It has now been a few months since I'd received an e-mail from my Mistress (which, in itself, was a set of instructions from Her).
All that was missing from that e-mail of Hers, was: "That is an ORDER!"
Suffice it to say, those instructions from Her are even now still ringing in my ears.
I will now bring to mind what those orders from my Mistress were, in an e-mail that I'd received from Her:
"When I see you next week I will refresh your memory, again, as to how I like it.
Since that day is still a week away, I'm giving you enough notice to think and dream about ME,........constantly!
As I sit here,....thinking,......fantasizing,....I am WET,....thinking about smothering you...
And all the other things that I want to do....to you....or have you do....for ME!
Now, I want you to tell ME, when I see you next, just how frustrated and horny I've made you, and just how much that makes you fantasize about ME?
Let's just say that I want you hungry for MY attention!"
Since they were orders from my Mistress, I made sure to carry them out - by dreaming about Her,............constantly!
And, just one of many ways that served to reinforce this mindset of my Mistress, was when I'd meet up with Her, She would slowly but surely, attach, by snapping in place, a "strict" leather snap-on cock and ball harness around my balls and cock.
My Mistress had given me Her blessing for wearing that rather constricting harness when I was in Her presence, as well as, when I was away from Her.
Okay, so I've already come to know my Mistress' reasoning behind that - that particular harness served as a sort of power exchange for Her, and it also served to keep my cock in check, so to speak.
Of course, with that constant reminder in place, my thoughts were only for my Mistress!
Something else that my Mistress hasn't been shy about using to Her advantage, is "male oral servitude".
I must say, that "male oral servitude", as was brought to the fore in my previous account of Fem-Dom submission, made all the sense in the world, especially when I'd read a blog which actually dealt with and expanded on this very subject.
Notice, if you will, the following comments, as well as, real life experiences and how "male oral servitude" played an integral part in them:
"1) A young woman I used to know online years ago told me about a "service agreement" she had with an older man.
She said that, "basically he liked to eat pussy and I liked having my pussy eaten.
So we would meet once a month or so when we go for a nice meal and come back to my apartment and he had his dessert."
2) Erica Jong, the writer, describes a unique friendship with a male friend of hers.
She would drop by his office once in a while to receive oral servicing.
"An hour or so later," she says "here I am walking down a Manhattan street with a certain part of me fully satisfied and with a knowing smile on my face."
She says that was all part of their friendship.
She, by the way, was married to a different person at the time.
In both these cases, the men provided a service in pure friendship, with no reciprocation and no strings attached.
Do you think this will be more and more of a commonplace occurrence as gender roles evolve?
Would any of you women welcome such a friendship?
Mind you, this is not with a stranger, but rather with a male friend that you have known for some time.
Also, do you have a friend currently that you would welcome this from?"
Starting things off was this one Mistress that chimed in and said the following:
"I know not everyone here is a sub, but I'm a Domina, so if you're interested, then please join in.
It's about oral worship from a Domina's perspective.
For those that think women don't enjoy this as much, I'm looking for a few who do, like myself."
I must say, another Mistress, in particular, then went out on a limb and responded accordingly:
"I've had arrangements like this before and would be interested in this type of arrangement.
I find men who love eating pussy incredibly sexy and I absolutely adore being eaten by a man like that.
You guys take so much care and are so attentive.
It's very sexy!
As a woman, it's not often that you run across a man who is more interested in pleasing you than he is in his own pleasure."
One Mistress openly acknowledged the following:
"I have this agreement at present and he is very obliging.
He just LOVES eating pussy, he LOVES the taste and enjoys the fact that when I cum it is all his doing.
Works for me!"
However, this Lady had Her reservations about such a scenario taking place:
"I have attempted to find compatible individuals for an arrangement like this, but it seems that there is always an issue: creepy/clingy emotional behavior, pressure for reciprocation after the fact, not taking direction.
But the worst part: the fact that grown people need to be reminded to practice good personal and especially oral hygiene is kind of awful to have to mention but it is true: if your breath is rank, I'm not letting you near my lady parts!"
Another Mistress wrote in, reservedly so:
"I would definitely welcome such an arrangement, with a few revisions, but I would have to know that the man I'm with completely understands that I want no emotional attachments.
Work is most important to me now and I have no interest in a conventional relationship nor dating.
I have to have someone that is willing to go through the "getting to know you" process and who I'm physically and sexually attracted to.
