'Facebook a magnet for narcissists and the insecure': Study

sonoman

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It's not hard to tell the narcissists on Facebook. They are the ones with hundreds to thousands of pictures of themselves. :p
It's not so much the pics as the constant status updates/news feeds: "Eating sushi right now. Yum....", "Getting ready for bed...", "Boss is making me stay late... grrrr."

Why is it so important to post these seemingly trivial tidbits of information? Who really cares??
A direct message to someone in particular is fine, but these things are just posted blindly for everyone to see.
 

Man Mountain

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addicted2lov

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Could someone explain what is the real value of facebook? If google dies tomorrow my business will be in big trouble and so will my finances, if craigslist shuts down the erotic section I will have to start reading GS, buysell and all the printed crap. If facebook gets erased I can not care less. So what if I can't see the stupid pictures of people that may be in the same office with me but with whom I haven't seen or exchanged a word with in a year? Ha?
So far facebook has been good at leaking personal information, phone numbers, etc, etc. More so, criminals are following stupid status updates and break into people's houses, etc, etc. A teen has committed suicide based on this addiction to this new type of media. Facebook is for media the same as doritos are for food.
 
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Isn't everyone on Facebook these days?
No way ... I got nagged and nagged by the girls at work (before I quit my old job) and started filling it out and was just shocked by the amount of information it was requesting. I don't consider myself a paranoid person but it just didn't seem right.
I've seen on various crime shows that the L.E. use it to find people. Not only that but people just do things to take pictures of themselves doing them so they can make it look like they have an interesting life. It's not real.
 

planetsmurf

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It's not so much the pics as the constant status updates/news feeds: "Eating sushi right now. Yum....", "Getting ready for bed...", "Boss is making me stay late... grrrr."

Why is it so important to post these seemingly trivial tidbits of information? Who really cares??
A direct message to someone in particular is fine, but these things are just posted blindly for everyone to see.
the posts i hate are all the farmville/mafia wars etc and what people are watching at that particular moment. i use facebook only to chat with a few people that i dont normally see that often but still care enough to keep in touch.
 

DonEdHardy

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same here, i use it as kind of a social messaging system for people i wouldn't normally email... and it's nice to see what ppl are up to from time to time
 

singleguy81

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Isn't everyone on Facebook these days?
honestly i deleted my facebook account on there. i got too many ex friends that i do not want to keep in touch with. too much negativity there between me and them, also it's kinda annonying with some of the useless junk on there. to me it just makes my computer really really slow and probably my net response time. if those people still want to keep in touch with me, well, they gotta know other ways of getting and keeping in touch with me. as long it's the right people you know what i mean... besides if you have a productive lifestyle, then why bother being on there in the first place. i believe that facebook is just something to kill the "boring times" as how i like to explain it and as sonoman said "friends/family responding to updates is even more annoying". like wut tha phuck, is it like some popular contest on there??? anyways, that is just how i feel...
 

planetsmurf

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i heard that porn is no longer the number 1 thing on the web and now as been replaced by social networking, what has this world come to :p
 

Harmony-bc

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I love facebook. I would never know what to do or where to go, if it wasn't for facebook, lol 50 percent of my friends are dj's or musicians, so I keep in touch with all the fun things. Plus its absolutely fascinating to see what people are up to that I used to play with when I was a teenager. Farmville and all the rest of them, I could care less about, but I think its cute that my friends play them, lol

Oh, and I am so vain that I know that song was written about me :D I'm kidding, but I have never been called insecure so I must not be. As a matter of fact, when I was a teenager, I used to hear how did you fit through the door with an ego that big ?, by my loving friends. Occasionally i have flashes of insecurity, but then I'm like who said that? lol
 

Harmony-bc

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I like Facebook too. I tend to take photos with my Blackberry & upload my life on to Facebook. I'm a voyeur of life and don't mind others peeking in at mine. Gotta have something to gossip about. What I do do is keep my "friends" limited to people that have some connection to me, distant or right now. I don't just randomly add people & would never add anyone on my FB that has any connection to me in the business world. No way. I also lock the thing down so I'm not public. You never really know if that new buddy you met is a killer or a saviour.

You can add me to FB Harmony LOL. I need more neighbors in Frontierville.
hmm, are you dood on facebook ?

I don't play any of the games, none, nata, lol. I have an extremely short attention span. and the games on facebook, um don't do it for me, lol

I only use facebook for a social networking tool, that's it. I like to know what band I like is playing where.
 

hunsperger

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I'm surprised the narcissistic nimcompoop himself hasn't weighed in with his non-thoughts yet...

You know, Mr. Closing in on 8000 stupid useless posts...

or as he would say, wayed in...
 

Bartdude

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I'm surprised the narcissistic nimcompoop himself hasn't weighed in with his non-thoughts yet...

You know, Mr. Closing in on 8000 stupid useless posts...

or as he would say, wayed in...
It would appear that you've learned very little in your three months forced vacation from PERB. :rolleyes:
 
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