Expect to see some negative posts about me in the near future !

[Surrey's Jewel]

I finally had to deal with an obsessed client/ stalker today and things got fairly ugly. I fully expect this person to try and slander me and write negative posts and lies about me as he did start to do it in the past when I tried to end our business relationship. He is a passive aggressive type and for a long time I felt 'keeping your enemies close' was the safest bet but I could just no longer tolerate him and he caused somewhat of a scene at my in-call today. He has threatened to ruin my career amongst other things. If any of the ladies out there have had experiences like this and have had to go to the police, I'd love to hear from you as to how the Police treated you and handled the situation. I have a legitimate business and pay my taxes so I'm not worried about that but he has looked up my real name and made it known he knows where I live etc. I (fortunately) know his real name and address and am planning on going to the police in the morning but would love to know what to expect from them. Any help/advice is greatly appreciated. Peace.

 

[Sasha Queen]

I finally had to deal with an obsessed client/ stalker today and things got fairly ugly. I fully expect this person to try and slander me and write negative posts and lies about me as he did start to do it in the past when I tried to end our business relationship. He is a passive aggressive type and for a long time I felt 'keeping your enemies close' was the safest bet but I could just no longer tolerate him and he caused somewhat of a scene at my in-call today. He has threatened to ruin my career amongst other things. If any of the ladies out there have had experiences like this and have had to go to the police, I'd love to hear from you as to how the Police treated you and handled the situation. I have a legitimate business and pay my taxes so I'm not worried about that but he has looked up my real name and made it known he knows where I live etc. I (fortunately) know his real name and address and am planning on going to the police in the morning but would love to know what to expect from them. Any help/advice is greatly appreciated. Peace.

Jewel I am so sorry to hear this happened. Call me tomorrow when you get in if you like, and I will come up and keep you company. I hope this all works out for you buddy.

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

So sorry to hear about this! If you contact Susi on the board here, she knows the liaison officer (Linda Malcolm) who works with us girls... I haven't actually dealt with her myself, but I've heard fantastic things... I can't remember her name at the moment, but I will check my inbox and message you... Hope you stay safe and things get sorted quickly <3

xoxo Lux

Before I bug Susi ... I'm pretty sure that Liason Officer would be VPD correct? This happened in Surrey so I'm pretty sure I'll have to go through the RCMP. Thanks ladies, I'm just a basket case right now going over all the threats and inuendos (?) he was making. He assured me he has nothing to lose and won't stop. Still though, I had to deal with this.

 

[Sasha Queen]

Before I bug Susi ... I'm pretty sure that Liason Officer would be VPD correct? This happened in Surrey so I'm pretty sure I'll have to go through the RCMP. Thanks ladies, I'm just a basket case right now going over all the threats and inuendos (?) he was making. He assured me he has nothing to lose and won't stop. Still though, I had to deal with this.

The leason officer at VPD may know the best person for you to contact at the Surrey RCMP.

 

[sevenofnine]

i stuggle for words but feel the need to say something

first im sorry,
no women deserves this

i think the worst a women in this should ever have to face, in an angry obsessed client
is an exchange of words, conveying his feelings his disappointment
she has a chance to respond answer
then its over,
anything more is unacceptable.

from a clients perspective, i guess i have been there, you get involved with a women she means so much to you,and maybe the rest of your life is in a shambles so you hang on to the relationship you have with an sp make more of it then it is.
yeah i have been stupid,
never crossed the line and stalked an sp but had a fight. and made a mess, i was rather stupid,

but like i said i never crossed the line. and it was totally my fault,
so i can understand what men go through,

i just want to say to a guy, who is over obessed with an sp, just leave it alone and get on with your life. move on.
fix your life, first, there are other women out there, other sps and if your a nice guy they will enjoy your company, you won't have to stalk them,
clue in buddy, if your stalking some one harressing some one, your the fucking idiot, your the fucking problem, correct your problems. fix your life.

and in my defense, yeah i messed up
with an sp, my fault.
we had words went our own way.

like six months latter, i emailed her,
wanna try this again.
she said ok,

were best friends, within the confines of this hobby, but still we share our life, but only several hours at a time,
its funny and maybe its hard to understand but that is all i want.

my point is to any jerk guy.

fix your fucking life, and you won't have to stalk any one. the problem is yours all yours and you should dam well fix it

 

[laurel love]

Wow! I can empathize.