I need someone whose complete satisfaction is derived from pleasing and who takes great pride in a job well done.
It's been beyond difficult to find all these qualities in one man and I only desire to be with one man.
I agree with the statement that "very few females actually believe the "'no-reciprocation" part of the proposition."
I think a lot of men want more and simply say there's no reciprocation to get us interested, but when the meeting occurs, I doubt that they'll actually honor their word.
And, I wholeheartedly agree, that "calling it non-reciprocal for the men involved is a bit of a misnomer" since you are very much getting something out of the arrangement - you've been deemed worthy enough to pleasure a woman with your tongue and allowed to be near her most intimate parts, not to mention the sexual pleasure you gain from the taste and the feel of her on your face and the arousal that her moans of pleasure stir within you.
So, yes, it's a one-way oral arrangement, but let's not pretend that it's non-reciprocal here... you're no martyr!" ;-)
There's no way the men involved would do it if they were getting nothing out of the arrangement.
Let's be real!
These days not very many people do things, especially of a sexual nature, out of the kindness of their hearts.
I also agree that I do not want to just be satisfied by one activity.
And, I love my body to be caressed, kissed, and massaged,.....I don't want things to be limited to just oral pleasure."
"It was another very nice Lady that wrote in and said:
"Yes, my dear, I would fully and freely welcome this arrangement in my life.
However, in my experience, the men I try to have "casual" encounters with frequently get feelings about me.
Men are strange, they often say they want NSA but when you give it to them, they suddenly renege.
Am I wrong ladies?
If a man is interested and can actually abide by the no emotional attachment bit, they are quite rare.
I wish there was someone like you in my area."
Yet, another Mistress went on to relate with the following:
"I remember seeing an ad for a no strings attached pussy licker on craigslist a few moons ago.
He also had limited success.
While many women, including myself, love the idea, I've yet to find a man to restore my faith in this arrangement.
And, as stated before, there needs to be some semblance of a friendship and/or attraction to help keep this arrangement fulfilling for both parties.
This is something worth thinking about:
"If a woman posted an ad on CL offering NSA non-reciprocal oral, she would be overwhelmed with men jumping at that deal.
On the other hand, if you check the CL listing for "Men Looking for Women", there are dozens of ads for the reverse in a major metropolitan area and I am willing to bet, very few, if any, are seriously answered.""
It was this one submissive, even though he had never enjoyed such an arrangement, that went on to relate the following:
"While I’ve never had this arrangement, it’s something I’ve yearned for the majority of my life.
I can only imagine how much time, effort, and heartache I’d have saved if I’d lived in world where I felt like I could say, “I don’t want to be your boyfriend and have sex with you, I want to be your good friend who goes down on you.”
There's just nothing else that feels so intimate to me. I feel close to the woman, safe, useful, calm -- like all my problems and concerns just cease to be in the moments I spend in that service to her.
It feels like, of everyplace in the world I could possibly be, I'm exactly where I belong."
And, yet another submissive made mention of what he was involved in:
"Mmmmmm,....Yes!
I had a no reciprocation agreement with a gorgeous lady for about 6 months last year, and it was fabulous.
She had recently finished a longterm relationship and was looking to see what she had been missing out on over the years.
The first time we got together was a Saturday afternoon.
We had chatted a few times re: maybe getting together, and she called saying she was soooo horny and needed something straight away.
I was driving but happy to make a diversion.
I explained that I didn't have much time, so it would have to be quick.
She said: "Then, you'd better be good!"
Moments later, she met me at the door in a sarong, took me to the lounge room where she had a mattress already laid out on the floor, then removed the sarong, and lay down....
A fabulous womanly rubenesque body and that sorta smile a lady gets when she's horny.
"Well, if you've gotta be quick, what are you waiting for?" she said.
I stripped and began with some 'getting to know you' touching and caressing.
A couple of minutes of that and I was between her legs.
I like to keep a lady on the edge for a while, but she was demanding to cum.
Phheeeeww,........when she did, I thought that she was going to wrench my head off my shoulders with her thrashing and twisting.....mmmmm fabulous!!
She had that yummy, heavenly 'I've just cum' smile when she said "I'll definitely be seeing you, again!"
We would meet regularly after that.
She would even text me and make the arrangements.
Sometimes it was straight to it.....I would lick her until she orgasmed, and then I'd leave.
And, other times it was dinner, drinks, then back to her place for a long massage and some leisurely licking where I would get a chance to keep her on the edge for as long as she could take it.
