Fantasy

[Biguy]

I'm not sure if this question should come into the 'mind reading' catagory. For me most sex generates fantasy images. It's those ideas and images that promote the desire for the next visit/encounter. I imagine this is true of most - just with different fantasies and images. Fortunately for me my fantasies remain acceptable and lawful by today's standards - no animals, violence, non consensual, underage etc. With that being clear, my question is how far to go to actualize fantasies. Does actualizing fantasy spoil the thought? Are many sp's willing to accomodate preferences beyond the generally 'vanilla'? I'm sure many are and certainly BDSM providers that I've talked to, are. I've found providers who have assisted with my voyeuristic, submissive and couples fantasies and I've had no problem fulfilling sessions that come in the BDSM catagory. So far none of the fulfilled fantasies has disappointed I'm looking to push my luck a little further but don't want to embarrass myself or any sp. If anyone has successfully actualized their weird fantasies and is willing to share I'd be interested to know and any new ideas. PM if easier.

 

[Biguy]

Thanks, Nina. Very reassuring and I appreciate your comment and thought.

 

[MissJasmine]

Although I dont fit the bill of a regular SP, I absolutely love roleplay and "setting the scene". So much so that I've thought about taking acting classes to improve my skills and confidence level

As long as you do your research and communicate your desires to the lady you should be fine. Some clients will suggest a general theme, and some even email a long script. During the planning stages dont worry about being overly thorough, as this will prevent potential misunderstandings. Good luck with your search!