NP, we live in a dog-eat-dog world. People that you meet will almost always try to take advantage of you in one way or another, it’s how we survive in a highly competitive world. One thing for certain is that we’re here for a short time, so we might as well have the most fun that we can. I try to live a harmonious life, and I do my best to resist using or cheating other people. I don’t regard pooning as taking advantage of an SP regardless of her background or why she says she’s doing it (unless if she’s being forced or coerced). For whatever reason an SP is plying the trade, ultimately she is out there for the cash (it’s a job). The best SP’s are the ones who have fun while they do it. If she has just turned legal age, then she’s fair game as long as she’s doing it willingly.
We all make our livings by selling our personal assets. Somebody who is good with finances will become a investor or an accountant, a physically fit person may become an athlete, firefighter or police officer (before the Timmy factor), a beautiful woman may become a model or actress, etc, etc. The point being is that one way or another, we sell ourselves. It depends on the individual as to what that person wants to sell of himself or herself.
My parents didn’t want me doing the job that I do…..it’s very dangerous, but it was my choice. The same thing goes for SP’s, if it’s their choice, then it’s O.K. It doesn’t matter to me whether the SP is 19 or 50. If I’m attracted to her, and she’s willing, then there’s no guilt in doing the deed. As you said, it is indeed an addictive hobby. A beautiful woman is thrilling. Having sex with her is like enjoying a culmination of your favorite music, art piece, car, and your most delectable food choice all at once. Having sex with a stranger can be even better. If it’s extramarital, then you can add a naughtiness factor to the excitement.
As far as your wife goes, I strongly believe that even though a person may cheat on their spouse, they can still love that person dearly and never want to harm them. There are varying degrees of love, some people fall in love with another and find it impossible to look at others, while others will always look at the greener grass on the other side of the fence. Some people have higher sex drives than others. As a marriage wears on, your partner’s sex drive might drop off, while yours doesn’t. That could be torturous to some. Some people may have gotten tied down too early, and when they hit their midlife crisis, they realize that they never really played the field. Others do it to boost their own self esteem.
I guess what I’m trying to say NP is that you may be suffering from guilt for any of these reasons. That’s only natural if you’re new at the hobby. Don’t worry, it will bother you less and less as time goes on. The important thing is whether or not you can live with the guilt, and what dangers the hobby presents. Remember, if you are married there are more dangers than just getting “caught”. Condoms don’t provide absolute protection against STD’s. You can still easily pick up Herpies or Venerial Warts, especially if you plunge in farther than what the condom covers. I hate to be a kill-joy, but check the pictures out. Is the risk of passing an STD onto your wife worth the pleasure?
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Do what you feel comfortable doing. Risk what you feel comfortable risking. Live and experience that which is really important to you while you still can. Overall though, don’t be disillusioned, life can be a rosegarden one day and on the next day be nothing but weeds.
If your daughter ever got into the profession, there’s only one answer as to how you should act. Support her and always love her unconditionally (you brought her into the world, she didn't volunteer for it). If it’s what she wants to do, let her and accept it. If she was forced into it, help her get out. Don’t be a hypocrite. Guys who cheat on their wives often blow up when they find out that their wife has been sleeping around too. Apply the same values that you hold for yourself to other people.
We all make our livings by selling our personal assets. Somebody who is good with finances will become a investor or an accountant, a physically fit person may become an athlete, firefighter or police officer (before the Timmy factor), a beautiful woman may become a model or actress, etc, etc. The point being is that one way or another, we sell ourselves. It depends on the individual as to what that person wants to sell of himself or herself.
My parents didn’t want me doing the job that I do…..it’s very dangerous, but it was my choice. The same thing goes for SP’s, if it’s their choice, then it’s O.K. It doesn’t matter to me whether the SP is 19 or 50. If I’m attracted to her, and she’s willing, then there’s no guilt in doing the deed. As you said, it is indeed an addictive hobby. A beautiful woman is thrilling. Having sex with her is like enjoying a culmination of your favorite music, art piece, car, and your most delectable food choice all at once. Having sex with a stranger can be even better. If it’s extramarital, then you can add a naughtiness factor to the excitement.
As far as your wife goes, I strongly believe that even though a person may cheat on their spouse, they can still love that person dearly and never want to harm them. There are varying degrees of love, some people fall in love with another and find it impossible to look at others, while others will always look at the greener grass on the other side of the fence. Some people have higher sex drives than others. As a marriage wears on, your partner’s sex drive might drop off, while yours doesn’t. That could be torturous to some. Some people may have gotten tied down too early, and when they hit their midlife crisis, they realize that they never really played the field. Others do it to boost their own self esteem.
I guess what I’m trying to say NP is that you may be suffering from guilt for any of these reasons. That’s only natural if you’re new at the hobby. Don’t worry, it will bother you less and less as time goes on. The important thing is whether or not you can live with the guilt, and what dangers the hobby presents. Remember, if you are married there are more dangers than just getting “caught”. Condoms don’t provide absolute protection against STD’s. You can still easily pick up Herpies or Venerial Warts, especially if you plunge in farther than what the condom covers. I hate to be a kill-joy, but check the pictures out. Is the risk of passing an STD onto your wife worth the pleasure?
Pictures
Do what you feel comfortable doing. Risk what you feel comfortable risking. Live and experience that which is really important to you while you still can. Overall though, don’t be disillusioned, life can be a rosegarden one day and on the next day be nothing but weeds.
If your daughter ever got into the profession, there’s only one answer as to how you should act. Support her and always love her unconditionally (you brought her into the world, she didn't volunteer for it). If it’s what she wants to do, let her and accept it. If she was forced into it, help her get out. Don’t be a hypocrite. Guys who cheat on their wives often blow up when they find out that their wife has been sleeping around too. Apply the same values that you hold for yourself to other people.