She said she didn't ever cum twice in the one night.....but we sure fixed that.
It was great to help her break out and have some fun (and great to do some licking, of course!).
She was trying out her inner Domme, too....so she got some toys.
First, it was a CB6000.
A couple of times she had me wear the CB6000 when we went to dinner, and then she would stroke my balls and lick my cockhead through the slit in the end....so that she was sure I'd be 'enthusiastic' when I'd be licking her later.
We tried a strap-on, but it didn't give her as much enjoyment as she'd hoped .... okay by me.... more time to concentrate on licking her gorgeous pussy.
She liked the licking.... but she also loved the idea that I didn't ever get to cum... so I was always going to be edgie and keen to please.
It was a win-win situation!
And for me I loved the times when she was just needy and I met her needs as promptly as possible,.....and the extended evenings when we were like a couple and got to wallow in the sensuality of it all, were heavenly, too.
Anyways, in time, our relationship and our arrangement dissolved .... but omg! the memories are great!!!"
However, this one submissive had this to say:
"I had this exact arrangement a few years ago.
She would call me whenever she wanted to be eaten.
I would go to her, eat her out, and then leave.
That is all she wanted, and while it wasn't what I was looking for and it isn't consistent with my usual routine, I found it incredibly HOT!!
Maybe it was so hot because it was so different for me?"
This one submissive one went on by relating the following:
"I actually had a slightly different twist on this idea.
It had more to do with a domination experience than just a no reciprocal arrangement.
The woman in question loved, I mean loved having her pussy and ass eaten, but her stipulation was that I was to be fully aroused when I did worship her.
She wanted to see the "proof" and know that I had brought myself to the edge of orgasm a certain amount of times before she would let me eat her.
As well, she would make me lie close to her and look at her pussy and ass and and tell her what I was going to do for her before she would let me touch her.
By the time I did get to lick her, I was so aroused that I had a hard time not wanting to do more, but she would remind me that our arrangement was about her pleasure and my arousal without release.
There were a few times that she actually did masturbate me, but only to the very edge of insanity...this would often ignite her again and she would put me back to work taking care of her needs.
I must say that I knew her well enough to know that she was thoroughly enjoying both the oral pleasure and the control she had over me, through the controlling of my orgasm.
And, I would absolutely welcome having this kind of friendship again, especially since it seemed to offer both of us something that actually brought us closer together as friends.
It was like we were both sharing a secret that only the other knew."
Okay, so this submissive went even further, explaining this arrangement of his:
"It was a very interesting arrangement and I think we both knew that it wasn't a long term thing (other life issues impeded that from happening).
Perhaps, the most enjoyable aspect for me, was the mental aspect of her control, in that she got so aroused from keeping me in a position of waiting, even to touch her.
She knew that making me describe how I was going to adore her physically, drove me even wilder and I never knew nor expected her to do anything.
For that very reason, when she did decide to masturbate me, it was even more intense and really made me test my resolve not to cum.
She would derive the greatest pleasure from extending the play and by making me go down on her successive times, all the while creating different scenarios to further extend her pleasure and my slow, deliciously agonizing descent into the hypnotic state that extended teasing and delayed release induces in me.
I know that I am talking about my pleasure in erotic denial in this a lot, but I have to say that my focus never really left pleasing her....it was just so mind blowing that she got even more aroused by finding ways to drive me deeper into that state.
The fact that she was enjoying it so much and that I was at her beck and call - her satisfaction, that was just what I wanted."
This submissive one countered, in this way:
""The woman in question loved, I mean loved having her pussy and ass eaten, but her stipulation was that I was to be fully aroused when I did worship her."
I loved your story....her requirement of you being fully aroused is similar to what my wife would require....her reasoning was a bit different as at some point she might desire penetration, and did not want to have her pleasure ride interrupted, if that need arose.
She simply wanted to ask for it, and receive it.
Often though, she'd simply let me perform oral, and remain fully aroused, until she had simply had enough....and as you've said, in those cases the extended arousal, and often one more edging by her, left me in a delicious state of arousal, frustration and satisfaction."
Yet, another service pet, said the following:
"I can totally relate to that sense of "arousal, frustration and satisfaction".
Somehow it surprises me still that I can crave the extended tease and denial in a situation of giving pleasure without the possibility of a release.
I also notice (not necessarily surprisingly) that as I've become more aroused by being teased, I've become more submissive and more focused on pleasing my lover with an unsurpassed dedication to giving her oral attention.
