Every bought a session for somoeone?

[vanperb]

It's Father's day and I know from fixing my dad's phone and recognizing a couple of massage parlour number that my dad still has an appetite. It got me thinking about getting him a session with an SP (probably not one I frequent but I've had good experience with.) I wonder how many SP's would allow "gifting a session"? I know in certain cultures it's not unusual for an older brother or nephew to bring them to their first SP for their first experience.

Thoughts?

P.S. Sorry about the spelling mistake in the subject. I can't change it now.

 

[giaebonyprincess]

Send him my way!!

It's Father's day and I know from fixing my dad's phone and recognizing a couple of massage parlour number that my dad still has an appetite. It got me thinking about getting him a session with an SP (probably not one I frequent but I've had good experience with.) I wonder how many SP's would allow "gifting a session"? I know in certain cultures it's not unusual for an older brother or nephew to bring them to their first SP for their first experience.

Thoughts?

P.S. Sorry about the spelling mistake in the subject. I can't change it now.

Fly him to me!!!! I'll take care of him........yummy

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[Caramel]

Its a little sketchy IMO, because some SP's only feel comfortable if the other party knows exactly what to expect and whats going on, if she has never spoken to the gift recipient, and he just shows up, he may not know all the rules or she wouldn't know what he is wanting either. Its even worse when its a surprise, what if the guy just isn't in the mood or has a herpes outbreak or a shaving cut lol (OK I know I'm over reaching but still, anything could happen) or hes decided to stop cheating on his wife that day, and then he says NO and walks out, SP is sitting there with a WOT and not paid (unless the gift giver pre-paid her, which would be the smart thing to do in this case)

 

[JonnyBoi]

I wouldn't mind if someone paid for my visits .. It's my potential scheduling conflict that worries me..
I am also not averse to paying for someone's session, but the logistics of it can be tricky I feel - since everyone here is using an alias (women and the guys)...

It'd be interesting though - instead of taking one for the team, it'd be "having one on the team", haha. Or, having a HOOTT.

 

[vanperb]

I'm trying to think of how to broach the subject with a friend or father....

"So I know it's been a while and I know this wonderful woman that I think you'll have lots of fun with. It'll be all paid up and she'll take the reins. Just rememeber, shower when you get there, condom goes on for fucking, and have fun."

Or the other side.

"Yeah it's my dad. I'll pay up before hand, we'll set up a day. I'll drop him off. Treat him like a newbie, and take the reins a bit."

 

[giaebonyprincess]

I been around this so long my problem is I see it as entire normal and have to remind myself not everyone else does. If SP's sold gift cards I'd probably buy a couple at Christmas for close friends.

funny..........but not everyone is as open minded as we maybe.​

 

[Officeguy]

I know in certain cultures it's not unusual for an older brother or nephew to bring them to their first SP for their first experience.

I had a big brother from the Big brothers org, he was stationed in europe for his work for a year when I was 16 (1972) he was swedish and felt it was his duty to get me my first lay, so on one of the 3 trips he flew me out to europe for a visit and a surprise as he called it, he took me to the red light district in Paris and into a Cathouse.....the rest is a vivid memory to this day...she was 24 and a brunette....with Ds ....

 

[giaebonyprincess]

I had a big brother from the Big brothers org, he was stationed in europe for his work for a year when I was 16 (1972) he was swedish and felt it was his duty to get me my first lay, so on one of the 3 trips he flew me out to europe for a visit and a surprise as he called it, he took me to the red light district in Paris and into a Cathouse.....the rest is a vivid memory to this day...she was 24 and a brunette....with Ds ....

Wow....what a nice Big brother but I don't think he would be able to get away with that nowadays. My nephew has a big brother, I cant see that happening or his mother agreeing to that.

 

[Officeguy]

Mom did not know and i did not tell her .......he was indeed a wonderful man who taught me a lot in life.....back then I had sex with with that woman in the open booth inside the cathouse, the law was anyone under 18 could stay in the booth but could not leave into a room with the ladies....I remember right in the middle of my first BJ ever this old woman walked up in front of us with roses and wanted
me to buy some for the lady...I did not understand what she was saying so the woman I was with told her to leave...I was sooooo embarrassed....willy went missing and she worked so
hard to get it back...sigh such a great memory

 

[sevenofnine]

I have a couple of single friends that seem lonely and horny,
I thought about it, but naw that would open me up, they see my wife,

I have ran across one or two handicapped guys, I have talked to them,
it would seem like a nice thing to do, buy a session for a handicapped, gent
1 they still get horny, 2. there not working so can't afford squat.

but like some one mentioned, would the sp appreciate it, and would they,

I sent a lap dancer across to some lonely old guy in a bar once. paid for,
he got up, gave me the dirtiest look and walked out.

you never really know what is going on in some ones head.

