Oh, nothing personal but.... considering OJ was not found guilty of what it was he was charged with, just what line might you be referring to? Just wondering.Hoops said:
Females who refuse to work
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It's work being a wife
It's hard work being a wife. The problem is that most women no longer know how.
A wife/helpmate manages her man's social life so that he maintains the contacts necessary to enhance his business.
A wife/helpmate manages her man's home so that he can devote his energy to his business.
With both people working, the couple's social life becomes a matter of entertaining a few friends and not a networking exercise to build the couple's business.
With both people working the couple's home becomes chaotic and the stress at home is just as bad as the stress at work.
It's the reason that so many divorce. It's easier to find a moment of peace when you are single than it is when you are married.
It's the reason I poon. Women are so busy working that they won't put any effort into having sex with their man. Men now have to settle for a pale imitation because the real thing no longer exists.
It's the reason I have a housekeeper. The only way to have a managed home these days is to pay someone who isn't in a relationship with you. That way they can be fired.
It's the reason that people can be home decorators, proffessional shoppers, social arrangers and home caterers. The things that a wife used to do are now things that are too demeaning for a woman to do unless you are hiring them as a proffessional.
I watching CNN today and apparently 50% of American Women are unmarried. We now have unmarried men adopting children rather than taking the risk of getting married.
Woman have succeeded in making themselves unnecessary for a man to be successful. Now you just hire the service you need from them.
It's hard work being a wife. The problem is that most women no longer know how.
A wife/helpmate manages her man's social life so that he maintains the contacts necessary to enhance his business.
A wife/helpmate manages her man's home so that he can devote his energy to his business.
With both people working, the couple's social life becomes a matter of entertaining a few friends and not a networking exercise to build the couple's business.
With both people working the couple's home becomes chaotic and the stress at home is just as bad as the stress at work.
It's the reason that so many divorce. It's easier to find a moment of peace when you are single than it is when you are married.
It's the reason I poon. Women are so busy working that they won't put any effort into having sex with their man. Men now have to settle for a pale imitation because the real thing no longer exists.
It's the reason I have a housekeeper. The only way to have a managed home these days is to pay someone who isn't in a relationship with you. That way they can be fired.
It's the reason that people can be home decorators, proffessional shoppers, social arrangers and home caterers. The things that a wife used to do are now things that are too demeaning for a woman to do unless you are hiring them as a proffessional.
I watching CNN today and apparently 50% of American Women are unmarried. We now have unmarried men adopting children rather than taking the risk of getting married.
Woman have succeeded in making themselves unnecessary for a man to be successful. Now you just hire the service you need from them.
Well i agree in most cases being a housewive isnt easy work. But then there are those who sit at home,dont have kids,dont do housework, and are poor company. When it's all said and done they want 50% of everything you own.
Good stuff!
Good for you Szabina!
Hopefully that phase of yer life is over.
Now if yer lucky you can find a man, get married & have sum kids.
Nuthin' warms a man's heart more than seein' his woman at home cleanin' an takin care uv tha kids.
It's the way GOD intened it!
Do the right thing Szabina
Euro_SZabina said:I love working, at one point I had 3 part time jobs. I love being busy!
Good for you Szabina!
Hopefully that phase of yer life is over.
Now if yer lucky you can find a man, get married & have sum kids.
Nuthin' warms a man's heart more than seein' his woman at home cleanin' an takin care uv tha kids.
It's the way GOD intened it!
Do the right thing Szabina
Your cousin should have left this bum. She's not doin him any favours by allowing this to go on. My next door neighbor he hasnt worked for 20+ years now.
Euro_SZabina said:My girl cousin works full time, who looks like Cindy Clawford, beautiful woman inside and out, and her husband never worked who is about 18 years older then her and just rides all day on his Harley.
She loves him too much, would do anything for him.
Just if she would know when I lived with them when I was new in Canada and didn't speak english he was hitting on me and wanted to fuck me when I was taking a shower.
Luckily nothing happened.
I love working, at one point I had 3 part time jobs. I love being busy!