It almost becomes "the holy grail" of satisfaction for me.
I experience a genuine contentedness in giving myself up to pleasuring her while at the same time struggling to hold onto my own boiling sexual energy.
The worst/best(?) situation occurred with another lover who liked to tie me up spread eagle to her wrought iron bed, and then masturbate herself over and over to the edge of orgasm, while hovering only inches over my face.
She would tease me about how much she was enjoying herself and then make me beg to have her lower herself onto my desperate, yearning face.
Only obliging me at the threshold of her pleasure, she would then push her pussy down onto my tongue and face, grinding into me some of the most powerful orgasms I have ever experienced in another.
From the look of rictus on her face and the strength of her body pressing me into her, I could see her having many small rippling contractions throughout her body which culminated in an orgasm that seemed to last forever (I was not complaining, btw).
Although I did feel like I was going to lose consciousness for a moment.
I surrendered myself to her and the magnificence of her pleasure, as a knight surrenders to his lady, as a supplicant to a master.
I remember thinking what a tremendous gift I was being given to be at the epicenter of this powerful woman...my lover."
One submissive went on to relate the following:
"I think I’d be ideal for a situation like this, the way that I’m wired.
I would much rather go down on a beautiful woman than have sex with her – and that goes back at least to Junior High for me.
It’s not that I dislike sex, and I don't have any inferiority issues – I just enjoy the sense of intimacy and closeness with her that I get through worshiping her orally.
The sense of purpose that I have while in this act completely centers me.
There is nothing in the entire world but her and what she expects from me.
What people describe feeling during penetrative sex, the emotions, a sort of oneness with all things – these are feelings I’ve always experienced much more intensely while giving oral."
This submissive one wrote in to say what his favorite day of the week was and why:
I see nothing wrong with the original story - I love to eat pussy, more importantly I love to feel a clitoris dance on my tongue, and I really do not need anything in return.
I regularly meet up with a lovely women with a very silky smooth and good looking pussy on Fridays for lunch.
I eat a little, well a lot, actually!
She gets to experience her delights (funny how she never eats during lunch on Fridays) ..... and when it is all over I politely let myself out and go back to work at the office.
Fridays are great!!"
And. it was this very nice Lady that made known the following known:
"I thought I'd add my "Hell, Yes!"
Occasionally my husband has to go away for long trips (weeks or months at a time) and when he is gone I have what I call pussy slaves... men that I use for orgasm only.
No penetration (other than fingers/tongue) and no reciprocation.
There is nothing better than having my pussy licked, and as my husband knows, I absolutely will not go without for longer than two days if I can possibly help it."
And, yet another submissive male, said the following:
"There is something inherently erotic about a one-way, no reciprocation and no strings attached relationship.
I cherish the idea of a woman who wants.....expects me to provide her with oral pleasure and has no inclination to return the favor.
This sends a shiver down my spine at just the mere thought.
Leaving her well satiated, while wiping her sweet nectar off my lips and face, is a vision that makes me instantly hard!"
With all those real life experiences and comments in mind, I must let you know what my Mistress had recently e-mailed me about:
"SWEET submissive,
I have been too busy scolding MY submissive female bitch.
lady sinderella must stay locked in the dungeon today as she was very bad last night.
I've already made plans for her.......I will remove her clothing and replace her attire with nipple clamps, hand and ankle cuffs, and then blindfold and chain her to a fence.
Later, I will see to her being used by several of MY lovely Lady friends who will be attending MY barbecue, tonight.
Now, SWEET submissive, do I have a day in mind for you!
Mmmmhhh,......it is going to be a very good day for all the naughty things I have in the store for you,.....for all the things I want to do with your balls and cock and nipples and ass,.....teasing you out of your mind!!
I will have you look upon and observe ME from your usual position as MY little sex puppet,...........mmmmhhh,........and having you melt in MY hands.
Make sure that you are super horny and NO orgasm till then.
I want to have you nice and hard and naked, all so horny and on your knees,.........looking right at ME,.....at MY pussy and at MY face!
Don't just nibble pet, eat ME!"
Hmmmmm,.......those are pretty clear instructions, if you ask me!
I must say, there is something to be said about a Mistress who knows what She wants and She gets it!
I must make mention that this is a work of fiction.
Characters, visuals/GIFs, and incidents are either the products of the author’s imagination or are used in a fictitious manner.
Any resemblance to actual persons or actual incidents is purely coincidental.
