come back stating she was $20 or $50 short, when in fact she was not. ......... is still in his pocket,he has no intention of shorting me, or course.

It down to delivery. A window envelope with the donation placed on the counter/dresser/bedside table at the beginning is a stress free way and then up to the SP to check. IMHO. With the new bills sometime honest mistakes are made and in my own experience after a long session I got home only to find a fifty still in my pocket. With an immediate text and apology and promise to buck up the extra next time karma stepped in and it wasn't necessary. As for the guy that bolted, someone will kick you in the balls

 

[Fullhouse]

I hate having to ask for the donation.,.. That really is so AKWARD.[/QUOTE]


Well Cami, it may be AKWARD to you, ... but to me, who is not fluent in American, ...it's just plain AWKWARD.

 

[UhOh]

Karma might catch up to this guy but I bet not before he attempts this again. Play by the rules and you earn the right to your privacy but does a thief have this right? I don't think so. Out the guy, at least to other SP's.

 

[peter putter]

I hate having to ask for the donation.,.. That really is so AKWARD.[/QUOTE]


Well Cami, it may be AKWARD to you, ... but to me, who is not fluent in American, ...it's just plain AWKWARD.

Simple spelling mistake.

Points off.


The Webster(American) spelling is the same as the Oxford (English) spelling. If you are firing bullets make sure you have ammunition.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Karma might catch up to this guy but I bet not before he attempts this again. Play by the rules and you earn the right to your privacy but does a thief have this right? I don't think so. Out the guy, at least to other SP's.

I have to agree, although I'm sorry this happened to you. Honestly, most of us have learned to be strict because of a bad experience, just like yours. And, when something like this happened to me a few years ago, I warned the other ladies about the guy (I miss the erslist Ladies Lounge for this but there are other lounges, if you don't wanna post it here).

You can post this in the Public Service Announcement area, and suggest that the ladies contact you privately for his contact info...

 

[Riza]

I have to agree, although I'm sorry this happened to you. Honestly, most of us have learned to be strict because of a bad experience, just like yours. And, when something like this happened to me a few years ago, I warned the other ladies about the guy (I miss the erslist Ladies Lounge for this but there are other lounges, if you don't wanna post it here).

You can post this in the Public Service Announcement area, and suggest that the ladies contact you privately for his contact info...

Thanks Alex, I do also wish there was a private ladies only place I could post his used name and number. I just feel bad posting it here for all to see. Also if anyone wants the number feel free to pm me and I will gladly give it to you.

xoxoxoxo Riza

 

[grusse]

Well twice in one week I know I am to trusting but hey I live in Canada. If I was back in the Philippines I would trust no one. I think the thing is I like to make my sessions as GFE as I can. Asking for a client to produce money up front rather than him offering it just kinda kills the moment I would think for him. Same goes with standing there counting the money in front of him, this to me just says to him "I don't trust you" Well twice this week, one incident being after our session I have to run out to me car to get my wallet, of course the next thing I saw was headlights speeding out of my driveway lol and second one being shorted on the donations because I didn't count it. I know most are going to say I deserve it for not being more careful and being stupid when it comes to business and you are right. I am to trusting and think this week I have learned my lesson. So please, when you come see me or any other SP please offer up your donation at the door so we don't have to make either of us feel uncomfortable asking for it. All my previous clients nothing will change. I respect you and I think the same in reverse and I will take your word for it. New clients, I apologize in advance when I ask for your donations in advance.

Note to the guy that drove away without paying, (you know who you are) I am a nice person and I know that Karma is a bitch so I am sure you will get whats coming to you but it won't be from me. Its cool that you have Viber on your phone so I can see your picture with your girlfriend beside you. Don't worry, your secret is safe with me. I am sure she will figure it out on her own.

As always, your Filipinia MILF at your service..
What you see is what you get..... Riza

maybe he thought he was still in india?

 

[Riza]

maybe he thought he was still in india?

OMG, how did you guess that lol