I would just add to this that you have to keep perspective on the relationship. It’s a business relationship; we pay for their time and get physical and/or emotional intimacy in return. The emotional part can be confusing sometimes, especially if you’ve been deprived of intimacy, like in a loveless marriage. Just remember, once you stop paying, they will not spend time with you and generally will not communicate with you aside from making a future booking. Most of them are lovely, and I certainly enjoy my time with them, but it’s all based on you paying for their time