The author accepts no responsibility for any thoughts you may form after reading his works.
All that was missing from that e-mail of Hers, was: "That is an ORDER!"
Suffice it to say, those instructions from Her are even now still ringing in my ears.
I will now bring to mind what those orders from my Mistress were, in an e-mail that I'd received from Her:
"When I see you next week I will refresh your memory, again, as to how I like it.
Since that day is still a week away, I'm giving you enough notice to think and dream about ME,........constantly!
As I sit here,....thinking,......fantasizing,....I am WET,....thinking about smothering you...
And all the other things that I want to do....to you....or have you do....for ME!
Now, I want you to tell ME, when I see you next, just how frustrated and horny I've made you, and just how much that makes you fantasize about ME?
Let's just say that I want you hungry for MY attention!"
Since they were orders from my Mistress, I made sure to carry them out - by dreaming about Her,............constantly!
And, just one of many ways that served to reinforce this mindset of my Mistress, was when I'd meet up with Her, She would slowly but surely, attach, by snapping in place, a "strict" leather snap-on cock and ball harness around my balls and cock.
My Mistress had given me Her blessing for wearing that rather constricting harness when I was in Her presence, as well as, when I was away from Her.
Okay, so I've already come to know my Mistress' reasoning behind that - that particular harness served as a sort of power exchange for Her, and it also served to keep my cock in check, so to speak.
Of course, with that constant reminder in place, my thoughts were only for my Mistress!
Something else that my Mistress hasn't been shy about using to Her advantage, is "male oral servitude".
I must say, that "male oral servitude", as was brought to the fore in my previous account of Fem-Dom submission, made all the sense in the world, especially when I'd read a blog which actually dealt with and expanded on this very subject.
Notice, if you will, the following comments, as well as, real life experiences and how "male oral servitude" played an integral part in them:
"1) A young woman I used to know online years ago told me about a "service agreement" she had with an older man.
She said that, "basically he liked to eat pussy and I liked having my pussy eaten.
So we would meet once a month or so when we go for a nice meal and come back to my apartment and he had his dessert."
2) Erica Jong, the writer, describes a unique friendship with a male friend of hers.
She would drop by his office once in a while to receive oral servicing.
"An hour or so later," she says "here I am walking down a Manhattan street with a certain part of me fully satisfied and with a knowing smile on my face."
She says that was all part of their friendship.
She, by the way, was married to a different person at the time.
In both these cases, the men provided a service in pure friendship, with no reciprocation and no strings attached.
Do you think this will be more and more of a commonplace occurrence as gender roles evolve?
Would any of you women welcome such a friendship?
Mind you, this is not with a stranger, but rather with a male friend that you have known for some time.
Also, do you have a friend currently that you would welcome this from?"
Starting things off was this one Mistress that chimed in and said the following:
"I know not everyone here is a sub, but I'm a Domina, so if you're interested, then please join in.
It's about oral worship from a Domina's perspective.
For those that think women don't enjoy this as much, I'm looking for a few who do, like myself."
I must say, another Mistress, in particular, then went out on a limb and responded accordingly:
"I've had arrangements like this before and would be interested in this type of arrangement.
I find men who love eating pussy incredibly sexy and I absolutely adore being eaten by a man like that.
You guys take so much care and are so attentive.
It's very sexy!
As a woman, it's not often that you run across a man who is more interested in pleasing you than he is in his own pleasure."
One Mistress openly acknowledged the following:
"I have this agreement at present and he is very obliging.
He just LOVES eating pussy, he LOVES the taste and enjoys the fact that when I cum it is all his doing.
Works for me!"
However, this Lady had Her reservations about such a scenario taking place:
"I have attempted to find compatible individuals for an arrangement like this, but it seems that there is always an issue: creepy/clingy emotional behavior, pressure for reciprocation after the fact, not taking direction.
But the worst part: the fact that grown people need to be reminded to practice good personal and especially oral hygiene is kind of awful to have to mention but it is true: if your breath is rank, I'm not letting you near my lady parts!"
Another Mistress wrote in, reservedly so:
"I would definitely welcome such an arrangement, with a few revisions, but I would have to know that the man I'm with completely understands that I want no emotional attachments.
Work is most important to me now and I have no interest in a conventional relationship nor dating.
I have to have someone that is willing to go through the "getting to know you" process and who I'm physically and sexually attracted to.
I need someone whose complete satisfaction is derived from pleasing and who takes great pride in a job well done.
