Yeah I guess, I've had a few text me just to chat, but when they text to get me to book an appointment is when I feel like i'm being put on the spot. That's why I don't respond too them.
Fewer men paying for sex...
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That never really bothered me..if I enjoy their company and I have the money I usually go see them, but if you have a SO etc, those 1am texts of hey baby you wanna come see me? are definitely crossing the line and can lead to all kinds of complications.
Saying that fewer men are paying for sex really means fewer men are having sex.
Either that are fewer men are admitting they're paying
In reality, thanks to craigslist & other sites... there has never been more sps
There's even a dating site called name your price dot com where you pay just to have a date
Just cause someone can write an article doesn't mean they know anything
Either that are fewer men are admitting they're paying
In reality, thanks to craigslist & other sites... there has never been more sps
There's even a dating site called name your price dot com where you pay just to have a date
Just cause someone can write an article doesn't mean they know anything
It wouldn't really surprise me if less men were paying for sex.
I have no stats to go by.
My sp has made comments about how slow things are for over a year now, not just her everyone in Calgary,
I'm sure there are girls who are the latest flavor who wouldn't feel it, but for a long time now like I said she has been telling me these things.
And just off hand, I go to a titty bar once in awhile, and they are dead most of the time, when Calgary used to have a lot of stripper bars we are done to three and you go in there and most times there pretty empty.
I don't think less men are paying for sex, I think patterns are shifting.
Men are paying for sex on line.
Cam girls seem to be the thing,
Lazy ass men to lazy are scared to leave there house are now getting off on line.
Maybe not scared broke, a nice looking hot cam girl some of them are charging six seven eight bucks a minute.
You can blow your pooning budget on a cam girl in a very short time especially if your bored and alone and the computer is sitting there every dam night.
It is simple easy and no risk for the most part. I bet you a lot of guys that is what there doing.
I have no stats to go by.
My sp has made comments about how slow things are for over a year now, not just her everyone in Calgary,
I'm sure there are girls who are the latest flavor who wouldn't feel it, but for a long time now like I said she has been telling me these things.
And just off hand, I go to a titty bar once in awhile, and they are dead most of the time, when Calgary used to have a lot of stripper bars we are done to three and you go in there and most times there pretty empty.
I don't think less men are paying for sex, I think patterns are shifting.
Men are paying for sex on line.
Cam girls seem to be the thing,
Lazy ass men to lazy are scared to leave there house are now getting off on line.
Maybe not scared broke, a nice looking hot cam girl some of them are charging six seven eight bucks a minute.
You can blow your pooning budget on a cam girl in a very short time especially if your bored and alone and the computer is sitting there every dam night.
It is simple easy and no risk for the most part. I bet you a lot of guys that is what there doing.
Lack of money is only one reason for a man to cut back on his pooning. Lack of time is the other.
Most of us have to work long hours for our pooning budget. And if we're blessed with wives and kids, then attending to their needs takes up most of what time remains. Which means finding an hour or two to hook up with the sp of our choice is difficult at
best. Remember, if you get caught pooning (by anyone) wifey will have divorce papers served on your sorry ass nine times out of ten. Sorry, that should read ninety-nine times out of one hundred. Oh wait, I meant nine hundred and ninety-nine times out of one thousand. And once you get hauled into divorce court, the child support payments will kill your pooning budget forever.
No-strings-attached hookups do happen. Too bad most of the pretty ladies who are into this sign up with an escort agency or mp to help them find their male dance partners. :nod:
Most of us have to work long hours for our pooning budget. And if we're blessed with wives and kids, then attending to their needs takes up most of what time remains. Which means finding an hour or two to hook up with the sp of our choice is difficult at
best. Remember, if you get caught pooning (by anyone) wifey will have divorce papers served on your sorry ass nine times out of ten. Sorry, that should read ninety-nine times out of one hundred. Oh wait, I meant nine hundred and ninety-nine times out of one thousand. And once you get hauled into divorce court, the child support payments will kill your pooning budget forever.
No-strings-attached hookups do happen. Too bad most of the pretty ladies who are into this sign up with an escort agency or mp to help them find their male dance partners. :nod:
service is not as good as could be so u dont even go as much, girls that want to slap condom on you quick and want you to do a couple positions cg mish and doggy and hurry and cum and bye thanks for your money, maybe better to stay home and beatoff and save money
I kind of have the motto of work less/spend less, work more/spend more. I also despise debt as it feels like being in shackles. Seriously though, I know a lot of people who have spent all the money they make long before they even make it. My focus is on my other revenue streams right now as well.
I dunno though, my dentist (and a certain Dr. every 4 months) calls me to remind me to book an appointment with them, is this really so different? I kind of admire the lady's initiative. If she were a widget salesperson she'd probably get a raise for such behavior.
I guess you have to draw a line somewhere though, what are the boundaries between SP/client and how are they decided? ...uh-oh...feel a post coming on...
