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new to perb here, can anyone please tell what to look for in pics/price to determine whether the ad might be fake.
 

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new to perb here, can anyone please tell what to look for in pics/price to determine whether the ad might be fake.

Using a search app like tineye can show you when pictures are being lifted from other sites.

If the advertiser is advertising in many cities at once, its a fake (unless they are advertising online services only, then, who knows)

Prices depend on services offered, and quality of provider. But as they say, if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Many massage services will quote the basic fee, around $60/hour. If the massage provider is willing to do extra services, those will usually be negotiated directly with the provider at time of service, and are 100% at her discretion what to provide and what to charge. SP's / escorts will usually provide a menu of what is involved in their service fee, and if there are any special services, can quote those separately.

If you are new, the best bet is to stick to well reviewed providers and maybe pay a little extra for the security of getting what you are expecting.
 
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READ THE AD!
Don’t just look at the pictures.
Don’t ask questions until you have done picture searches.
Do NOT see anyone unless there are positive reviews here. Don’t- especially as a newbie- think you are going to find some hidden gem.

NEVER have anyone come to your house. NEVER NEVER NEVER

If you go to meet someone and they are clearly not the person in the ad leave immediately. Write off your deposit, do not fall into the sunk cost fallacy.
 
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@westwoody not that I am planning to have an outcall at my home but would like to please clarify and provide info on why that's a big NO. Do SP try to create a situation during incall inorder to get more money. If so is outcall in hotels fine or is that also a big NO and as someone new to this just stick with incalls. Just want to make sure I understand what scenarios/traps can occur during outcalls
 
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@westwoody not that I am planning to have an outcall at my home but would like to please clarify and provide info on why that's a big NO. Do SP try to create a situation during incall inorder to get more money. If so is outcall in hotels fine or is that also a big NO and as someone new to this just stick with incalls. Just want to make sure I understand what scenarios/traps can occur during outcalls
If you do not know the person really well - and if it is an escort you don’t - you can have serious problems.
- they can take your money and say they need something from their car. Then they don’t come back.
-they can steal while they are there
- they can case your house for a later break in
- they can figure out when you work and the house is unattended
- they can embarrass you in front of your neighbours
- they can identify you using your address and blackmail you
- they can find out your banking or credit info by digging through your drawers

NEVER HAVE AN ESCORT IN YOUR HOME

If you really do know them - for years, not a couple of date and they are very well known then MAYBE.
You are obviously new and naive and I don’t want someone taking advantage of you.

You will see posters saying “not all are like that”. I have had ladies I know and trust in my home, but very selectively. Yeah but it only takes one to ruin your life.
 
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@westwoody not that I am planning to have an outcall at my home but would like to please clarify and provide info on why that's a big NO. Do SP try to create a situation during incall inorder to get more money. If so is outcall in hotels fine or is that also a big NO and as someone new to this just stick with incalls. Just want to make sure I understand what scenarios/traps can occur during outcalls
To address the other question, an outcall to your hotel is safer than to your private residence. It's a place where you are staying temporarily, rather than your home/sanctuary, with much less personal info/valuables lying around. Some risk, but there is some risk in visiting a provider's incall as well. Learning to discern whether someone is reputable, well-established, professional etc will be your most powerful tool for avoiding issues.
 
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@westwoody not that I am planning to have an outcall at my home but would like to please clarify and provide info on why that's a big NO. Do SP try to create a situation during incall inorder to get more money. If so is outcall in hotels fine or is that also a big NO and as someone new to this just stick with incalls. Just want to make sure I understand what scenarios/traps can occur during outcalls
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If you do not know the person really well - and if it is an escort you don’t - you can have serious problems.
- they can take your money and say they need something from their car. Then they don’t come back.
-they can steal while they are there
- they can case your house for a later break in
- they can figure out when you work and the house is unattended
- they can embarrass you in front of your neighbours
- they can identify you using your address and blackmail you
- they can find out your banking or credit info by digging through your drawers

NEVER HAVE AN ESCORT IN YOUR HOME

If you really do know them - for years, not a couple of date and they are very well known then MAYBE.
You are obviously new and naive and I don’t want someone taking advantage of you.

You here will be posters saying “not all are like that”. Yeah but it only takes one to ruin your life.
Thank you so much for all these pointers, greatly appreciated
 
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