It's been beyond difficult to find all these qualities in one man and I only desire to be with one man.
I agree with the statement that "very few females actually believe the "'no-reciprocation" part of the proposition."
I think a lot of men want more and simply say there's no reciprocation to get us interested, but when the meeting occurs, I doubt that they'll actually honor their word.
And, I wholeheartedly agree, that "calling it non-reciprocal for the men involved is a bit of a misnomer" since you are very much getting something out of the arrangement - you've been deemed worthy enough to pleasure a woman with your tongue and allowed to be near her most intimate parts, not to mention the sexual pleasure you gain from the taste and the feel of her on your face and the arousal that her moans of pleasure stir within you.
So, yes, it's a one-way oral arrangement, but let's not pretend that it's non-reciprocal here... you're no martyr!" ;-)
There's no way the men involved would do it if they were getting nothing out of the arrangement.
Let's be real!
These days not very many people do things, especially of a sexual nature, out of the kindness of their hearts.
I also agree that I do not want to just be satisfied by one activity.
And, I love my body to be caressed, kissed, and massaged,.....I don't want things to be limited to just oral pleasure."
"It was another very nice Lady that wrote in and said:
"Yes, my dear, I would fully and freely welcome this arrangement in my life.
However, in my experience, the men I try to have "casual" encounters with frequently get feelings about me.
Men are strange, they often say they want NSA but when you give it to them, they suddenly renege.
Am I wrong ladies?
If a man is interested and can actually abide by the no emotional attachment bit, they are quite rare.
I wish there was someone like you in my area."
Yet, another Mistress went on to relate with the following:
"I remember seeing an ad for a no strings attached pussy licker on craigslist a few moons ago.
He also had limited success.
While many women, including myself, love the idea, I've yet to find a man to restore my faith in this arrangement.
And, as stated before, there needs to be some semblance of a friendship and/or attraction to help keep this arrangement fulfilling for both parties.
This is something worth thinking about:
"If a woman posted an ad on CL offering NSA non-reciprocal oral, she would be overwhelmed with men jumping at that deal.
On the other hand, if you check the CL listing for "Men Looking for Women", there are dozens of ads for the reverse in a major metropolitan area and I am willing to bet, very few, if any, are seriously answered.""
It was this one submissive, even though he had never enjoyed such an arrangement, that went on to relate the following:
"While I’ve never had this arrangement, it’s something I’ve yearned for the majority of my life.
I can only imagine how much time, effort, and heartache I’d have saved if I’d lived in world where I felt like I could say, “I don’t want to be your boyfriend and have sex with you, I want to be your good friend who goes down on you.”
There's just nothing else that feels so intimate to me. I feel close to the woman, safe, useful, calm -- like all my problems and concerns just cease to be in the moments I spend in that service to her.
It feels like, of everyplace in the world I could possibly be, I'm exactly where I belong."
And, yet another submissive made mention of what he was involved in:
"Mmmmmm,....Yes!
I had a no reciprocation agreement with a gorgeous lady for about 6 months last year, and it was fabulous.
She had recently finished a longterm relationship and was looking to see what she had been missing out on over the years.
The first time we got together was a Saturday afternoon.
We had chatted a few times re: maybe getting together, and she called saying she was soooo horny and needed something straight away.
I was driving but happy to make a diversion.
I explained that I didn't have much time, so it would have to be quick.
She said: "Then, you'd better be good!"
Moments later, she met me at the door in a sarong, took me to the lounge room where she had a mattress already laid out on the floor, then removed the sarong, and lay down....
A fabulous womanly rubenesque body and that sorta smile a lady gets when she's horny.
"Well, if you've gotta be quick, what are you waiting for?" she said.
I stripped and began with some 'getting to know you' touching and caressing.
A couple of minutes of that and I was between her legs.
I like to keep a lady on the edge for a while, but she was demanding to cum.
Phheeeeww,........when she did, I thought that she was going to wrench my head off my shoulders with her thrashing and twisting.....mmmmm fabulous!!
She had that yummy, heavenly 'I've just cum' smile when she said "I'll definitely be seeing you, again!"
We would meet regularly after that.
She would even text me and make the arrangements.
Sometimes it was straight to it.....I would lick her until she orgasmed, and then I'd leave.
And, other times it was dinner, drinks, then back to her place for a long massage and some leisurely licking where I would get a chance to keep her on the edge for as long as she could take it.
She said she didn't ever cum twice in the one night.....but we sure fixed that.
