feelings before and after pooning

[peterchen]

before pooning: horny, excited

after pooning: guilty because of my pocket was again empty. and strangely, after each appointment i always told myself that i would quit this hobbit and that was the last appointment for me but days later, the urge of pooning came back
anyone feels the same? and any good advise on how one can quit pooning?

 

[spaceghost]

after pooning: guilty because of my pocket was again empty. and strangely, after each appointment i always told myself that i would quit this hobbit and that was the last appointment for me

And the urge to quit is 'cause you feel guilty for an empty pocket... or 'cause of some sort of emotional void?

 

[peterchen]

i think a little bit of both. when i was still a rookie of pooning, the cause of emotional void played a big part but now after i convincing myself that everyone needs sex, the money part starts kicking in

 

[kehoe]

You're not alone peterchen. We've all felt that way from time to time. If you genuinely want to quit, you probably shouldn't hang around here too much. If it's front and center in your mind, the urge will eventually take over. If you can get past that first month or two, you might make it. Or, you could give in and have a helluva time and be broke. Not a bad way to go, really.

 

[peterchen]

one day i even tried to count how much money i've spent on this hobbit. close to 5 digits in 4 years

 

[peterchen]

there's not much to do at night in victoria. so what i normally do is play some games and browse this and that site and Perb is always the first site i visited. too bad eh

 

[Phoenix]

and Perb is always the first site i visited. too bad eh

We could ask the mod to ban you. lol
I feel the same way. I don't poon that often but when you are married, like I am, I feel a (a little, but not for long) sad, disgusted, for doing it. Also, the loss of revenue could along way into buying things I might enjoy that would last longer.

 

[spaceghost]

I feel a (a little, but not for long) sad, disgusted, for doing it.

All these pangs of guilt.

Why sad and disgusted?

 

[peterchen]

i would feel sad and disgusted if the session with a girl turned out to be different than what i expected. for example, a nice looking gal with a smelly pussy

 

[Curley]

peterchen ... I have found this hobby, when done with my head thinking, the greatest experience! For me it depends whether I'm just so horney I can't take it anymore ... now that's when, unless I'm in Vancouver or similar city, I should just do a quick hj. I am pissed if I try to call for an SP, I am sure at the end I would have had more excitement with Rosie than being up-selled by a short-order gal.

With proper budgeting I have been able to build quality into my pooning time ... within a select number of cities and or SPs. I prefer to spend more than 20 minutes with a lady and to have some genuine fun! Like the two days I spent with Lulu in Whistler recently, I had the best of time and I believe she did too.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[Chingada]

Something to Think About

Answer these twelve questions to assess whether you may have a problem with sexual addiction.

1.Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?

2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?

3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?

4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?

5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?

6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?

7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?

8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?

9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?

10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?

11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?

12Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling ho peless, alienated from others, or suicidal?

If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a resource or to attend an Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.

 

[peterchen]

i think most of us(males) would answer yes to more than one of the above questions easily. for me, yes to 1. 3.(not always) 11.

 

[Hollywood147]

Holy Poop If you have to count it, count it before.
LOL LOL

 

[Phoenix]

Re: Something to Think About

1.Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you?

Do ya mean from my Mom. Hell ya!

 

[Phoenix]

Christ, I answered yes to all of them except 9 & 11.
I'm fucked!

 

[Dr.Love]

I don't like the implications of where I see this thread is headed. Rather than going through these questions with such negative suggestions (to which I think I would answer no to all of them), I'll like to turn them upside down and ask a few myself.

1. Do you feel so good after leaving your ATF that instead of driving home you sense that you could really effortlessly float all the way home you feel so relaxed and euphoric at the same time?

2. Do you feel that the woman you have just been with is an absolutely wonderful person and that seeing her has not only made your day but your whole week?

3. Do you feel that the only problem with leaving her after your session is that you're going to have to wait a cerain length of time before seeing her again?

4. Do you feel that this time, as in most times you see her, you have learned something about what she likes, and that that realization makes you look forward even more to seeing her next time?

5. Do you think that being with her is not only a great sexual experience but something that makes you reflect on the joys of being human.

6. Do you think that what you do with her is not only beautiful but is one of the most precious things in life?

7. OK, I know most of us spend more than we originally anticipate and some of us enough that we are conscious that we are reducing our potential standard of living, but there are certain things we can do such as sacrificing here and there and making an effort to earn extra income.

I'd love to say more.

 

[spaceghost]

I just wanted to know why Phoenix felt sad and disgusted.

Some of you have been reading too many of the S/O's Cosmo magazines.... LOL

 

[Curley]

Re: Something to Think About

If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a resource or to attend an Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.

WTF, so what bullshit magazine did you dig this up ... hopefully, you didn't come up with this crap by yourself, otherwise you need help!

 

[spaceghost]

Re: Something to Think About

If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to attend an Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.

Naww Curley... I think it's just a shill for the next PA meeting.

 

[Curley]

spaceghost ... I like the way you think! The Vancouver Chapter of SAA!