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Escorts vs Courtesan?

4pleasure

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Throwing out a topic for discussion as I'm bored :)

I figure over the years I've invested over 150K in spending time with professional service providers, so I'd say I have a fair overview of the industry in a lot of different countries. As I have grown older I find that "Escorts" hold less and less attraction for me and only "Courtesans" are of interest.

For me an Escort is a physically attractive woman who can hold my attention for a few hours perhaps over a period of weeks. To me a Courtesan is a physically and intellectually attractive woman who can captivate me for months or even years. A Courtesan is someone you can spend a week with and know they have the interest and intellect to keep both the sex and the time between the sex physically, emotionally and intellectually stimulating. I think Courtesans are the rare woman who are in the business because they actually enjoy it as a longer term career. The few I have known are highly intelligent, very creative, incredibly passionate and have the compassion to care about, and make connections with the clients they spend time with. They spend a lot of time and effort in preparing themselves in both mind and body for their sessions, and they have enough outside interests to carry conversations for hours or days on end. They have all been women who could likely have done anything they wanted in life but actually chose to be professional Courtesans as a lifestyle.

I think I liked the variety of escorts when I was younger, now it seems to be more about making a connection and getting to know someone well enough to make the sex extraordinary.

In my opinion there are a lot of escorts in the business but there are very few courtesans. Over the decades I've only been lucky enough to spend time with three. I'm not really sure why there aren't more.....My guess is that its a hard industry to enter and establish yourself in while maintaining the outlook on life that being a Courtesan requires. I think the industry also tends to attract a lot more "make money and get out" or "don't have other options" women rather than women actually considering it as a career. I'd assume it's really hard to make it to the point you have a smaller number of caring affluent clients you see regularly rather than having to work the late night shifts at the agencies. All I know is I've spent a lot of time and money and when I find one of those really special women I treasure them for the extraordinary person that they are.

Thoughts from any others who have been at this a while???
 

4pleasure

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LOL - its not what they call themselves, its who they are and how they do what the do.

A Volkswagen Beatle and a Lamborghini Huracan are both cars but they damn sure are not the same thing.

Lord knows there is a huge range of service levels offered by SPs out there.

I guess I'm just getting old but 'volume' of young inexperienced women just doesn't seem to mean much any more....

We'll see how much I regret starting this thread :)
 

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LOL - its not what they call themselves, its who they are and how they do what the do.

A Volkswagen Beatle and a Lamborghini Huracan are both cars but they damn sure are not the same thing.

Lord knows there is a huge range of service levels offered by SPs out there.

I guess I'm just getting old but 'volume' of young inexperienced women just doesn't seem to mean much any more....

We'll see how much I regret starting this thread :)
Agree... Its all about the intention brought to this work. I hate to be painted with the brush of "I'm just selling pussy"... It's never been about that for me and I like to think that comes through in each experience.
Not saying that's wrong by any means... Just that each lady brings different things to the table (or bed).

Xoxo Fiona Lux
 

MissVioletRei

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Agree... Its all about the intention brought to this work. I hate to be painted with the brush of "I'm just selling pussy"... It's never been about that for me and I like to think that comes through in each experience.
Not saying that's wrong by any means... Just that each lady brings different things to the table (or bed).

Xoxo Fiona Lux
Definitely! :)

"Passion is the oxygen of the soul." - Bill Butler
 
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