It was great to help her break out and have some fun (and great to do some licking, of course!).
She was trying out her inner Domme, too....so she got some toys.
First, it was a CB6000.
A couple of times she had me wear the CB6000 when we went to dinner, and then she would stroke my balls and lick my cockhead through the slit in the end....so that she was sure I'd be 'enthusiastic' when I'd be licking her later.
We tried a strap-on, but it didn't give her as much enjoyment as she'd hoped .... okay by me.... more time to concentrate on licking her gorgeous pussy.
She liked the licking.... but she also loved the idea that I didn't ever get to cum... so I was always going to be edgie and keen to please.
It was a win-win situation!
And for me I loved the times when she was just needy and I met her needs as promptly as possible,.....and the extended evenings when we were like a couple and got to wallow in the sensuality of it all, were heavenly, too.
Anyways, in time, our relationship and our arrangement dissolved .... but omg! the memories are great!!!"
However, this one submissive had this to say:
"I had this exact arrangement a few years ago.
She would call me whenever she wanted to be eaten.
I would go to her, eat her out, and then leave.
That is all she wanted, and while it wasn't what I was looking for and it isn't consistent with my usual routine, I found it incredibly HOT!!
Maybe it was so hot because it was so different for me?"
This one submissive one went on by relating the following:
"I actually had a slightly different twist on this idea.
It had more to do with a domination experience than just a no reciprocal arrangement.
The woman in question loved, I mean loved having her pussy and ass eaten, but her stipulation was that I was to be fully aroused when I did worship her.
She wanted to see the "proof" and know that I had brought myself to the edge of orgasm a certain amount of times before she would let me eat her.
As well, she would make me lie close to her and look at her pussy and ass and and tell her what I was going to do for her before she would let me touch her.
By the time I did get to lick her, I was so aroused that I had a hard time not wanting to do more, but she would remind me that our arrangement was about her pleasure and my arousal without release.
There were a few times that she actually did masturbate me, but only to the very edge of insanity...this would often ignite her again and she would put me back to work taking care of her needs.
I must say that I knew her well enough to know that she was thoroughly enjoying both the oral pleasure and the control she had over me, through the controlling of my orgasm.
And, I would absolutely welcome having this kind of friendship again, especially since it seemed to offer both of us something that actually brought us closer together as friends.
It was like we were both sharing a secret that only the other knew."
Okay, so this submissive went even further, explaining this arrangement of his:
"It was a very interesting arrangement and I think we both knew that it wasn't a long term thing (other life issues impeded that from happening).
Perhaps, the most enjoyable aspect for me, was the mental aspect of her control, in that she got so aroused from keeping me in a position of waiting, even to touch her.
She knew that making me describe how I was going to adore her physically, drove me even wilder and I never knew nor expected her to do anything.
For that very reason, when she did decide to masturbate me, it was even more intense and really made me test my resolve not to cum.
She would derive the greatest pleasure from extending the play and by making me go down on her successive times, all the while creating different scenarios to further extend her pleasure and my slow, deliciously agonizing descent into the hypnotic state that extended teasing and delayed release induces in me.
I know that I am talking about my pleasure in erotic denial in this a lot, but I have to say that my focus never really left pleasing her....it was just so mind blowing that she got even more aroused by finding ways to drive me deeper into that state.
The fact that she was enjoying it so much and that I was at her beck and call - her satisfaction, that was just what I wanted."
This submissive one countered, in this way:
""The woman in question loved, I mean loved having her pussy and ass eaten, but her stipulation was that I was to be fully aroused when I did worship her."
I loved your story....her requirement of you being fully aroused is similar to what my wife would require....her reasoning was a bit different as at some point she might desire penetration, and did not want to have her pleasure ride interrupted, if that need arose.
She simply wanted to ask for it, and receive it.
Often though, she'd simply let me perform oral, and remain fully aroused, until she had simply had enough....and as you've said, in those cases the extended arousal, and often one more edging by her, left me in a delicious state of arousal, frustration and satisfaction."
Yet, another service pet, said the following:
"I can totally relate to that sense of "arousal, frustration and satisfaction".
Somehow it surprises me still that I can crave the extended tease and denial in a situation of giving pleasure without the possibility of a release.
I also notice (not necessarily surprisingly) that as I've become more aroused by being teased, I've become more submissive and more focused on pleasing my lover with an unsurpassed dedication to giving her oral attention.
It almost becomes "the holy grail" of satisfaction for me.