While I agree that staying home and taking care of a kid and a house etc is work, I don't agree that it is 'different' if there are kids or not.
(Sorry my grammar is a bit off, I'm pretty exhausted, about to crash).
The important issue here is that an agreement was made prior to the marriage or to having the kid or whatever and then afterwards one person wants to not fulfill their part of the agreement.
Basically it turns into emotional blackmail where one partner (usually the guy) has to just ignore the fact that the other partner, who is supposed to love and respect him (or her) couldn't care less about what they agreed to or promised to do because their partner is powerless to force them to keep their word.
People, if you are with a person who repeatedly breaks their word, doesn't keep their promises and/or doesn't do what they said they would do, RUN don't walk away from the relationship BEFORE getting married or having kids.. WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!! Do you really want to be with someone whose word you can't trust? Whose promises are meaningless?
Personally, I'd rather be alone.
(Sorry my grammar is a bit off, I'm pretty exhausted, about to crash).
The important issue here is that an agreement was made prior to the marriage or to having the kid or whatever and then afterwards one person wants to not fulfill their part of the agreement.
Basically it turns into emotional blackmail where one partner (usually the guy) has to just ignore the fact that the other partner, who is supposed to love and respect him (or her) couldn't care less about what they agreed to or promised to do because their partner is powerless to force them to keep their word.
People, if you are with a person who repeatedly breaks their word, doesn't keep their promises and/or doesn't do what they said they would do, RUN don't walk away from the relationship BEFORE getting married or having kids.. WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!! Do you really want to be with someone whose word you can't trust? Whose promises are meaningless?
Personally, I'd rather be alone.
uhhh..... Randy, if your man OJ was found not guilty, when you suggest the need to pull an OJ, uhhh..... just what might you be referring to? Just what does pulling an OJ mean... in the context of being found not guilty?LittleAsianGuy said:The worst was this one guy who i use to worked with he worked two jobs 80 hours a week while his wife stays home. This gal doesnt cook or do anything plus they have no kids. Now after 5 years she wants a divorce and 1/2 of their houseRandy Whorewald said:He may need to pull an OJ.Hoops said:
Pretty much a...
... similar thing to what happened to William Shatner's wife
Found dead in William Shatner's swimming pool, Los Angeles, 9-Aug-1999.
Nerine Kidd Shatner.
But of course, this was an accident.
OTBn said:
... similar thing to what happened to William Shatner's wife
Found dead in William Shatner's swimming pool, Los Angeles, 9-Aug-1999.
Nerine Kidd Shatner.
But of course, this was an accident.
I know someone in this situation as well. The wife "seemed" like a great woman, she was working and had a good job. But as soon as they got married, no more working, she did not want any kids, rarely cooks, no school, or she doesnt do anything to improve her life. She is basically a dude. Plus she smashed up two cars...LittleAsianGuy said:
Let me guess, these women, I bet none of them were actually born in Canada, and that they came to Canada until after they were in their teens or early twenties.
A few where born in canada and the others asian countrys. Mixture of whites and asians. It makes things difficult cause BC is such a expensive place to live.
Buntoss said:
We'll there is a simple solution. If she doesn't work, the husband can provide the necessities of life, the mortgage and food on the table. But he can omit her from the vacations, designer clothing, nice dinners out, etc. Maybe she will work then to contribute to those luxuries.
two words.......................... PRE NUP. simple as that. i don't trust most scandalous women out there these days. there are queens out there for sure but i'd say to about 80% of'em "bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks." (quote snoop dogg).
personally
I don't think woman should have the need to work.... after marraige and kids that is.. I think it should be an option... children do not get the same care.. and attention as they did before all the womens liberation bs.. not that Im against a liberated woman.. or independant strong woman... we need woman like that, but I do think it went it bit too far with woman trying to balance a full time job.. with a bunch of kids.. house work.. cooking and all the rest..... I do believe in house hold roles..........
I don't think woman should have the need to work.... after marraige and kids that is.. I think it should be an option... children do not get the same care.. and attention as they did before all the womens liberation bs.. not that Im against a liberated woman.. or independant strong woman... we need woman like that, but I do think it went it bit too far with woman trying to balance a full time job.. with a bunch of kids.. house work.. cooking and all the rest..... I do believe in house hold roles..........