Just my observation not written in stone
I don't think that men are having less sex they are just more adept at communicating their needs and expectations and even putting ultimatums to their significant others . This is what I have been hearing from my clients also practising more self control because money isn't as secure as in the past It also seems people are making good money but they have to work much harder for it than in the past plus the way the work force is if you are at a place in your career where demands are very very high they are willing to sacrifice life style for the short window they have that good pay-check .
how can a hard working man not be sexy as hell ?
I totally agree the texting is in very poor taste but what's your opinion on emailing ? Please share thank you .
I don't think that men are having less sex they are just more adept at communicating their needs and expectations and even putting ultimatums to their significant others . This is what I have been hearing from my clients also practising more self control because money isn't as secure as in the past It also seems people are making good money but they have to work much harder for it than in the past plus the way the work force is if you are at a place in your career where demands are very very high they are willing to sacrifice life style for the short window they have that good pay-check .
how can a hard working man not be sexy as hell ?
I totally agree the texting is in very poor taste but what's your opinion on emailing ? Please share thank you .
You are forgetting one thing: the mid 2000's was the rise of the internet dating sites - sex is a lot more available now than it was before, simply because there is much more opportunity to hook up.
Who goes to see SPs? Mostly people who for one reason or another don't have ready access to desirable females. That might be because they are older, unattractive, lack confidence, lack social skills, are married, or something like that. The other major reason would be because they want to do stuff/roleplay in ways that most civilian women would refuse.
As the internet dating scene exploded, the need for average younger men to see SPs declined so fewer would have been doing it. IMO that is what is changing the overall numbers. When those guys get older, they will likely be more open to the idea.
Frankly, I don't understand why any SP would even want to see clients under thirty, or even mid 30s, for the simple reason that those guys have ready access to tens of thousands of girls for free, so why exactly do they want/need to pay for it? And what will their attitude be?
Some markets are strong, some markets are weak, but the rampant reports of offers of BBFS seem to indicate there is a segment that is hurting and services are being offered to try to make up the loss of revenue that would have never been made if enough cash was flowing.
I don't mind a women asking me for an appointment or dropping a few hints.
Like someone said, her dentist,
my dentist automatically books me,
he even charged me for a visit when I didn't show, I didn't know I had an appointment, I was on holidays and out of town actually but he insisted it was my fault, and insisted I pay the no show fee.
I didn't and never went back.
A lady dropping a few hints, in my opinion is not crossing the line or even texting you and asking you out of the blue.
As long as you are free to pass with no bad feelings.
And part of this is delivering on her end.
I know its about money but it shouldn't be simply a money grab.
I think from my end, it shouldn't be well she has a pussy,
just about what she has between her legs.
Like I said somewhere,
My sp is my muse.
Like someone said, her dentist,
my dentist automatically books me,
he even charged me for a visit when I didn't show, I didn't know I had an appointment, I was on holidays and out of town actually but he insisted it was my fault, and insisted I pay the no show fee.
I didn't and never went back.
A lady dropping a few hints, in my opinion is not crossing the line or even texting you and asking you out of the blue.
As long as you are free to pass with no bad feelings.
And part of this is delivering on her end.
I know its about money but it shouldn't be simply a money grab.
I think from my end, it shouldn't be well she has a pussy,
just about what she has between her legs.
Like I said somewhere,
My sp is my muse.
I recently had a discussion with a business owner in a mall. He is closing his shoe store and has plans to re-open elsewhere as a fashion outlet. Business always evolves because people evolve, their interests and needs change.
While I think that all of the comments in this thread have a bit of truth to them, I find that one just has to stay fresh, with your ideas and your offering. You don't want to reinvent yourself, you just want to stay abreast of the factors around you that affect you.
And let's not forget that some people don't even like change. A certain type of visitor may drop by for years because they prefer the consistency.
Anyone that thinks this industry is simple/easy, truly misses the boat. The ladies that are successful over time are multifaceted and multi-talented (and I don't just mean in the bedroom)!
While I think that all of the comments in this thread have a bit of truth to them, I find that one just has to stay fresh, with your ideas and your offering. You don't want to reinvent yourself, you just want to stay abreast of the factors around you that affect you.
And let's not forget that some people don't even like change. A certain type of visitor may drop by for years because they prefer the consistency.
Anyone that thinks this industry is simple/easy, truly misses the boat. The ladies that are successful over time are multifaceted and multi-talented (and I don't just mean in the bedroom)!
Absolutely they are! I sometimes get the impression from guys on here that they think many ladies are 'one-trick ponies' who have no other constructive interests outside of taking their clothes off 5 or 6 times a day.
Part of the appeal for me anyway is getting to know a lady, her other interests and activities and aspirations, things she is naturally good it, things she wants to be good at. There is never any inquisition, just taking a sincere, genuine interest in the lady, the human being, while being careful and cognizant not to cross the line of invading privacy. And vice-versa. Not 'my life is an open book' mentality, but I am proud of what I do at and away from the office and have nothing to hide. It fosters a mutual trust, respect and admiration ... and only enhances the interludes we share together.