I experience a genuine contentedness in giving myself up to pleasuring her while at the same time struggling to hold onto my own boiling sexual energy.
The worst/best(?) situation occurred with another lover who liked to tie me up spread eagle to her wrought iron bed, and then masturbate herself over and over to the edge of orgasm, while hovering only inches over my face.
She would tease me about how much she was enjoying herself and then make me beg to have her lower herself onto my desperate, yearning face.
Only obliging me at the threshold of her pleasure, she would then push her pussy down onto my tongue and face, grinding into me some of the most powerful orgasms I have ever experienced in another.
From the look of rictus on her face and the strength of her body pressing me into her, I could see her having many small rippling contractions throughout her body which culminated in an orgasm that seemed to last forever (I was not complaining, btw).
Although I did feel like I was going to lose consciousness for a moment.
I surrendered myself to her and the magnificence of her pleasure, as a knight surrenders to his lady, as a supplicant to a master.
I remember thinking what a tremendous gift I was being given to be at the epicenter of this powerful woman...my lover."
One submissive went on to relate the following:
"I think I’d be ideal for a situation like this, the way that I’m wired.
I would much rather go down on a beautiful woman than have sex with her – and that goes back at least to Junior High for me.
It’s not that I dislike sex, and I don't have any inferiority issues – I just enjoy the sense of intimacy and closeness with her that I get through worshiping her orally.
The sense of purpose that I have while in this act completely centers me.
There is nothing in the entire world but her and what she expects from me.
What people describe feeling during penetrative sex, the emotions, a sort of oneness with all things – these are feelings I’ve always experienced much more intensely while giving oral."
This submissive one wrote in to say what his favorite day of the week was and why:
I see nothing wrong with the original story - I love to eat pussy, more importantly I love to feel a clitoris dance on my tongue, and I really do not need anything in return.
I regularly meet up with a lovely women with a very silky smooth and good looking pussy on Fridays for lunch.
I eat a little, well a lot, actually!
She gets to experience her delights (funny how she never eats during lunch on Fridays) ..... and when it is all over I politely let myself out and go back to work at the office.
Fridays are great!!"
And. it was this very nice Lady that made known the following known:
"I thought I'd add my "Hell, Yes!"
Occasionally my husband has to go away for long trips (weeks or months at a time) and when he is gone I have what I call pussy slaves... men that I use for orgasm only.
No penetration (other than fingers/tongue) and no reciprocation.
There is nothing better than having my pussy licked, and as my husband knows, I absolutely will not go without for longer than two days if I can possibly help it."
And, yet another submissive male, said the following:
"There is something inherently erotic about a one-way, no reciprocation and no strings attached relationship.
I cherish the idea of a woman who wants.....expects me to provide her with oral pleasure and has no inclination to return the favor.
This sends a shiver down my spine at just the mere thought.
Leaving her well satiated, while wiping her sweet nectar off my lips and face, is a vision that makes me instantly hard!"
With all those real life experiences and comments in mind, I must let you know what my Mistress had recently e-mailed me about:
"SWEET submissive,
I have been too busy scolding MY submissive female bitch.
lady sinderella must stay locked in the dungeon today as she was very bad last night.
I've already made plans for her.......I will remove her clothing and replace her attire with nipple clamps, hand and ankle cuffs, and then blindfold and chain her to a fence.
Later, I will see to her being used by several of MY lovely Lady friends who will be attending MY barbecue, tonight.
Now, SWEET submissive, do I have a day in mind for you!
Mmmmhhh,......it is going to be a very good day for all the naughty things I have in the store for you,.....for all the things I want to do with your balls and cock and nipples and ass,.....teasing you out of your mind!!
I will have you look upon and observe ME from your usual position as MY little sex puppet,...........mmmmhhh,........and having you melt in MY hands.
Make sure that you are super horny and NO orgasm till then.
I want to have you nice and hard and naked, all so horny and on your knees,.........looking right at ME,.....at MY pussy and at MY face!
Don't just nibble pet, eat ME!"
Hmmmmm,.......those are pretty clear instructions, if you ask me!
I must say, there is something to be said about a Mistress who knows what She wants and She gets it!
I must make mention that this is a work of fiction.
Characters, visuals/GIFs, and incidents are either the products of the author’s imagination or are used in a fictitious manner.
Any resemblance to actual persons or actual incidents is purely coincidental.
The author accepts no responsibility for any thoughts you may form after reading his works.
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