exactly whats the difference between an sp and say a girlfriend or a wife

[sevenofnine]

please this is just for my curiosity and ammusment only,
but i need to be reminded,
what is the difference, between having a wife and or a girl friend or an sp.

i had a session a couple days ago, i thought it was pretty much a done deal ok, talked on the phone with her a couple of hours before, it was all good.

but i got stood up.

not a big deal in the over all scheme of things ok,
but it was my fault.

i haven't quite figured out what i did, or what i should do differently the next time, but i have no doubt it was my fault, the lady told me so. and she was quite adament about it that i screwed up.
again not sure how, her explanation made no sense to me,
but i pretty much accept it its my fault.
its easier that way,

now i had a long term gig going on with an sp. it fell threw the crack
i have no wish to relive or whine or be bitter, that is not my intent here,
and in the overall scheme of things it means fuck all,
and i took some ones advice, found another sp, and im getting laid more and more regular, so it worked out for me,

but again it was all my fault, my sp told me so,
again im slow i havent' figured out all the hows and whys, and at this point i really don't give a rats ass any more,

but im left wondering and bewildered,
what exactly is the difference between having a wife or a girlfriend,
and having an sp.
i need to be reminded

 

[trackstar]

The Holographic Doctor's diagnosis: "7of9, there really is no hope for you anymore. Why do you cling so EMOTIONALLY to these women as if they ARE your wife or girlfriend? THAT is what you did wrong."

Does anyone else wonder if ol' Spermy here is the real life version of Comic Book Guy???

 

[sevenofnine]

The Holographic Doctor's diagnosis: "7of9, there really is no hope for you anymore. Why do you cling so EMOTIONALLY to these women as if they ARE your wife or girlfriend? THAT is what you did wrong."

no sorry buddy, you got it wrong,

the girl who stood me up, i never even met her, no emotional attachement whatso ever,
we just arranged somthing she stood me up,

and it was my fault. i don't get why,
she stood me up after we talked on the phone two hours before,
and it was all good, i swear it was all good, but i got a no show.
and then latter and stilll today,
\i never even met her, and im still emailing with her,
and she is still telling me how i screwed up.
i swear i have no emotional attachement to this lady whatso ever,
but it feels alot like a wife,
a week latter and im still in shit.
and i don't even no what the fuck i did in the first place.

and the first lady the long term lady,
no im done, your wrong there to,
good sex with a good sp, goes along way to make one forget,
the best advice any one gave me, period.
it worked out better for me believe me,

 

[island-guy]

please this is just for my curiosity and ammusment only,
but i need to be reminded,
what is the difference, between having a wife and or a girl friend or an sp.

i had a session a couple days ago, i thought it was pretty much a done deal ok, talked on the phone with her a couple of hours before, it was all good.

but i got stood up.

not a big deal in the over all scheme of things ok,
but it was my fault.

i haven't quite figured out what i did, or what i should do differently the next time, but i have no doubt it was my fault, the lady told me so. and she was quite adament about it that i screwed up.
again not sure how, her explanation made no sense to me,
but i pretty much accept it its my fault.
its easier that way,

now i had a long term gig going on with an sp. it fell threw the crack
i have no wish to relive or whine or be bitter, that is not my intent here,
and in the overall scheme of things it means fuck all,
and i took some ones advice, found another sp, and im getting laid more and more regular, so it worked out for me,

but again it was all my fault, my sp told me so,
again im slow i havent' figured out all the hows and whys, and at this point i really don't give a rats ass any more,

but im left wondering and bewildered,
what exactly is the difference between having a wife or a girlfriend,
and having an sp.
i need to be reminded

Maybe she realized how exceedingly annoying you are?

If you can't tell the difference, then you shouldn't see SPs.

 

[kalel]

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this thread makes me question the theory of evolution. apparently we evolved from apes, yet apes still exist. that means not everyone evolved.

the point - start thinking better.

 

[sevenofnine]

thats it,
i don't fucking know what i did wrong,
but im in shit again,
a familiar place with me and women,
and an sp feels alot like a wife or a girlfriend to me,
there expensive, and im continuoulsy getting into shit.

it doesn't seem to matter what i do,
and its always my fault

i was hoping some one could remind me why im paying for this,
and how its so much better then marriage.

 

[sevenofnine]

come on guys im trying to have some fun here
why is it a guy is always to blame when the shit hits the fan

whether its his wife, his girl friend or his sp,
its always the guys fault.
why

 

[bcneil]

Over the years I have had many ladies mad at me.
And I knew why each time.
Its hard to believe you don`t know why.

Most likely you just creep her out, and she is scared.

 

[island-guy]

come on guys im trying to have some fun here
why is it a guy is always to blame when the shit hits the fan

whether its his wife, his girl friend or his sp,
its always the guys fault.
why

because the guy is always YOU?

 

[trackstar]

Generally an SP won't nag you, guilt you, oops you with kids, and steal half your money when you divorce

Yes, they ask for it up front

 

[Harmony-bc]

thats it,
i don't fucking know what i did wrong,
but im in shit again,
a familiar place with me and women,
and an sp feels alot like a wife or a girlfriend to me,
there expensive, and im continuoulsy getting into shit.

it doesn't seem to matter what i do,
and its always my fault

i was hoping some one could remind me why im paying for this,
and how its so much better then marriage.

Who knows what you did wrong. Some people are easy to please, some are hard.

The difference is an escort leaves when her time is up and you owe her nothing if you don't want to see her again. No need to explain yourself or anything. With the right escort it is just a no strings attached, passionate interlude to take you outside of yourself for a little while.

The rest of you. 7of9 is over his poor me stage, so start being nice to him. Sheesh, you guys are just bullies on the school playground. Play nice.

 

[trackstar]

Wife:

Girlfriend:

SP:

 

[lenny]

come on guys im trying to have some fun here
why is it a guy is always to blame when the shit hits the fan

whether its his wife, his girl friend or his sp,
its always the guys fault.
why

Because women are incurable romantics.

Therefore they need the man to be the white knight in shining armour
who lays down in the mud for her to walk cleanly across.

IOW they need to be loved.

They don't feel that if they have to take the blame.

 

[trackstar]

Because women are incurable romantics.

Therefore they need the man to be the white knight in shining armour
who lays down in the mud for her to walk cleanly across.

IOW they need to be loved.

They don't feel that if they have to take the blame.

I bet a shit load of women are gagging while they read this The 50's are over my friend. Women today are much more independent and balk at the idea of needing a man to rescue them

 

[lenny]

I bet a shit load of women are gagging while they read this The 50's are over my friend. Women today are much more independent and balk at the idea of needing a man to rescue them

I guess my point, though not entirely serious, was more about romance
and love than rescue. I was surfing a certain site the other day and
under romance there were 10 pages of submissions by women and
only one page by men. Or, to give another example, in Craigslist's
"casual" section over 90% are men looking for women. Even there the
ladies are usually looking for a guy to take her to the theatre, dancing,
for a drink or a LTR. Sex is not even mentioned.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Wife:

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Your wife looks like a man!!!

 

[trackstar]

Your wife looks like a man!!!

Hey, she's still taking hormones! Give her a break, will you?!?!?!

 

[hang5507]

You guys ( and girls ) are a tough crowd.
Face it, there is no difference, they are all females..
and thank whoever for them because life would be pretty boring with only a bunch of hairy asses to look at..

Regards

H

 

[kso_wiz]

The difference

The wife is on salary and thinks she has tenure.

The SP is hourly or piecemeal.

 

[kalel]

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Wife:

Girlfriend:

SP:

i don't think i could have come up with a better answer