First thing, you don't post questions like this in the Lounge, I moved this to the correct forum.
Second, explore the ladies you are interested in. We have a forum of advertisers who you can choose from and there are other ad sites you can also look into. Younger, older, slim, BBW, every race, creed and color, the choices are nearly endless. Find one that is welcoming of couples, many will mention this in an ad, or send a text, email or PM and ask. Be clear about what you want, services, who is touching who and how. Clarify rates and restrictions and have fun.
I won't be recommending anyone in particular save to say PERB advertisers are an excellent choice.