Exclusive Mistress Rates/Year

[azen]

erk

my response is focuses mainly to cj. i admit i didn't get past his response to this post on the first page. states he'd rather get,,eek...marrie....eee..d!!! ow!
the word is EVIL!! ropes one into all kinds of unnecessary situations. if genuine, it's RARE!!! no need to ever worry of consequence if real. MISTRESS...this means no alimony or fear of...fun, freedom, choice, option! no boredom, or obligation! should be an issue as long as all is clear from the start & satisfaction guaranteed both ways. when (and it will happen) parting ways occurs, it should be friendly and with no regret if she is a true mistress and u felt and respected this throughout. a marriage rarely parts with such peace!!!!
xo...azen

 

[azen]

ps
i only posted publically bc his pm box was full
azen

 

[azen]

now...my response to the question...admitted again...haven't spent much time thinging of the situation...but when do I EVER!!!! i would not be me if i did and i would not have honest response heard if cut off bc of my honest responses. EXCLUSIVE.. one asks a lot...but in asking also understands that a girl/guy asked to agree has to live as well as be part of the requesters way of living. if they are to be exclusive...then i would assume the asker would be aware they are also agreeing to fully take care of what they ask for!!! if this was not expected they would be out searching in the other world for a girl/boyfriend with a different living. if they ask in this world...they should know..doh.. what they ask and are in for!!!!
silly wabbit...xo....azen

 

[azen]

for those who don't understand my way of communication!!!!!!
some are compensated for their time as a way of surviving....
if they are requested for such time and asked to be EXCLUSIVE then the asker should be clear of the source of income and compensate for this without question as it should have been expected and already in place before asking!!!!!!!
doh!!! azen

 

[NaughtyCelia]

Naughty Secretary

What about having a secretary who worked for you in a sexy outfit and sort of doubled as your mistress? She'd be on your payroll, so you wouldn't have to explain to your wife where all your money was going... Don't most men fantasize about their secretaries anyway?

I would start the bid at $50K for a basic administrative position... Other things could be up for negotiation...

 

[momlover]

Billy Joel had a song that said in part "You get more mileage from a cheap pair of speakers" I think this applies here too. If you want an exclusive mistress, go to the Low Track and get to know the gals down there and if you like one, ask if you could be her girlfriend for $200 a month, they are on welfare anyways, so this will top up their monthly payments, and she will be happy to do anything you want, and she just might fall in love with you.

 

[dittman]

jeez haveing an exclusive mistress would be like your married naw would have to pass on that.

 

[hardup]

I think if you want her to be exclusive to you, then you have to be prepared to replace her income. If she's giving up 75 000 a year to be with you then it only makes sense that it should cost you 75 000 a year.

Love is Grand, Divorce is a hundred times that.

 

[GoodTrouble]

But that at the same time, requires her to be exclusively available to you at all times.

WellI would have no problem giving LisaGigglez 70G a year and still making sure her schooling is continued.

 

[Eden]

Ahhh, cmon dittman, you know that you want exclusivity if it meant that you didn't have to walk very far!!

 

[rollerboy]

I think if you want her to be exclusive to you, then you have to be prepared to replace her income. If she's giving up 75 000 a year to be with you then it only makes sense that it should cost you 75 000 a year.

It makes sense, but there are other factors which come into play. For instance, there is the cost of that income. Time being one of the greatest. Presumably a mistress has a great deal more free time than a full time SP. She could, as has been pointed out, go to school full or part time or even have a straight job. Or not.

Let's say to net $75k, she needs to bring in $150k. At $300/hr, that's 500 hrs of cock + travel time + background checks/arranging sessions + scheduling dead time + time spent drumming up business etc. She'll need to see probably at least a hundred customers a year, greatly increasing her odds of getting an STD, beaten, raped, robbed, etc. Then there's the social cost, being a mistress is probably less stigmatized than being a whore.

Plus I doubt most sugar daddies can go at it for 500 hours a year. Remember, sugar daddies usually have wives, girlfriends etc. or even other mistresses.

 

[NaughtyCelia]

sugar daddy rant...

I suppose there are a lot of factors at play when determining the cost...

I don't think it's so much the actual cost (ie.: per hour) of the woman, but what it's worth for her to be that person's mistress. For some men, I would have to say "1 billion dollars", (meaning, 'forget it you're gross') for others, maybe less... It would have a lot to do with the chemistry between us and whether or not I considered suicide in his presence.

Also an important factor is how much money the 'sugar daddy' is making. Typically, only really rich men have full time mistresses. If the guy is a millionaire, then it would make sense that his mistress' salary would be really high. If his budget was smaller, they would come to an agreement that was fair for both parties, whatever 'fair' meant for either or. And he if couldn't afford the lady he wanted, then too bad. Life is tough. It is a privilege to be pampered by a beautiful woman- not a right.

I just throw these things out there ever now and then to see... I always get some interesting debates and offers as a result. Last year I took a job as an executive assitant as a result of a similar post. I was paid a lot more than someone of my qualifications would normally be because I doubled as entertainment. Fun times were had. Prior to this, I ate indian food with a man once a week for a set price. In addition to the large collection of incense and silk scarves that I now posess as a result, I also know how to make shrimp vindaloo and have a new appreciation for paneer (which, sadly, I have not mastered).

I can't say that I've figured out what the 'standard' is for mistresses in all of my experience- I'm doubting there is one. I think about all the women who marry for money and don't really love their husbands- I wonder what their hourly wage turns out to be at the end of the day?