First time so nervous. Got there in my work clothes (bad idea) took a shower for 5min. Did the hh didnt even cum lol she said i smelled so bad i didnt even pay for the hour. Amazing girl great service. Just i fucked up badly with not changing my sweaty ahh clothes. Im so sorry girl lolol
Embarrasing first time experience
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could have been a lot worse for either party
next time you can take more time to prepare for a great time
arriving fully prepared will make the most out of your investment and set conditions for an exponentially better visit
didnt cum is nothing unusual, could be related to nervousness and anxiety of doing a new sketchy thing
but if you are like a lot of guys and ended up in this place because your meat is half of your brain you can increase your chances of success by trying to reduce your at home fun days before your expensive visit
next time you can take more time to prepare for a great time
arriving fully prepared will make the most out of your investment and set conditions for an exponentially better visit
didnt cum is nothing unusual, could be related to nervousness and anxiety of doing a new sketchy thing
but if you are like a lot of guys and ended up in this place because your meat is half of your brain you can increase your chances of success by trying to reduce your at home fun days before your expensive visit
Wow...
So interesting to read of an experience where everyone can see the (problem) and yet nobody on either side was truly deceitful or blatantly unfair to the other.
That you are a first-timer, mitigates the appropriate degree of observations which might include "... should've been better prepared..."
We don't know your personal logistics... or how challenging it would otherwise be to sneak away from your life, etc
It isn't outlandish that one might stop on the way home from work, etc.
Hope things evolve for the better in the very near future.
First time for everyone should remind yourself that SP’s are real people with feelings too. Showing up stinking isn’t exactly putting your best foot forward.
Try doing a reboot with her and promise to show up clean and looking great. Probably not a great idea to book after work. Set aside a day where you can make sure you’re not only clean but have clipped your nails, nose hair, other body hair is trimmed and get a pedicure to make your man feet look like you take care of yourself.
You’ll never know if you don’t try for a reboot. She sounds deserving of an attempt to be better next time.
Try doing a reboot with her and promise to show up clean and looking great. Probably not a great idea to book after work. Set aside a day where you can make sure you’re not only clean but have clipped your nails, nose hair, other body hair is trimmed and get a pedicure to make your man feet look like you take care of yourself.
You’ll never know if you don’t try for a reboot. She sounds deserving of an attempt to be better next time.
I can give you some advice being new to this, and that is first and foremost most of us want our clients to have good hygiene and to smell good, as well as being respectful towards us. Maybe give some time to book a date with a provider, giving yourself time and them. Booking a few hours or days in advance can help build the anticipation and many of us appreciate pre bookings.
I also would suggest you also make the full payment, and not paying because a provider tells you that you smell bad, is disrespectful. Also if you plan ahead with showering before you show up, means you can smell good and also to not feel as rushed or nervous.
Also go easy on yourself and don’t get upset over mistakes or embarrassing things happening as it happens to us all. If something happens embarrassing with me or to clients of mine, depending on the situation I either laugh it off or show understanding of what happened. I’ve had embarrassing things happen to dealing with medical emergencies with clients. It’s life.
I also would suggest you also make the full payment, and not paying because a provider tells you that you smell bad, is disrespectful. Also if you plan ahead with showering before you show up, means you can smell good and also to not feel as rushed or nervous.
Also go easy on yourself and don’t get upset over mistakes or embarrassing things happening as it happens to us all. If something happens embarrassing with me or to clients of mine, depending on the situation I either laugh it off or show understanding of what happened. I’ve had embarrassing things happen to dealing with medical emergencies with clients. It’s life.
This seems like an honest first timers mistake. I don't suggest booking a single hour. Try to plan ahead in the future where you either come fully showered, or with a change of clean clothes where you can shower further and take more time doing so, lather, rinse, repeat, and do it everywhere! Also book a longer session. Most SPs offer a better deal for 2 hours vs 1 hour, and that allows you more time to shower before and wfter
Could have been worse bro. I remember meeting a lady at the El Dorado on Kingsway. She was really foxy. I paid and then she burst into tears and sobbed about how bad her life was for the remainder of the session. I was new to this and became paralyzed with guilt and shame. I left with no fun and no money. Haha.
