You sure about that? Id have a hard time coming up with a list of places I'd rather stick my fingers.
First time a SP said no fingering without a condom?
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You don't think it is more fun to have a girl suck on your fingers then to put it in her vagina? Or how about if she sucks on them first before putting them in her vagina?
Sure she can suck on them first, if that turns her on, but I want to feel pussy. There isn't a thing on this planet I rather feel than pussy, nothing else is even close.
ound:Usually a post bum finger is clean because the lady's bum is clean. I just use that finger as I normally would but try to avoid rubbing my eyeballs just in case...
Well I'd think most ladies would stop you from fingering their bum if they know it's not clean, say if they had mexican curry corn earlier..
I can think of some previous threads where the SP was very proud of the fact that she offered A-T-M. Anyways, getting back to the original point of the thread, whether it's the pussy or the butt-hole, some people just prefer the safety of the cot, while some wanna play freely. I also insist on the hand-washing routine, as well as preferring to keep the various fingers playing in different holes!
And the lady's wishes should be followed, for maximum likelihood of being invited back in the future, if that's what the fellow wants.
Well Borko, a fella can be cooperative in the moment, but can go away unhappy. I say this because I have had numerous clients ask for a bbbj, after multiple appointments where they stayed for the cbj. I've also had clients ask for bbfs, after a certain number of appointments. Add to that the number of times I've been asked for greek, after multiple visits with someone. I never change my mind about these things but, because someone keeps on asking, it makes me want to not answer the phone next time they call. Just sayin'
They don't do the thing (as you said, that would kinda rapey) but they also think that, if they keep asking, eventually I'll cave. Not cool, if you want to be invited back!
So if you want to see her, and she wants you to use the finger cot, just ask yourself if you can handle it and, even though you might prefer the bare finger(s), it gives you a chance to be with the lady you like for other reasons. Maybe have another favourite that you can do bb-digits with!
PS I'm using the term 'you' figuratively...
It is surprising the amount of men who still turn down my offer to use the restroom before we begin a session (and even sometimes after!). It is obvious immediately that my house is clean and spotless, so I am not sure why the hesitation to do so. Is it past "bad bathroom" experiences?
That is why I asked awhile ago in another thread if you guys carry hand sanitizer in the car!
That is why I asked awhile ago in another thread if you guys carry hand sanitizer in the car!
It sounds like those are bad clients and you are better off not seeing them if they are pushing for services that you do not offer and are not comfortable offering.
You would be surprised how many bad/complex clients a lady might have to see. Not dangerous, not abusive, just irritating in oh-so-many ways. If the irritation level is too high, of course I no longer answer their calls. Otherwise, I tolerate their attempts at getting me to adjust my rules for their benefit/satisfaction.
That's why we love love love our wonderful clients, and do our utmost to make them feel appreciated! :nod:
OP situation was...
she advertised gfe and then said digit with condom only.
From my experience, part of gfe has always been digit foreplay and I've never heard any complaints on my touch or personal hygiene.
No worries, I was just wondering if others had heard this request from a SP?
she advertised gfe and then said digit with condom only.
From my experience, part of gfe has always been digit foreplay and I've never heard any complaints on my touch or personal hygiene.
No worries, I was just wondering if others had heard this request from a SP?
I'd have no problem complying with the request for covered fingers. Can't blame her for not wanting every Tom Dick & Harry poking around in there. But I'm not so sure its as delicate a place as implied here. I've had my fingers in ex's vaginas at all kinds of opportunities. When driving, when out walking, out cycling, when she'd drop over after work. And never an ailment caused that I'm aware of. But I've always treated the pussy with respect and reverence, never manhandled.
Personally I'm not a huge fan of fingers. Not entirely sure why, I just get squicked out by it. That being said, I have enjoyed it on several occasions. I think covered fingers is a reasonable request, I would never perform something like prostate massage without a finger cot or condom as a barrier. The risk of tears with exposed nails is enough to warrant it.
I was never under the impression that digits were a must in a GFE session. GFE is about attitude and mannerisms during a session, it's not always dictated by services offered. Heck, some ladies offer GFE without kissing and that's a-okay if they so choose.
