Ever Fallen for an SP?
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I once fell down the stairs after seeing an SP! 
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I have a friend who tried it full time with a Sp. BIG Mistake. Damn near ruined his life and still does not know if everything will be ok. Depends on the girl I think. Some are upgrading their education while they are working. If they have the drive to get out and work at a lower paying job, then it could work out. But as far as "Pretty Girl" I would think few and far between.
You too, eh Wolvie? I almost fell down the stairs at Penthouse when I was walking out the door backwards. LOLwolverine said:I once fell down the stairs after seeing an SP!
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Don't believe everything you read!
It happens more often than one would think. And yes, there are a lot of success stories out there, contrary to the naysayers. SPs are people too, and they eventually settle on someone, some continuing in the trade, some not. I have quite a few friends that are in long term relationships with active and inactive SPs. They're just quiet about it, and why wouldn't they be? It's not something you advertise in the morning papers.
It happens more often than one would think. And yes, there are a lot of success stories out there, contrary to the naysayers. SPs are people too, and they eventually settle on someone, some continuing in the trade, some not. I have quite a few friends that are in long term relationships with active and inactive SPs. They're just quiet about it, and why wouldn't they be? It's not something you advertise in the morning papers.
Maury,
This all started when I read Tonyinkelowna's problems. I have known a couple of sp's over the years and have found them to be not just human but exceptional people, honest in ways that most people are'nt and very caring and compassionate " ladies" and this is not a word I use lightly. I'm curious do these relationships not work out not because the gals can't commit(though I'm sure it happens) or because their significant other can't get passed what she used to do for a living. Tony has way more problems than just this but I think it's partly to blame.
I guess the romantic in me was hoping to hear how love conquers all and the way people may meet does't matter when they find someone who makes their heart skip a beat even in a business as full of lies and deception as this.
This all started when I read Tonyinkelowna's problems. I have known a couple of sp's over the years and have found them to be not just human but exceptional people, honest in ways that most people are'nt and very caring and compassionate " ladies" and this is not a word I use lightly. I'm curious do these relationships not work out not because the gals can't commit(though I'm sure it happens) or because their significant other can't get passed what she used to do for a living. Tony has way more problems than just this but I think it's partly to blame.
I guess the romantic in me was hoping to hear how love conquers all and the way people may meet does't matter when they find someone who makes their heart skip a beat even in a business as full of lies and deception as this.
The first thing you have to do when evaluating a relationship with an SP is to disconnect sex from love. Sex has very little to do with love, and vice versa. While that connection may apply to the both of you, it is irrelevant between her and her client. It's all about business and it's all about money.hardup said:
Consider this parallel... Imagine your straight girlfriend in Sales. She is warm, affable, friendly, approacheable, and even at times, flirtateous with her clients. Her objective is to get the job done by whatever means necessary, and in some relationships, like the spy business for instance, even sleep with her client to achieve her objectives. All through this however, she maintains a loving, uncompromising relationship with you. You have her commitment, and her emotional attachment is to you exclusively.
Now put yourself in her situation, and her in yours. Same isn't it? The only reason many think a relationship of this sort is risky is because there is more skin contact in an SP's business than a conventional business handshake. Women are much more capable than men when it comes to disconnecting themselves from sex. Men struggle with this question a lot, and that's why it surfaces frequently in here.
Tony's situation has more to do with his own emotional insecurity than whether or not she'll stick around. Like a lot of men, he sees himself as her saviour, while she sees him as a meal ticket. He has to constantly lie to himself to maintain his focus on her. He knows she is using him, but he is trying to drown out his logical reasoning with his infatuation for her. She's out of town now, so it is hard to ignore his better judgement. Sadly, I've seen this many times, but he has to conquer his impulses and muster up the courage he needs to flush her out of his system.
At this stage in my life I've learned that any relationship is a risk... how much risk are you comfortable with?
I did'nt start this thread to evaluate a relationship with an SP rather that I was curious about whether or not romance exists in an industry that is so often romanticised ie. Pretty Woman.
Let's face it, the dashing Knight saving the Damsel from a life of ill repute is a wonderfully romantic idea, but is it reality? Are there any happy endings? Or are we all just sport phucking and chemistry and compatibility and for lack of a better word "love" are just a 60 min phenomenon?
I did'nt start this thread to evaluate a relationship with an SP rather that I was curious about whether or not romance exists in an industry that is so often romanticised ie. Pretty Woman.
Let's face it, the dashing Knight saving the Damsel from a life of ill repute is a wonderfully romantic idea, but is it reality? Are there any happy endings? Or are we all just sport phucking and chemistry and compatibility and for lack of a better word "love" are just a 60 min phenomenon?
Ok, in all seriousness I have but will never expect a Pretty Woman happy ending to realistically happen even though I have always had thoughts and dreams about what it would be like.hardup said:
You also have to be careful when it gets rough upstairs in the head and the way you think. When it starts getting rough, you have to keep your mind occupied on something else such as go for a workout or swim, read a book, or put together that model car you been meaning to put together for awhile, go see a movie or go out and play some pool with some friends or something of that nature.
Short answers to questions...hardup said:
1: No, but Hollywood would have us believe otherwise. However, Hollywood has never been about reality!
2: Probably, (Not)
3: No, the true measure of the success of any monogamous relationship is not at the start, but at the end...
in love with a SP
Here's a fairy tale for you
An 80 yr old man falls in love with an 21 yr old escort . never has sex with her and lets her have as much sex as she want with who ever she want . Die a month later a happy man
Now thats a relationship that worked.
No he did not leave her his fortune.
Here's a fairy tale for you
An 80 yr old man falls in love with an 21 yr old escort . never has sex with her and lets her have as much sex as she want with who ever she want . Die a month later a happy man
Now thats a relationship that worked.
No he did not leave her his fortune.
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Oh yeah, and she was a stripper, not an escort!
If you're referring to Anna Nicole Smith, he, J. Howard Marshall II was 90 when he died. They courted three years before tying the knot, he died one year later, and left his entire $88.5M estate to her. His children sued, and won. However, an appeal judge reversed the lower court's decision, granting her his estate. A week ago, a U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals judge quashed the lower Appeal judge's decision, and awarded the entire estate to his decendants. Anna who was 26 when he died, didn't get a penny in the end...maxx50 said:
Oh yeah, and she was a stripper, not an escort!
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Marshall was worth close to 1 BILLION dollars at the time of his death. Smith was supposed to get half when he died, but Marshall's son has fought the will since his dad's death. The $88.5 million was the latest amount.Maury Beniowski said:
