Finding Sugar Babies on Seeking Arrangement

[Dick Ford]

Isn't that true with any SP arrangement, sugar baby or otherwise? That the better you treat her, and the more you respect her and her rules/boundaries, the more she will be willing to give, whether that's extra time or items not on the menu?

In my experience, the more you make it about her, the better it will be for you and your pleasure. Establish that respect, gain that trust, and she will treat you like a king.

Correct.
Be nice to me and treat me with respect and as an equal and I'll fuck the crap out of you and maul you until you beg me to stop.
That's what people don't understand.

 

[Belleyyc]

Well, the slight difference is the expectation.
A sugar baby doesn't have to do it within a time frame etc ..
As an SP, it is expected of me to deliver something.

See where I'm going ? I'm bad at explaining XD

 

[Dick Ford]

I totally see where you're going, Belle. And you're right. I guess I was trying to make a general point about the benefits of putting a woman's wants and needs first. But you're right, there is a difference.

Well, the slight difference is the expectation.
A sugar baby doesn't have to do it within a time frame etc ..
As an SP, it is expected of me to deliver something.

See where I'm going ? I'm bad at explaining XD

 

[thetruth]

I have signed up for SA for a long time but only occasionally pay for membership so that I can communicate with "sugar babies". I have met a few but yesterday it was a wonderful surprise as I met someone and from first communication to meeting and hooking up was like 3 hours and she was amazing. We met quickly for coffee and hit it off and went back to her place and got right down to business. I was thinking she might be a SP at first but based on her youth (early 20's) and demeanor and how personal we got with information that she was just a student wanting some extra money and enjoyed sex.

We agreed upon a reasonable rate and will meet up on a pay per meet basis so it was a great find.

sometimes you can be surprised with what you find on the website.

 

[Feenix]

Over the years I have had a lot of fun with SBs I found on several sites. Most did not last more than one date. But, I dated a lady for about a month who turned out to probably be a meth addict. A funny, but sad, story goes along with my last visit with her.

 

[4everinlove]

I find it funny that some girls claim they are only looking for platonic relationships or strictly companionship but if you talk to them more you can get sex out of them. Price might be ridiculously high but like anything can be had at a price. Or some advertise they are not on there for sex and that they are not hookers...

 

[SInCity67]

I find it gunny that some girls claim they are only looking for platonic relationships or strictly companionship but if you talk to them more you can get sex out of them. Price might be ridiculously high but like anything can be had at a price. Or some advertise they are not on there for sex and that they are not hookers...

If a girl can get away without fucking you for money of course shes going that route . I know girls who go out for dinners and get paid $400 + a pop . A lot of lonely guys out there who don't want a fake hooker interaction but still will pay a young hot girl to hang out with him who he can text/call a lot . You can't even complain about these girls getting that for not fucking since its like $200 a hour usually for non sex dates from escorts sites .

 

[wingman]

Something to consider. I'm very private and don't want to give out too much info (both to SA and girls), would it possible to join without using pictures? I would be interested in in P2P at around 400 and a bit range. Can I post what I'm looking for so girl responding knows and there is no back and forth negotiation?

 

[Belleyyc]

Something to consider. I'm very private and don't want to give out too much info (both to SA and girls), would it possible to join without using pictures? I would be interested in in P2P at around 400 and a bit range. Can I post what I'm looking for so girl responding knows and there is no back and forth negotiation?

I would say you don't have to post a picture but be prepared to send at least one by email. No one likes that kind of surprise let's say.

 

[SInCity67]

Something to consider. I'm very private and don't want to give out too much info (both to SA and girls), would it possible to join without using pictures? I would be interested in in P2P at around 400 and a bit range. Can I post what I'm looking for so girl responding knows and there is no back and forth negotiation?

I only use body pics and won't send face pics just incase they save it . Most girls won't complain , the young ones might bitch sometimes though .

 

[Belleyyc]

If you meet in public, how is she supposed to confirm you're the man she's expecting / recognize you if she's never seen your face ?
It's just like a blind date.

 

[SInCity67]

If you meet in public, how is she supposed to confirm you're the man she's expecting / recognize you if she's never seen your face ?
It's just like a blind date.

