familiarity breeds laziness

wannaliquorbox

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has anyone found with their regular sps, after going out for dinners and movies a few times on a non professional basis, the 'professional' side seems to suffer. she is not trying as hard, the acts turn into token gestures, and the hour turns to 40 min.

just came back from one of these. we had plans to to go see Miami Vice after, but i was too pissed to stay or to say anything to her. so made some excuse and left, with a smile of course.

nice guys do finish last.:(
 

The Lizard King

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just came back from one of these. we had plans to to go see Miami Vice after, but i was too pissed to stay or to say anything to her. so made some excuse and left, with a smile of course
So in other words, it's evolved into a true GFE for you!
 

georgebushmoron

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wannaliquorbox said:
has anyone found with their regular sps, after going out for dinners and movies a few times on a non professional basis, the 'professional' side seems to suffer. she is not trying as hard, the acts turn into token gestures, and the hour turns to 40 min.

just came back from one of these. we had plans to to go see Miami Vice after, but i was too pissed to stay or to say anything to her. so made some excuse and left, with a smile of course.

nice guys do finish last.:(
Going out on dates such as dinners/movies could go both ways when you get back into the saddle with her. She could either give you a really great time mileage-wise and also go over time, or she could get lazy as she did with you. The latter means she doesn't like you as a real person (but probably still does as a customer). The former means she thinks of you as a possible BF.
 

hitrack

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sounds to me like your causing your own frustration. You've blurred the line between pay and friends, now your pissed that you have to pay at all, but you know you still do. IMO seems pretty lame to drop 300 bones for a lay then go off and see Miami Vice just like you were old friends.

Way to cause total left side of brain, right side of brain and little head conflict. Thee old triangle of bullshit.
 

love...alex

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I think you hit it, hitrack.
 

visioneast

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The Lizard King said:
So in other words, it's evolved into a true GFE for you!
Hahahahahahahahahahaha... a true GFE... that's priceless. :D
 

wannaliquorbox

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hitrack said:
sounds to me like your causing your own frustration. You've blurred the line between pay and friends, now your pissed that you have to pay at all, but you know you still do. IMO seems pretty lame to drop 300 bones for a lay then go off and see Miami Vice just like you were old friends.

Way to cause total left side of brain, right side of brain and little head conflict. Thee old triangle of bullshit.
??? who says we are friends? or that i wasnt happy because of the donation?

if one cares to read what i wrote, it simply states that the service has been under par lately, and i was wondering if others share similar experiences.
 

wannaliquorbox

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remedy - isabella

wow...due to earlier frustration, decided to visit with isabella at foxden. felt like bacchus lounging in that round bed of theirs feasting on his succulent nymph, what a beautiful set of mellons...

no more ranting, i feel better now.:D

remedy: do not be complacent. try to mix in someone new every week.
 

gravitas

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wannaliquorbox said:
??? who says we are friends?
If you're not friends then why are you going to movies or other social outings?


wannaliquorbox said:
or that i wasnt happy because of the donation?
oh, just a hunch

wannaliquorbox said:
:( familiarity breeds laziness
wannaliquorbox said:
but i was too pissed to stay or to say anything to her
wannaliquorbox said:
nice guys do finish last.:(
 

pickupjoe

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wannaliquorbox said:
has anyone found with their regular sps, after going out for dinners and movies a few times on a non professional basis, the 'professional' side seems to suffer. she is not trying as hard, the acts turn into token gestures, and the hour turns to 40 min.

just came back from one of these. we had plans to to go see Miami Vice after, but i was too pissed to stay or to say anything to her. so made some excuse and left, with a smile of course.

nice guys do finish last.:(

Yup, me thinks some SP’s do take there regulars for granted and this is not to do about going to dinner and movie thing. Some things like cutting the time short, no shows more than twice or continuing to give lesser service then past visits. I stop seeing a SP regularly cause of these things added up. I do get the odd email from her now and than asking when I might see her again. I gotta lmao. I don’t bother replyng to her anymore. Yup, let her figure out why I stop visiting. So to some of the SP's, don’t count on us regulars as money in the bank if you start giving less service and for granted. So, you might wonder why some of your regulars aren’t visiting anymore?
 

Lurker 123

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pickupjoe said:
Yup, me thinks some SP’s do take there regulars for granted and this is not to do about going to dinner and movie thing. Some things like cutting the time short, no shows more than twice or continuing to give lesser service then past visits. I stop seeing a SP regularly cause of these things added up. I do get the odd email from her now and than asking when I might see her again. I gotta lmao. I don’t bother replyng to her anymore. Yup, let her figure out why I stop visiting. So to some of the SP's, don’t count on us regulars as money in the bank if you start giving less service and for granted. So, you might wonder why some of your regulars aren’t visiting anymore?
I have got a very similar experience and had a bad review on my regular a month ago!
 

wannaliquorbox

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shite...

... i did it again. this time its too late to follow up with visit anywhere else. i am so weak, everytime she calls, i end up with another frustrating experience.
 

hitrack

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join the peace corps. It's the toughest job you'll ever love!!!!!!
 

Randy Whorewald

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wannaliquorbox said:
... i did it again. this time its too late to follow up with visit anywhere else. i am so weak, everytime she calls, i end up with another frustrating experience.
Wait 'til you get married. Then you'll really appreciate what you had before. :D
 

wannaliquorbox

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she keeps calling and started buying me shirts and stuff. been meaning to have a chat regarding the level of 'service' - but i am too much of a weakling. maybe i shall call and leave a message on land line when she is at dayjob.

i am such a dweeb.
 

Osama Bin Layin

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Waste of time...

Why would anyone see an SP regulary? I thought the whole fantasy side of pooning is the fact that you get to bang different chicks all the time... if you want a regular bang, get a girlfriend.

My 1 cent
 
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