A man with nothing to lose has already lost everything due to his mental illness (that is what it is, really).

You may not be his first victim either. Others may have been too fearful to report him.

A long while ago I learned about the importance of reporting a dog bite. In order for action to be taken the dog generally has 2 bites behind him and the third bite is the 'final straw' (this may have changed) but, in comparison to this problem, without reporting the first, (or subsequent) 'bite' the perpetrator can continue biting a lot of victims before something is done!

I do hope you get this sorted out safely and you were very wise to post this. We are in a vulnerable position and perpetrators are attracted to our apparently helpless position in life.

good luck

 

[Surrey's Jewel]

i stuggle for words but feel the need to say something

first im sorry,
no women deserves this

i think the worst a women in this should ever have to face, in an angry obsessed client
is an exchange of words, conveying his feelings his disappointment
she has a chance to respond answer
then its over,
anything more is unacceptable.

from a clients perspective, i guess i have been there, you get involved with a women she means so much to you,and maybe the rest of your life is in a shambles so you hang on to the relationship you have with an sp make more of it then it is.
yeah i have been stupid,
never crossed the line and stalked an sp but had a fight. and made a mess, i was rather stupid,

but like i said i never crossed the line. and it was totally my fault,
so i can understand what men go through,

i just want to say to a guy, who is over obessed with an sp, just leave it alone and get on with your life. move on.
fix your life, first, there are other women out there, other sps and if your a nice guy they will enjoy your company, you won't have to stalk them,
clue in buddy, if your stalking some one harressing some one, your the fucking idiot, your the fucking problem, correct your problems. fix your life.

and in my defense, yeah i messed up
with an sp, my fault.
we had words went our own way.

like six months latter, i emailed her,
wanna try this again.
she said ok,

were best friends, within the confines of this hobby, but still we share our life, but only several hours at a time,
its funny and maybe its hard to understand but that is all i want.

my point is to any jerk guy.

fix your fucking life, and you won't have to stalk any one. the problem is yours all yours and you should dam well fix it

Wow, that made me cry. I so hope this fellow reads your post. I know deep down he is a fantastic person with so much to offer. For 6 years I've encouraged him to try match.com and see other 'SP's' and at times he has tried. I am just not available for more than a business relationship with him and now that he has crossed the line and called my Strata and caused me trouble (or tried as they were very understanding and assured me they don't care what I do in my suite) I just have to take a stand. No one can use threats and bullying to ruin what I have worked so hard to acheive for myself. Thank you everyone for your support.

 

[J.O. Henson]

ashamed for all men when i read this. I hope you are OK and the threats are nothing more than someone trying to be a bully, as many stupid men use as their last ditch effort when faced with adversity so as to get their way. be safe and make sure you are protected.

 

[myselftheother]

ashamed for all men when i read this. I hope you are OK and the threats are nothing more than someone trying to be a bully, as many stupid men use as their last ditch effort when faced with adversity so as to get their way. be safe and make sure you are protected.

Concur most heartily...guys like these (they are not Men) make the rest of us who enjoy and pursue this hobby regularly cringe as most of us are not nuts and hate to hear of one of our favourite Sp's out there being mistreated and abused by these sort of wackos. We are all in this for one thing or another, and rely on safe, reliable, discreet sessions that make everyone including the lovely women we see feel safe and relaxed. Really sorry that you're going through this bullshit, Jewel, as I have met you and experienced your wonderful self, and felt that you are a real boon to this industry. Big kisses and hugs.

 

[Lefty]

He called your fukkin strata ? That is insane! Get help and watch your back. Ge-zus.

 

[deathreborn]

ask about getting peace bond against him. (canadian version of a restraining order).

 

[steverino]

I assume that based on your initial post he reads this board. Back channels may be a better way of providing information if you want to keep your strategy to deal with this out of his view.