Ever felt sad about losing a regular girl?

[tkat]

Should I get back to her in few weeks and ask if she is back to working again? Would that be a good idea or just leave it as is.

I’ve had it happen too, losing a regular sucks but I was so happy that she got out of this and into a regular life. I wanted nothing but the best for her. I filed the memories we had and put it in my mental filing cabinet. Every so often I would take those memories out and remember her but it made me happy to know she made something of herself.

Hey man....it couldn’t hurt to try one more time in a few weeks. Nothing to lose and everything to gain. But leave it as is after one last try. Good luck bro!

 

[grizzly]

Should I get back to her in few weeks and ask if she is back to working again? Would that be a good idea or just leave it as is.

If you contact anymore you may jeopardize your reputation with her. It hasn't been that long and you don't know her day to day. I've had this happen to me. A lady I call a regular, but it was infrequent. Sometimes a couple of months went by until I saw her again but she was always prompt in returning my text with a "hello sweetheart". I texted her, and no reply. I texted again a couple of days later and still no reply. Almost two weeks later she surfaces. It turns out she was in Cuba for 10 days.

Another exceptional lady I see just spent 6 weeks in the orient. Although she did tell me she was going.

If I were you, just wait it out. If you don't hear from her in three weeks, you have to move on.

 

[felixthecat]

Should I get back to her in few weeks and ask if she is back to working again?

Yes. It is entirely possible she won't see your previous texts, if her phone is off for an extended time. So it makes sense to check how she's doing after a few weeks or when she starts advertising.

If/when she's back to work, I don't see why she wouldn't reply to a regular. Don't seat and wait though, do something/someone else.

 

[joho]

It happens to many of us as you can see in the previous comments. The pooners also do ghosting. Have I ever done it? Yes! They are many amazing providers you meet and feels a strong connection/feelings. You can't help it. This is what I learned from my own experience. Enjoy every moment with that special lady. If she decides not to see you anymore, it's time to move on. Time heals the empty feelings and sorrow. Just focus on other things that make you happy. Exercise, travel, and spend time with friends. When it happened to me, I focused on weight training and travel. After 3 months, I was in a great shape and ended up meeting this great girl in Norway during my rafting trip! There is a song called "Without you" by Avicii. Good luck

 

[Kingpin29]

It happens to many of us as you can see in the previous comments. The pooners also do ghosting. Have I ever done it? Yes! They are many amazing providers you meet and feels a strong connection/feelings. You can't help it. This is what I learned from my own experience. Enjoy every moment with that special lady. If she decides not to see you anymore, it's time to move on. Time heals the empty feelings and sorrow. Just focus on other things that make you happy. Exercise, travel, and spend time with friends. When it happened to me, I focused on weight training and travel. After 3 months, I was in a great shape and ended up meeting this great girl in Norway during my rafting trip! There is a song called "Without you" by Avicii. Good luck

This is solid advice here. Similarly from my own experience, after my regular moved on I put even more time in the gym and work. Also focused on improving my diet too as that is key to success in being healthy and fit. All I can think back is how wonderful those moments were with her. But with every end there is a new beginning. I already feel great from being in good shape and being around the people I care about most. Whatever happens, life keeps moving on. With or without you, and I chose to move on with my life, and look forward to the future.
Go and do what you love most, and put all your effort into that. It's the most rewarding thing, because it's self love.