virgin said:
Interestingly, a certain well-reviewed sp refused to meet with me ever. I had sent her reasonably courteous emails to which she initially responded favorably. Then all of a sudden she said I should look elsewhere. I am pretty sure she still takes new clients based on some postings.
Is this common? I suspect she may be rather unstable. Crack will do that.
Being comfortable with a client is a must for an SP, especially in light of events that have happened this year. We're talking about someone not only welcoming you into thier home, but also thier body, and sharing intimacy not normally shared by strangers.
These women are providing us with a service that many disagree with, most look down on and that some are paid to hunt down and prosecute. Yes, LE are PAID to find these "evil, law breaking women" and bring them to justice.
So, if an SP decides, for whatever reason, being it that she's uncomfortable with the story she's been given, uncomfortable with the services that are being asked for, or even the appearance/size/shape or smell of a client, that she would prefer not to offer her services, we should respect that and move on.
Some girls refuse to do FS on the first session, offering a "see if we hit it off 1/2hr BJ session" to start with. Others now make sure they have a friend/fellow SP on hand for a first visit. Remember, the next new client they see could be weilding a badge or a knife, and either way, end thier life in this business.
That being said, I back any SP up completely in choosing who to see and who not to see. It's thier life and thier body that they are offering here, and it should be thier choice who to offer it to.
I'fe had a couple of SP's ask me about this kind of problem in the past, they may have even been referring to your case. I told them both that it was up to them, and if it felt wrong, they shouldn't do it. The hardest part is how to refuse delicately enough not to quash the ego of the client. I guess that part wasn't achieved, but probably not possible in this case anyway.
I realize that your reference to Crack was one made in frustration, and your mention of unstability as well. My suggestion, let it go. Try the MP's, gain a reputation here, earn some trust. Or try some of the more open-minded ladies here. Continue on this line and you'll only get more frustrated.
Rubin