Tell them your married and looking for a nsa relationship and you will not send any face pics .pretty simple hun and the cash does the talking for you . Go on tinder if you want a Chad boyfriend.

 

[Belleyyc]

Don't pet name me would you..
It was a legit question. No need to get all snappy Jesus..
Enjoy SA
Can't ever have a decent conversation on forums anymore

 

[Warl0ck]

@belleyyc

Let me ask, why would a potential SD be required to give you any information? He's the one agreeing to a "contract" with you. You, as the vendor, should be offering what you have, not the other way around. If I go to an upscale car vendor & ask to drive a vehicle, they allow me to drive it. They bend over backward to "kiss my ass" in the hopes of making a sale. No where in the transaction do they demand anything from me other than my license & maybe a credit card so I don't steal 100 grand in Italian iron.

So exactly why should Sugar Daddy's treat you any different? You're trying to sell them something and they're asking questions & are cautious about it. Same reason I wouldn't go down to the Aston Martin dealership and hand over all my details. I control the transaction. Perhaps the problem is yours?

 

[hankmoody]

Yes i haven't and would never give out a face pic. Body only. If you've seen the number of women on there, the messages i've received and to warlocks point, why would you. One of the benefits of that kind of a site its up to the ladies to "chase" you so to speak. This isn't a dating site. Most first dates start with a meet and greet anyway where she can take all the time she wants to judge your face if thats her main concern..
I've never made any of them sign a contract and made it clear if they don't like me for any reason they are free to go at any time.
Plenty of ways to meet and figured out who is who.
You can put what you want in your profile, within the rules. Use words like physical, fun, intimate etc for the guy asking about getting to the point (wingman was it?). But be prepared to message out the details and determine if she's crazy or not.
It is time consuming but no clock watching and time constraints is one of the aspects i like compared to here.

 

[SInCity67]

My membership was up 5 days ago. I'm at 26 messages already all from the lower mainland. The sa game is pretty simple. The men have the leverage on the site ,all the women will view you high status from the start . Just don't come out as a thirsty pooner and you should do good . Don't bring up p4p till your texting/kiking . The girls are on the site for a reason,and it's Vancouver not NYC . You might have ten legit sugar daddies for every hundred girls .

 

[Hugh Jass]

My membership was up 5 days ago. I'm at 26 messages already all from the lower mainland. The sa game is pretty simple. The men have the leverage on the site ,all the women will view you high status from the start . Just don't come out as a thirsty pooner and you should do good . Don't bring up p4p till your texting/kiking . The girls are on the site for a reason,and it's Vancouver not NYC . You might have ten legit sugar daddies for every hundred girls .

Truth. A paying Sugar Daddy is a rare commodity on there according to women I have seen. These stories of finding wealthy sugar daddies and being flown around the globe do not apply to the Vancouver market.

 

[Belleyyc]

A body picture and some kind of face description is fine by me. Beard, no beard, glasses, hair, no hair.
Anyway, good luck to you all gents!

 

[Warl0ck]

@BelleYYC

Not to dwell on it nor am I trying to upset you/pick on you. I looked up your ads and you have extensive screening. Understandably you do so for your own safety. If a potential client can't understand that perhaps he's not meant to be a client. Well the same can be said about a potential sugar daddy.

A male with the capacity to pay a woman $5000.00 a month is likely an executive, an entrepraneur & has likely amassed a great deal of material wealth. There is a good chance he may well be married with children too. All of this is at risk when he engages in a SD/SB transaction. The last thing he wants is to hand his photo over to some woman who just might be crazy and have it up on the Dirty. Now, would you do that? I suspect not. But Belle, I could say the same thing about me being your client for a session. I'm not going to hurt or threaten you but you'd still screen me, right?

In a typical SP/client transaction the threat weighs heavily on the side of the SP. In a SD/SB situation, the threat lays on the side of the SD. The SB *has* the guys itinerary. That's enough information to be used to extort him for money, etc. It's also admissible in divorce court. The headless picture is just the male being cautious.

 

[hard2say]

Ever since I discovered SA, Ive seen escorts far less often... most SBs are down for pay per date at much better value than escorts provide. Never paid more than 300 per date, and the girls tend to be younger and hotter than most SPs.