Finding a "Fuck Buddy"

[vic69]

OK, maybe this is a dumb question, since we are here to pay for sex. However, I read about people having "fuck buddies", and I wonder how you go about initiating a relationship like this? I've been married for quite a while, so apart from some recent pooning, I don't have much experience with 'picking up' women for some casual sex. Any advice on what works best, and situations to avoid (like at the office?).

Thx for any help. I probably won't stop seeing professional SP's, but a non-monetary, purely sexual relationship would be nice too.

 

[Sexy BBW]

OK, maybe this is a dumb question, since we are here to pay for sex. However, I read about people having "fuck buddies", and I wonder how you go about initiating a relationship like this? I've been married for quite a while, so apart from some recent pooning, I don't have much experience with 'picking up' women for some casual sex. Any advice on what works best, and situations to avoid (like at the office?).

Thx for any help. I probably won't stop seeing professional SP's, but a non-monetary, purely sexual relationship would be nice too.

IMHO I think you should post say on lavalife or ashley madison or something like that. Here we "work", you might find what you are looking for on a site like that

 

[HankQuinlan]

Isn't there a lengthy book called "How to Pick Up Girls" at the bookstore?

If you find out, let me know .... but I suspect it has something to do with personality ... uh ... charm ... persistance ... things like that (looks and money seem to help too).

 

[hitrack]

IMHO I think you should post say on lavalife

From what I know Lavalife is mostly hookers trolling the chat lines to pick up johns. I thought it was suposed to be a legit dating/meet friends thing. But it ain't.

 

[curvy_nympho]

Fuck buddies can happen.

I am living proof.

After my divorce years ago, I wasn't ready to date or get into a relationship, but I definitely needed some good old pounding once in a while.

I had several fuck buddies over the years. I let them know that I wasn't looking for a relationship, but just someone to come over and fuck me. Sometimes these developed into friendships. We could go to dinner and then fuck or watch a movie and then fuck or go for a walk and then fuck.

There was complete understanding. These were not relationships or dating. Just two people who enjoyed each other's company and the physical aspect of it.

Even 5 or more years later, some of my favorite fuck buddies and I keep in touch. We are long past seeing each other anymore, but there was a certain level of affection and friendship. In all these cases, I knew the person was there for a short time only and that it wouldn't go anywhere serious, but was fun as hell at the time!

I would suggest looking online. There are plenty of dating sites that give the option of looking for a "hook up".


Bella

 

[hitrack]

I think you're talking about Livelinks. Lavalife is very legit.

I knew it was one of the two.

 

[momlover]

http://www.squirt.org

 

[Rod Steel]

http://www.squirt.org

Momlover that is some fawking scary site!!

 

[Sexy BBW]

My first client is turning into being one hell of a fuck buddby And he knows who he is ehehhe Cant wait to see you!

I should take back part of my post, its weird at times how things have turned out. Never thought in this business I would have one, but I do have one SPECIAL one! I could ask for his donation, but feel no need to. The sexual chemistry is out of this world.

 

[BouBou]

The definition of a "fuck-buddy" is a woman who likes you enough to want to have sex with you every time she bumps into you, but doesn't want to get into a relationship because that would spoil the special "friendship" that you have with her.

That is, of course until some other guy knocks her up and all of a sudden she wants to settle down. Just a hypothetical scenario, not like it has happened to me before......or like after you part your ways and run like hell away from her, she follows you 5000 kms across Canada!

Could happen you know. Having a "fuck-buddy" is fun, but can always backfire on ya.

 

[Rod Steel]

Could happen you know. Having a "fuck-buddy" is fun, but can always backfire on ya.

At that point you become a "fucked buddy".

 

[BouBou]

....not like it has happened to me before....

O.K., I lied...it did happen to me, and if I was stupid about it and didn't run away like an S.O.B., I probably could have become a "fucked buddy". Problem was that I had strong feelings for her, I just didn't appreciate her change of attitude once she had somebody else's kid.

Hey, I just quoted myself....cool, I've never done that before

 

[Lauren]

Possible, but...

If you're married I'd suggest sticking with the professionals. I completely agree that a fuck buddy can be possible to find, but what might start out as a purely physical relationship could end up becoming a little more emotional for one(or both) of you. Not so bad if you're single, but could create a real situation if you're married. At least if you're seeing a pro, you know that it's "no strings attached" fun and can leave it at that. Just don't get caught...lol...

 

[logsplitter]

I tried one of those dating sites and posted under 'fuck buddy'. After 3 frustrating months and a lot of scams one lady turned out to be real. She was married but her husband was diabetic (no more sex). We agreed to meet to decide if we wanted to go to step 2. She was not as attractive as I would have hoped but not bad either. She told me that she had seen 2 guys over the last several years in this way and each buddy eventually went their own way.

She said that she was willing to go the next level with me but I bailed out. Her situation was such that I worried that she may take a liking to me. I am married and it is a little dangerous to get a lady emotionally attached to U. In her mind telling your s.o. that she has been fucking U is a good way to get rid of her so she can have U.

 

[kehoe]

the dilemma over having a fuck buddy has plagued me for awhile now. The benefits are obvious; no strings guilt free sex on a regular basis. But what if I developed feelings for her and she didn't reciprocate? Uggggggggggggh. I guess that's why I haven't been as active in this hobby lately. I can't decide if I want a gf, fuck buddy or this scene here. Either way, I need to get laid soon.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

I've had many fuck buddies throughout the years, and as long as the ground rules are set out at the start, there should be no problem. You just have to walk if things start to heat up a bit. Women can get wrapped up after a while, so be prepared to dump them. After all, they were warned...

 

[chilli]

If your married - your not looking for a "fuck buddy" as you put it - you're looking to have an affair.

What you should be asking is "how do I have an affair with single girls who are going to be put off by the fact that I'm married."

And that I won't help you with.

 

[hardup]

Shortly after my divorce a friend suggested I try one of the chat-lines.......so I did, Grapevine, if memory serves. Anyway I answered an ad there from a gal who said she had just got out of a long-term relationship and only wanted no-strings sex

WELL I was good with that and after a good deal of phone-tag bullshit, we met up ...WOW.....what a hottie. We met at a bar and had several drinks,shooters etc. and before you knew it we were bumping uglies in the car in the parking lot. Afterwards she was the one who suggested we become fuck buddies. I was a bit surprised, being 20yrs her senior but it worked well for several months until she developed "feelings" for me and wanted me to meet her father who just happened to be the same age as me. I just couldn't see that happening so an end had to take place

I tried a few times after that to find something similiar, but to no avail.


* just an observation*
but the girls who are looking for no-strings sex are few in the *HOT* catagory
most are in the *woodland creature* division

 

[hardboy4]

Recent F-B experience

I recently broke off a 2yr fuck buddy relationship. I had known her for more than 10years when it started. She was going through a rough breakup of her marriage, kids involved, etc. She needed someone to talk to and I'm a good listener. After a few months of listening she comes out with 'man, I need to get fucked' while she's looking me deep in the eyes. We had a great couple of years, no strings, no expectations, and not much left unexplored. We broke it off becuase she really is ready to look for a longer term relationship and I'm not it.

 

[Valium]

You could always try placing an add in the paper.