If I’m going to do it, I would definitely see a pre-op girl. Regarding looks, I’m looking for someone who, as much as possible, looks fem and sounds fem. Cute or slutty outfits, make-up, etc. For the experience itself, I would definitely be topping, and if I felt very comfortable, I would be up for trying bottoming. Definitely not taking any huge tools, but willing to try something not too intimidating.
I want someone who is good with a transgirl first-timer. Pretty much a GFE ….authentic, patient, encouraging, fun. Not a PSE or mechanical experience. Taller is totally fine with me. In terms of stuff I’m not interested in trying the first time, I’m open to most of the options in theory. That could change of course when we’re together and reality looks or feels different lol
A question for you gents: did you ever have post-nut clarity kick in afterwards, and think “what the hell did I just do?!”? Just curious