Remindes me of the punch line to an old joke about the same thing.Euro_SZabina said:My girl cousin works full time, who looks like Cindy Clawford, beautiful woman inside and out, and her husband never worked who is about 18 years older then her and just rides all day on his Harley.
A woman asked about her husband who never works replied "I make the living and he makes the living worthwhile."
Miss*Bijou said:
tianna said:
Whether a woman works or not really isn't just her decision. Why should she get to decide that someone else should support her?
I don't have a problem with the first 6 years of a child's life but after they are in school full time, a woman should return to work unless the man is fine with her staying home (i.e. makes bucket loads of money).
Cooking & cleaning when the kids are in school full time is not a full time job by a long shot. I know, I've done it.
Either way a marriage needs to be treated like a partnership and both need to help each other out. There's no excuse for a woman to sit at home while watching her husband work 12 hours a day to make a living.
Now what to do about a bad situation? If you are a man who's wife refuses to work and sits at home, change all of the accounts so only you have access and do not give her any money other than to buy groceries, etc. she'll get the hint quickly.
If you are the wife with a loser husband sitting on his ass at home same thing. Without any money he will quickly seek work.
If you are a woman who also works but feel you are pulling more than 1/2 the workload then stop cleaning, or making meals. He'll get the hint pretty quickly.
The situation I find interesting is when both partners work (no kids) but you make more money than she does yet she feels entitled to the extra money you make.
Here's a good trick that I learned...
When you are looking to MARRY a girl, pick someone with the same work ethic, drive to succeed, love for her job and hard working attitude that you have. The same goes to girls looking to marry a guy.
If a girl just sat around and her parents paid for everything all her life, guess what? You're gonna be the next one to pay.
If you are looking for a pretty young arm trophy that you know will just live off your money etc... DO NOT MARRY HER.
Find a girl who wants the same things in life as you do, who works as hard as you do to get them. If you want a girl who won't just quit her job and sit around, find one who has invested a lot of time and effort to get where she is. Even if it's just 'head cashier' at least she's worked hard to get there and will feel she has something invested in the job.
Of course, none of this makes things 100% certain, sometimes life can kick you in the ass and shit happens. If your partner gets hurt or sick or something and can't work, well, guess what? It wasn't just something that happened to THEM it was something that happened to BOTH OF YOU and both of you are going to have to deal with it. I've seen plenty of cases where girls left guys who got hurt on the job, taking half of their court settlement, intended to provide them with medical care and support them for the rest of their lives, in the divorce (how fucked up is that? Thank you lame-ass leftie judges).
Guys, when you're picking an SP it's fine to think with the little head, but when you're thinking of getting married, use the big one...
When you are looking to MARRY a girl, pick someone with the same work ethic, drive to succeed, love for her job and hard working attitude that you have. The same goes to girls looking to marry a guy.
If a girl just sat around and her parents paid for everything all her life, guess what? You're gonna be the next one to pay.
If you are looking for a pretty young arm trophy that you know will just live off your money etc... DO NOT MARRY HER.
Find a girl who wants the same things in life as you do, who works as hard as you do to get them. If you want a girl who won't just quit her job and sit around, find one who has invested a lot of time and effort to get where she is. Even if it's just 'head cashier' at least she's worked hard to get there and will feel she has something invested in the job.
Of course, none of this makes things 100% certain, sometimes life can kick you in the ass and shit happens. If your partner gets hurt or sick or something and can't work, well, guess what? It wasn't just something that happened to THEM it was something that happened to BOTH OF YOU and both of you are going to have to deal with it. I've seen plenty of cases where girls left guys who got hurt on the job, taking half of their court settlement, intended to provide them with medical care and support them for the rest of their lives, in the divorce (how fucked up is that? Thank you lame-ass leftie judges).
Guys, when you're picking an SP it's fine to think with the little head, but when you're thinking of getting married, use the big one...
