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Enjoying this hobby after divorce

pervypervison

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I actually don’t like any of the above . Surely I can’t be the only one ?
anyone ? Bueller ?
i'm with you for the shower portion of the visit. the only benefit is seeing first hand that she's cleaning herself so that i can enjoy DATY/DATO without wondering how clean she is. LOL
i personally love the cat bath. whether it be with a SP or my personal life. it's a nice build up to the main event.
as for rimming, i never seek it out, but i always seem to enjoy when it happens. i've never tried it on a gf cause i'm always worried she's gonna think i'm too much of a freak :LOL:
 

pervypervison

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I would just add to this that you have to keep perspective on the relationship. It’s a business relationship; we pay for their time and get physical and/or emotional intimacy in return. The emotional part can be confusing sometimes, especially if you’ve been deprived of intimacy, like in a loveless marriage. Just remember, once you stop paying, they will not spend time with you and generally will not communicate with you aside from making a future booking. Most of them are lovely, and I certainly enjoy my time with them, but it’s all based on you paying for their time :)
wise words. i concur. but still get tripped up from time to time with developing feelings :rolleyes:
 
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Harmony-bc

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wise words. i concur. but still get tripped up from time to time with developing feelings :rolleyes:
I've never been the jealous type so if I catch feelings, then it's awesome. I have a client, I really like and enjoy time with, win win. Nothing ever lasts forever anyways. People come and go. Life is short. Lets all enjoy the time we have here.

Cat bath just sounds gross sorry not sorry lol. I don't know any working girls that offer cat baths?
 

Pornholio

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I've never been the jealous type so if I catch feelings, then it's awesome. I have a client, I really like and enjoy time with, win win. Nothing ever lasts forever anyways. People come and go. Life is short. Lets all enjoy the time we have here.

Cat bath just sounds gross sorry not sorry lol. I don't know any working girls that offer cat baths?
Just trying to find an analogy of something a take charge sp may do that you don’t find in civilian cirlcles, but again making huge assumptions based on my own experience from very day life vs hobby. Obviously exceptions to every rules as I have been surprised at sexual exploits from girls I wouldn’t suspect and had super mellow SP that didn’t have extra sexual desire then my house plants.
Plus my version of cat baths is just little kisses up and down the back and back of legs etc. not literal cat baths lol
 

Harmony-bc

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Just trying to find an analogy of something a take charge sp may do that you don’t find in civilian cirlcles, but again making huge assumptions based on my own experience from very day life vs hobby. Obviously exceptions to every rules as I have been surprised at sexual exploits from girls I wouldn’t suspect and had super mellow SP that didn’t have extra sexual desire then my house plants.
Plus my version of cat baths is just little kisses up and down the back and back of legs etc. not literal cat baths lol
I had a vision of somebody licking somebodies whole body, like a mommy cat lol
 

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I got divorced kind of recently and the sex was non-existent for two years. I dipped my toe into this world with great anxiety and nervous excitement. Now after seeing some amazing ladies I am finding it difficult to not think about this hobby daily. I'm logging in every day and reading and reading and looking at shop websites and tryst and leolist and before I know it I've lost a few hours of my day. Is this unusual? Am I cursed or doomed? Is this a common reaction when someone in my position is finally free and enters this world?
In the same boat as you. Binge a lot after divorce finalization Did travel sex to FKK clubs and other countries and SB opportunities, not just escorts
Trying to get grounded now and find a balance
 
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