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Ironhead

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Yes. I am a little overweight. I am wondering if this bothers any girls out there.
I am not one of the wash board chested guys, SP's may picture in their minds
that they want to see. As long as the donation is there what is the problem.
I do consider myself to be very romantic and can handle myself in all positions.
I am also very clean and respectful of the SP's.
 
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Ironhead said:
Yes. I am a little overweight. I am wondering if this bothers any girls out there.
I am not one of the wash board chested guys, SP's may picture in their minds
that they want to see. As long as the donation is there what is the problem.
I do consider myself to be very romantic and can handle myself in all positions.
I am also very clean and respectful of the SP's.
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personally i like big cuddly guys ;) i feel uncomfortable and unattractive with my curves when im with a gym rat lolz
 
Touch of Class

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It sure doesn't bother me at all. I treat all my clients the same not matter what they look like. Everyone needs to be loved and caressed as far as I am concerned a bigger man is just more to play with ;)
 
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UhOh

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An SP that doesn't like fat guys, kinda like a burger joint that doesn't like fat guys :D
imagine how good business would be if they only catered to physical specimens, yeah not good.
 
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I definitely don't have any issues with bigger guys either... I think a connection can be made with any body type... Pleasure does not discriminate... A body is a body ;)

xoxo Fiona Lux
 
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Ms Erica Phoenix

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Having been a lady that once weighed almost 300 pounds, I would never turn anyone away due to weight....never gonna happen! Being with a bigger guy makes me feel tiny and delicate. I like that!
 
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300lbs is too big. I have seen ladies advertise with weight restrictions and I can totally understand why.



Mod note: This is a multi handle of VanessaofBC, it's been banned for that reason.
 
badbadboy

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westcoastbabe said:
300lbs is too big. I have seen ladies advertise with weight restrictions and I can totally understand why.
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This might be true but my wallet weighed in at 75 lbs this morning ;)

But seriously, men can make choices as can SP's. Personally shape and size is secondary to Service and Attitude in my book. I have seen women who are very buff to those having womanly curves and it's all in the head that counts. I am an equal employer in that regard.

Not many SP's will ignore the larger client demographic. If they are able to do so and sustain a full dance card all the power to them.
 
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I don't get the impression the Mistresses I have seen see it as a factor, unless the guy is morbidly obese. From my standpoint, I am driven to train, religiously eat proper foods and look as fit, clean and well-groomed as possible for any lady i see, whether it's a civvy or a domme. (i do not see regular SPs). So, it's probably the guy who is actually more concerned or sub-conscious about their weight than the lady.

Interestingly, when my fiancée and I split up 14 months ago, she hooked up right away with a fat guy and from what I heard, couldn't be happier ... though she has gained a LOT of weight herself. But obviously it clicks for them and I am happy for them.

Worked out well for both of us as I am fitter and healthier than I've ever been, have enjoyed some casual/sexual relationships while finally being free to pursue my life-long and genuine desire to be a submissive.
 
PlayfulAlex

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Ironhead said:
Yes. I am a little overweight. I am wondering if this bothers any girls out there.
I am not one of the wash board chested guys, SP's may picture in their minds
that they want to see. As long as the donation is there what is the problem.
I do consider myself to be very romantic and can handle myself in all positions.
I am also very clean and respectful of the SP's.
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I don't know which SPs you've been talking to but the client you mention is not on most SPs minds, as far as I know. While everyone is handsome and/or attractive in their own way, most SPs just don't have an expectation that their visitor recently graced any magazine covers. SPs see all different types of guys, nationalities, body sizes, ages, preferences, etc. I wouldn't worry at all about you being a little overweight. In fact, I'd say that most ladies expect a little girth, and I mean around the waistline!

Now, I'm not trying to be gross but imagine this scenario. The guy's belly is so big that he has to lift it up with two hands and set it on the lady's back to accomplish doggie. Has this happened to me? Yes. Did I treat the guy badly? No. I was completely professional with him, knowing that he was probably quite conscientious of the fact that he was that overweight, and didn't need to be reminded of that fact by me, especially not at that vulnerable time. I never said a thing...
 
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cuteangie said:
Alex, you are a beautiful person, I never turn a person away well I also now have conditions. By size is never an issue. The only reason we would not see each other is a communication barrier, disrespectful, or an intuition not to do it. The more we communicate the better. I like to know the person who I am seeing not personally but feel safe. Size has nothing to do with who you are as a person.
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PlayfulAlex said:
I don't know which SPs you've been talking to but the client you mention is not on most SPs minds, as far as I know. While everyone is handsome and/or attractive in their own way, most SPs just don't have an expectation that their visitor recently graced any magazine covers. SPs see all different types of guys, nationalities, body sizes, ages, preferences, etc. I wouldn't worry at all about you being a little overweight. In fact, I'd say that most ladies expect a little girth, and I mean around the waistline!

Now, I'm not trying to be gross but imagine this scenario. The guy's belly is so big that he has to lift it up with two hands and set it on the lady's back to accomplish doggie. Has this happened to me? Yes. Did I treat the guy badly? No. I was completely professional with him, knowing that he was probably quite conscientious of the fact that he was that overweight, and didn't need to be reminded of that fact by me, especially not at that vulnerable time. I never said a thing...
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Heh heh...I'm sure that was an interesting experience :)

But, I'm sure that most of the ladies are more concerned about the guys treating them right and being clean that their physical condition, within reason of course. I think if someone was completely repulsive, it would be kind of hard to work around that.
 
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