Hey all, what is the mystery around all the requests for etransfers from almost every provider I reach out to? Is there anything that can be done to confirm, or get around having to etransfer. I'm a fan of starting with a HH to "test the water" but hate to do any etransfers. Thoughts gentlemen?
ETransfer Mayhem
- Thread starter Bobtrain
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Unless you have been with the SP prior I would not recommend etransfer. It may be different from a very well reviewed SP as some of them want a deposit ahead of time but again do your homework to make sure they are legit. Cash in hand is always king in my mind.
Never send an e-transfer to an unvetted provider, that's pretty much the bottom line.
Here's some tips off the top of my head in order to vet them properly:
1a) Cross-reference the name and last 4 digits of their phone number in any popular escort review site. PERB or CAF.
1b) When reading the reviews, read the profile posting the review, and analyze their posting habits. A brand new account, and their first review reads like an Oscar acceptance speech? Most likely fake. An account that's been active for a while, and has seen a few provider to gauge the quality of a provider; could be legit.
2) Do they come from a reputable agency? Like Dollhouse or Beachbunnies in Kelowna? Or Asian Fever or Great Pharaoh in Vancouver? the 1122 group? or 6456?.... There isn't any in Kamloops, but if you've gone through shops and agencies before, then you should be able to trust the establishment over the provider. And if a deposit is their policy, I doubt they would rip you off.
3) Are they independent, running their own website? Was the website professionally put together? Are the photos high quality, produced by an actual photographer?
3b) Social Media can be a double-edged sword. ANyone can make a dummy account, so make sure their posting habits and the content they make is frequent enough to make you believe they are a real person, then DM her.
4) Text them... give a good courteous opening to the conversation, a little small talk to prove you're human. See how she responds back. Sometimes they'll respond like a human too. 'Like saying "Hello yourself there sweetie! I'm doing good, How can I help you?"...then ask for the rates and restriction, and so on and so on. The point is you're having a human conversation with her. And after beating around the bush, and she tells you the price and mentions a deposit, well that's up to you.... However, if the first thing she 'says' is spamming a pasted text with emojis of her rates and restrictions without even a human response to your greeting, then starts demanding a deposit off the hop, and then spam more about "are you on your way? huh huh HUH?"....really rushing you, then yeah, it's a scam.
5) Only if you're seen them before. This deposit thing is relatively new these past few years. And if there is a provider you've seen before and she starts asking for a deposit, why not, you know she's real and must give good service if you're contacting her again.
Outside these rules (or others I'm forgetting), the burden is on you not to get ripped off.
Here's some tips off the top of my head in order to vet them properly:
1a) Cross-reference the name and last 4 digits of their phone number in any popular escort review site. PERB or CAF.
1b) When reading the reviews, read the profile posting the review, and analyze their posting habits. A brand new account, and their first review reads like an Oscar acceptance speech? Most likely fake. An account that's been active for a while, and has seen a few provider to gauge the quality of a provider; could be legit.
2) Do they come from a reputable agency? Like Dollhouse or Beachbunnies in Kelowna? Or Asian Fever or Great Pharaoh in Vancouver? the 1122 group? or 6456?.... There isn't any in Kamloops, but if you've gone through shops and agencies before, then you should be able to trust the establishment over the provider. And if a deposit is their policy, I doubt they would rip you off.
3) Are they independent, running their own website? Was the website professionally put together? Are the photos high quality, produced by an actual photographer?
3b) Social Media can be a double-edged sword. ANyone can make a dummy account, so make sure their posting habits and the content they make is frequent enough to make you believe they are a real person, then DM her.
4) Text them... give a good courteous opening to the conversation, a little small talk to prove you're human. See how she responds back. Sometimes they'll respond like a human too. 'Like saying "Hello yourself there sweetie! I'm doing good, How can I help you?"...then ask for the rates and restriction, and so on and so on. The point is you're having a human conversation with her. And after beating around the bush, and she tells you the price and mentions a deposit, well that's up to you.... However, if the first thing she 'says' is spamming a pasted text with emojis of her rates and restrictions without even a human response to your greeting, then starts demanding a deposit off the hop, and then spam more about "are you on your way? huh huh HUH?"....really rushing you, then yeah, it's a scam.
5) Only if you're seen them before. This deposit thing is relatively new these past few years. And if there is a provider you've seen before and she starts asking for a deposit, why not, you know she's real and must give good service if you're contacting her again.
Outside these rules (or others I'm forgetting), the burden is on you not to get ripped off.
