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PuntMeister

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I really respect TaraGreen’s responses and explanations to our concerns.

Both parties can and should be a little wary with first encounters.

I can humbly say from experience that providing a reference can affect the relationship with the reference. It is of course polite to check in with them first, which brings it’s own time burden and somewhat awkward loss of established intimacy. Then you don’t know if or how they may be contacted, or if they may be fished for unwarranted information or implicated in a scam, etc. So I have provided references quite sparingly. Seems to be more an east-coast thing in my experience.

The gift card deposit keeps things anonymous for the first encounter, and that can be be reasonable, but it doesn’t guarantee anyone’s safety or genuine intentions. And yes, there have been ripoffs and abuses. And there have also been trolls and time wasters which must be infuriating. I have found the $50 coffee talk a better alternative for feeling things out both ways, when personal screening is a priority.

The westcoast way seems to be more along the lines of feeling people out with texts and phone conversations before agreeing to see them, and then go into it with positive karma. Trolls and no-shows get blacklisted as they should, and scammers and flakes get reviewed as they should.

Regardless, I respect any SP’s right to establish protocols she feels are necessary, and I respect any client’s right to comply with them or look elsewhere.

May all your adventures be wonderous!

-Punt.
 
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