 

[giaebonyprincess]

I have a couple of single friends that seem lonely and horny,
I thought about it, but naw that would open me up, they see my wife,

I have ran across one or two handicapped guys, I have talked to them,
it would seem like a nice thing to do, buy a session for a handicapped, gent
1 they still get horny, 2. there not working so can't afford squat.

but like some one mentioned, would the sp appreciate it, and would they,

I sent a lap dancer across to some lonely old guy in a bar once. paid for,
he got up, gave me the dirtiest look and walked out.

you never really know what is going on in some ones head.

That's true, maybe have a open discussion with them first. If there uncomfortable speaking about it then they maybe uncomfortable going?

 

[giaebonyprincess]

I had a big brother from the Big brothers org, he was stationed in europe for his work for a year when I was 16 (1972) he was swedish and felt it was his duty to get me my first lay, so on one of the 3 trips he flew me out to europe for a visit and a surprise as he called it, he took me to the red light district in Paris and into a Cathouse.....the rest is a vivid memory to this day...she was 24 and a brunette....with Ds ....

Your PM box is full, time to UNLOAD!!

 

[Officeguy]

Oh! lol thank you Giaebonyprincess ...I just deleted many messages, didnt realize I had so many

 

[Claire Monet]

I had a guy recently contact me about sending his friend for a visit as a birthday gift. I hadn't met either of them and it was a little weird asking the guy for info about his friend. He told me his friend knew about the the scenario and was interested in a non-fs session. I agreed to see him after doing screening that way if the fee was e-transferred. It didn't materialize.

 

[zigzag6984]

I have an online correspondence friend who is the 32 year old version of the 40 year old virgin. If I had the money to pay for him to have an SP for the night, I'd do it. However, I can only afford to do this hobby for myself a few times a year, so, he's on his own. Also, I know he wouldn't go for it because I've casually mentioned seeing an SP for an hour or 90 minutes session and he shot it down. Which is why I think it'd have to be an over-nighter. He has come to peace that it probably won't happen.

With that said, if any of youse have an extra $300 burning in your wallet. . .:rofl:

 

[Lady Companion]

It's actually a fairly common request. I personally will not see somebody unless I have spoken with them beforehand and feel as though we are a good match. However, it is a pretty easy work around. Once we speak and decide we would like to spend time together, the person who is providing the gift either prepays through e transfer or credit card, which is by far the most common, or provides their friend with an envelope for the liaison.

I am also not ok with seeing someone who doesn't understand the nature of the transaction. I realize that friends are trying to be generous and kind, but some people are not OK with seeing a companion for a variety of reasons. And it is not fair to put somebody in a position that they have a personal, religious or otherwise moral issue with.

 

[summerbreeze]

think the first time I stepped into a spa to inquire I bought a gift certificate for a friend which I ended up using

I asked what type of massage and the mamasan went to get the girls, once I saw the girls and what they were wearing I had no doubt what type of massage. of course being first time I had no idea what was offered and how much

I think they could tell it was the first time from the way I was acting, no doubt they were laughing amongst themselves as to who was going to pop my cherry.

came back a week later and did the deed, was quite erotic with the girl massaging and trying to tease enough to entice me for the extra's she was going to offer, the tension of not knowing what she was going to do and on her side the tension of how to solicit this illegal act from an innocent first time customer was quite an adventure

on occasion over the years I have played the role of the innocent, unknowing new customer at a few other spa location just to see how the girl was going to handle things or how she was going to convince me to remove my shorts....

test their seduction capability

 

[vanperb]

I am also not ok with seeing someone who doesn't understand the nature of the transaction. I realize that friends are trying to be generous and kind, but some people are not OK with seeing a companion for a variety of reasons. And it is not fair to put somebody in a position that they have a personal, religious or otherwise moral issue with.

Completely agreed. That would be cruel for all parties involved even though the original intent could be seen as thoughtful / generous.
The responsiblity should purely be the buying friend to make sure that all partie are comfortable and informed about the transaction and the event.

If not, there's always steak and whiskey that I can't say would be a fair substitute but it'll have to do. A thoughtful gift is still a thoughtful gift.

 

[vanperb]

Yes for instance if a gent is wanting to pay me or another SP to pretend to be a civvy to have a threesome with their wife/gf. I would never agree to this as it's unfair to the partner who did not consent to being with a sex worker in this situation. In Toronto there's a few guys trying to pull this and it's really sneaky.

Were they trying to pay for friends who weren't aware of the situation, or bring in a spouse who was unaware of the situation?