Etiquette + How to be a good client

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splatzeld

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Sorry if this is wrong section

I've just started seeing sps. I am much more into massages with a HE than fs.

For independent sps, is it expected or normal to offer a tip or gift on top of the normal rate? Any tips for being a good client?

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Relax10

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Who doesn't like cash tips :lol:. It's not a requirement but can be a nice thank you. This is not a massage with extras situation. The rates are generally stated and some extras like cim or Greek are usually in the add with +100 or whatever the rate is. You can tip all you like there isn't an expectation and each client has their own reason for tipping. Some clients bring goodies like lingerie, flowers, wine, candy or something of the SP's wish list if they have one. To each their own. Keep in mind just because you didn't tip that does not mean the service was bad. And tipping isn't the only way to thank or show appreciation.

As for being a good client there isn't an exact rule book as each SP is a lil different but generally they respect timeliness, discretion, being clean and not being an asshole. Some SP's will differ on other things like reviews. Some SP's don't mind and some have a strict do not review policy. Another example of differing things from SP to SP is contact policy. Some have a text only policy and others have a fill out online form on their site.

Good luck and enjoy :tea:
 

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right here and now
Any tips for being a good client?
a) SPs are working girls and are earning- this is their job- don't be a chiseler and don't negotiate rates. Tips and gifts are not necessary. Just be a respectful good guy. Hygiene and manners rule. Respect her boundaries, limits and timelines.
b) on the flip side do your homework and don't get caught up in the BS that gets promoted through so many ladies' ads- you are on the right track with using this Board. If an ad smells even remotely funky then just move on. as you gain experience you will feel more comfortable with navigating the spectrum of offerings.
c) contribute to the Board- this helps us all to help ourselves
d) throw a few in 'er for me- I'm sort of on the wagon for the time being! :)
 
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