I have had this exact conversation with more than one SP, in fact one time after having dinner and going back to the ladies incall it was me who turned down sex, we played scrabble instead and had a great time.
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Thanks Dood, I know better too. Usually I like to go dancing after dinner, that always fixes me right up. We had sex first before going out anyway so it was all good. Well except for beating her at scrabble, she's very competitive and rarely loses. I bought her a travel set with tiles that snap in and stay in place when folded up so we can resume the games on subsequent visits, it can sometimes take a while to finish a game.
I agree with you Dood! But I do hope the last sentence of your post isn't completely true. 50 years ago society's attitude towards gays was the same and it has changed for the better.
Why can't society accept that what happens between 2 consenting adults is nobody's business but theirs? I guess we should never say "never."
I don't think that the atittude will change Bad Santa. To most, even some of our clients, we are dirty scum. If you want to see what I mean tell your wife you slept with a whore. She will be sick. I have faced the angry wife before and been told I am a diseased pile of trash. I do not have a disease. I sleep with my boyfriend without a condom and I would never do a thing to harm him. Women dislike whores even more than men do. They don't like we have taken their guys attention from them or we do things they won't do to them. I bet other working girls get clients that just want a blow job because their wife won't do that.
Ropey. I will give you a tip. This is not a business about closeness. It is a business about trust. If your SP trusts you she will feel very comfortable around you. This will mean you will get as close to the real deal as possible. Working girls like regular clients. It is like dating. One the first date you have questions. As you go out on more dates you feel different and more comfortable. It is because the girl trusts you. She knows that you will respect her and not try to sneak the condom off. When the working girl doesn't have to worry about what if so much she can also enjoy the times. We are put at great risk. Men are bigger than women. They are stronger. And this stronger creature is entering inside you and can have the control. If you like pooning find a regular SP and see her. I think this is the best relationship.
So....if I make a response it would be a bad thing?
I really just wanted to know what you were going to do with that kitten?
I really just wanted to know what you were going to do with that kitten?
Warning the below is a rant. I am a little tired of kissing Ropey's ass, though, so now I'm gonna tell it like it is.
I think you are really over reacting !!!
Mimi is an intellectual woman who is extremely knowledgeable about sex and men. She is trying to have intellectual conversations in the lounge. If you research her posts, you will find that 90% of what she has to talk about are about sex, penises, and vaginae. All of it. If you research my posts, you will see, that I have all kinds of different ideas about all kinds of things. To say, I am not empathic is very wrong. I'm so empathic, I can't be in the same room as angry people, It makes me unsettled, even if their anger is not directed to me. When people are sad around me, I get sad. I pick up on energy and emotion like crazy. I cry very easy. I sit and cry at sad commercials. Please don't think you know me from one post, because you don't !
I am actually starting to feel a little angry towards you Ropey, and that is sad. I understand that your feelings got hurt, but now you keep trying to slander me, when I am not the one with the problem about small penises. You are !! You have the problem, not I. I wrote that post 2 years ago. I don't even believe I was advertising on perb at that time. Not one other person has ever even mentioned it.
Also since when is 5'5 small? It is average, no? I am sorry that you think you are small and that this is all a personal attack against small penises. I happen to love all sizes, they all feel good, all of them. 5'5 is more than big enough.
The point Mimi was trying to make is accept yourself. That's it, acceptation !! So simple. Once you accept yourself, life will be so much more fun.
Again Ropey, I'm sorry you got hurt, now please stop talking about my lack of empathy !!!
Ropey I don't think that is unusual at all. I'm actually surprised that women who are providers would react that way because I don't think I'm alone when I say that it's actually quite common.
Most of us have no problem with making it more about intimacy than a sex marathon. I could see how someone who is not a provider might take it personally but I think it's odd that a provider would not have encountered this before. The only time I will be goal oriented on a gentleman's orgasm, is when he is. And when sometimes it's just not going to happen and he's still so focused on it that he gets all stressed out and it takes the fun out of it, it can get frustrating.
So personally, and I've written this in the past, if someone tells me they're okay with not having an orgasm but that they still enjoy the intimacy or foreplay, then I have absolutely no problem enjoy that along with them too. I don't think I'm alone here so I think you have not been seeing the right providers.
If it's something you've had problems with in the past (their reaction), then why not mention all of it before meeting to see if they are still able to accommodate you should you want to focus on intimacy, cuddling or kissing than actual sex. (Or is that what you've done and still ended up with sp's who did not know how to handle the situation?)
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I like the "NEW" Krustee.....he has actually been a lot more easy going and has added to the conversations as of late. Plus he "bitch slaps" guys like you HB40All right then....I was actually starting to miss Krustee anyway...
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