Finally losing my pooner virginity

[LusciousLouis]

So after lurking (and learning) for several months I will finally be seeing my first SP this week. I took some vacation time to unwind and to also give me a flexible schedule.

I prefer younger, petite women so I tried booking with Lily Lace for today as it was supposed to be her first day in Winnipeg. But alas she was not available. She has suggested I attempt a booking for later in the week but she leaves Saturday.

In the meantime I contacted MGF and booked Amanda for Wednesday. She looks fantastic and I'm really looking forward to it.

Then this morning I saw an ad for Soniya from Vipotg. I called the number and asked to book her for next Monday. Without asking me for any of my contact info (name, number, etc) the girl I spoke with said "OK call back Monday morning to confirm....LOL. I can only assume she used call display and penciled my cell number in for a time.

I have been lucky enough to have had sex with a number of beautiful women in my life (for free - but we all know it's never really for "free"...lol) but now being in my mid forties I find the chasing and capturing doesn't happen anymore. Paying a beautiful SP looks like the only way I'm going to be able to enjoy myself without any drama. But I have to say I'm a little nervous. I have never paid for play before and even though I have read every thread here for months I'm still somewhat unsure what to expect.

Will the girl be into it? Even though I look ten years younger than my age and I'm considered good looking will she look at me as a desperate aging man or make me feel like she's attracted to me? Will I be too nervous to perform - I have never needed Viagra but I plan on taking one beforehand because I notice I don't get aroused nearly as easily as I used to. Will I have time to make a connection with the girl and get the job done in only an hour? Another concern is 'finishing' the job. This has been an ever-increasing problem for me and it worries me.

Fwiw thank you to the many of you who's posts I have found helpful.

 

[chuckertmg]

Welcome to middle age, Louis. Viagra works wonders; even if you don't 'need' it you start functioning like you did when you were much younger, and it's awesome. All of us closing in on 50 have had those concerns, and you're at about the average age of hobbiests visiting s.p.'s so you'll fit right in. Different girls are into it to different degrees. Some are great actresses and some aren't so great. You'll have a full range of experiences and one is never like the next.

Great choice with Amanda. I had lunch with her today and she's gorgeous. Super relaxed - so friendly that she puts you at ease immediately. And skilled. Very skilled. You won't have trouble 'finishing around the net' - as they say in soccer. If you want to impress her brush up on a few Spanish sayings; that was her first language before French. And one further tip if you like beautiful, enthusiastic S.P.'s who are very petite: Laeticia from MGF is coming to town on the 18th - for guys like you and me, I would suggest she's an absolute must-see.

 

[shopaoface]

Will the girl be into it?

At the end of the day, the ladies are doing this for the money. Its a very lucrative (and one of the oldest) business around the world. As with all businesses, the customer is always right - so whether or not they're enjoying themselves, it doesn't matter. With that being said if you are being rude or come off as violent threat, these ladies carry enough respect for themselves that they will choose not to see you or respectfully end your session. They know the different markets & what type of clientele they can attract - and they carry the experience to know what buttons to push during a session to make things 'work'.