It was a joke my dear, as is pouring gasoline on the bed, etc. Sorry to have offended you.
Female nasty after marriage
- Thread starter LittleAsianGuy
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The main part of the problem is these guys constantly worship these gals buying Queer gifts and they dont stand up for themselves. Very hard for anyone to respect a whimp.
I call this part of the female prerogative. Men should be extremely careful of a woman with this mindset, which is that the role of the man is ultimately to service her desire to produce offspring and support her and the family. Now of course in long term coupling, many men do agree to raising a family. However, the difference between this and those women with that mindset is that the man loses himself as a person - from handing over his pay check wholesale, monitoring all activities, having to account for all his time, to be at expected places at expected times day in and day out, to have all expenses approved first, etc. The whole of the man's life and efforts in his labors are subverted to the priorities as set by his mate, especially with what she might feel as her "clock ticking". Furthermore, she has the pretenses to hold the moral high ground because now there is a child to support, for which she has been designated prime caregiver and thus has the dictate of resources he acquires. Unfortunately, women like these fail to realize that the primary relationship that makes this all possible is the one between her and the man. If that were to be extinguished due to the stresses of family that she further ex a cer bates through such a mindset, any hope of support for her family are at great risk - and so is the risk to the child of inheriting a broken home.
Men should be able to foresee this. It has taken me a long time to get to this point, and the last time I was bamboozled into having a child with someone, luckily she did miscarry. It would have been a disaster had the baby come to term. Should a man find himself in the position of his mate wanting a child, he should explain to her under what terms that would make him happy - and that should be that the relationship between her and him should be paramount above that of the family, and she should be doing her best to ensure that (as so should he). The rest (a family) will come naturally.
Women should also realize that having a child is not a given right. If she does not choose a mate carefully, or if she's with an inappropriate mate presently, does not mean she should forcibly having a child just because her "clock is ticking". This is nothing but self blackmail, and blackmail of her mate, for a wholly self imposed desire.
I have been in similar relationships before. The first couple of times, I walked away when it got unbearable. The last time, I turned the table on her. I started calling her (no job at the time) at home every few hours and asking her to give me an update on all of the house chores for that day. By day 3, I think she got the message loud and clear. We had a good talk shortly after that, and came to the conclusion that it was an issue of trust or the lack there of. She came to the realization that she didn't trust me enough, hence, all the phone calls when I was away from her. And I didn't love her enough because I couldn't tolerate her not trusting me. So we told each other to piss off and moved on.
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Growing some balls sounds unlikely!
Since this wimp will never stand up to her face to face, eye to eye, maybe he should go one step further...?
WHile she is sleeping, open her mouth slightly and pinch a loaf!
Another is simply move out but infest the home with thousands of cockroaches!
Since this wimp will never stand up to her face to face, eye to eye, maybe he should go one step further...?
WHile she is sleeping, open her mouth slightly and pinch a loaf!
Another is simply move out but infest the home with thousands of cockroaches!
Most guys are afraid of leaving and think they cant do better. Plus most people look down on pooning. I told him to give it a try since his wife is such a abusive biatch but he refused.
The best things about a loving relationship are close friendship and easy & comfortable companionship. Trust and acceptance of the other individual's nature are two key elements. Good intimate sex usually finds itself in the presence of the foregoing.
If any of the above are missing, then first don't get into anything. If the first is already toast, then secondly, get out even if the cost seems high because it is the rest of your life you must consider. Forget any thought of revenge; after all it is equally your fault you are in the relationship. Any spiteful deed by you will just make the cost greater.... be smart.
My advice is to take a long time to know your partner, several years in fact. Over that period of time, signs will appear, and do not disregard or distort these. Good signs are welcome, others should make you think about why you are in the relationship. Habit and need are not worthy reasons.
If any of the above are missing, then first don't get into anything. If the first is already toast, then secondly, get out even if the cost seems high because it is the rest of your life you must consider. Forget any thought of revenge; after all it is equally your fault you are in the relationship. Any spiteful deed by you will just make the cost greater.... be smart.
My advice is to take a long time to know your partner, several years in fact. Over that period of time, signs will appear, and do not disregard or distort these. Good signs are welcome, others should make you think about why you are in the relationship. Habit and need are not worthy reasons.
Samantha laughed. "That's mine, tonight; want to make a bet? He's got money, too."
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"I don't know. I haven't met him, yet. The night's young," Samantha sipped her beer.
"You going to keep him?" Jo asked.
"You know me, honey. I practice the four F's--find 'em, fuck 'em, fleece 'em and forget 'em!" Samantha grinned.
"Honey, honey, that's no way to be," Jo said, blowing smoke from her cigarette over Samantha's head.
"Honey, I ain't going to bet you. I'd lose. What's his name?" Jo asked, and took a drag of her cigarette.
"I don't know. I haven't met him, yet. The night's young," Samantha sipped her beer.
"You going to keep him?" Jo asked.
"You know me, honey. I practice the four F's--find 'em, fuck 'em, fleece 'em and forget 'em!" Samantha grinned.
"Honey, honey, that's no way to be," Jo said, blowing smoke from her cigarette over Samantha's head.