Hope it goes better next time.
Hope it goes better next time.
Of course I prefer every body to show up clean and smelling good but, I have a few hard workers as clients. I’m ok with anybody showing up sweaty after working hard all day. If you smell bad, I might ask you to get undressed in the bsthroom and leave your clothes there. Then I’ll show you where everything is to shower. Spend as long as you want in there to clean yourself off the clock. I also have mouth wash you can use. When absolutely nothing on you smells, then we can play.
Only problem with that tho is now you have to put on your stinky clothes when you leave haha.
I’m not really a fan of half hours tho and quite often ignore them. But they are good if I’m short on time or somebody just canceled on me so I have them on my site. My favourite appointment length is 90 min
If it’s just really bad hygiene, then I might just lecture you about hygiene, give you some of your money back and send you on your way. I am definitely not giving my body to somebody that showered 2 weeks ago. Hard working man dirt, who just showered tho. No problem.
Only problem with that tho is now you have to put on your stinky clothes when you leave haha.
I’m not really a fan of half hours tho and quite often ignore them. But they are good if I’m short on time or somebody just canceled on me so I have them on my site. My favourite appointment length is 90 min
If it’s just really bad hygiene, then I might just lecture you about hygiene, give you some of your money back and send you on your way. I am definitely not giving my body to somebody that showered 2 weeks ago. Hard working man dirt, who just showered tho. No problem.
Once the donation is out of the way, you should treat it like you would with any relatively new partner, where grooming is a priority, hygiene, good manners and consent, consent for everything even if things were agreed on before hand. Especially if you’re a big chap!
good luck buddy
I did pay for the hh first she was the one who kinda sent me away i woulda paid the full hour just to get the hj lol It was a silly mistake by me. Not to embarrass myself further imma very clean man its just sometimes i dont wash my work clothes daily and when it becomes weekly it gets bad. This was purely on me and i wont try to be disrespectful again. I truly thought i didnt smell that bad. I just need to up my hygeine. The next woman will get me dressed up fs. Silly mistake
Sounds like you might have gotten hustled.
Learning from mistakes is important and it sounds like you will … Not even the pope is infallible!!
My first time I couldn’t really get into it , I wasn’t used to getting down w someone I just met 5 min ago .
On top of that I wasn’t that attracted to the sp. I was attracted to the pics in the LL ad but I was completely inexperienced , and didn’t really know about misleading ads .
Due again to knowing nothing about this game my second pick was an even worse disaster . In fact the second experience was so bad I walked around for days with a deep shame , and was close to never trying again . But the need to rid myself of the shame pushed me to try again .
Finally I discovered Perb & Third time was an improvement but still didn’t see stars or anything . Just No shame .
Didn’t really have a great time till my fourth try .
Do more research and hopefully your next pick will be a better match .
And yes all the hygiene stuff .
Forget about the fact that it’s a transaction and do all the same things you would to feel good and be attractive for a date . Things will usually go much better if you do .
On top of that I wasn’t that attracted to the sp. I was attracted to the pics in the LL ad but I was completely inexperienced , and didn’t really know about misleading ads .
Due again to knowing nothing about this game my second pick was an even worse disaster . In fact the second experience was so bad I walked around for days with a deep shame , and was close to never trying again . But the need to rid myself of the shame pushed me to try again .
Finally I discovered Perb & Third time was an improvement but still didn’t see stars or anything . Just No shame .
Didn’t really have a great time till my fourth try .
Do more research and hopefully your next pick will be a better match .
And yes all the hygiene stuff .
Forget about the fact that it’s a transaction and do all the same things you would to feel good and be attractive for a date . Things will usually go much better if you do .
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Work clothes often contain the environment of where you work. You might not notice the stink of your clothes, cause you are used to the smell. Certain chemicals will off-gas for hours or days after getting on your clothes... eg gasoline etc.
I remember my uncle's farmhouse. From the garage (where you hang up the outer jackets or pants), you entered a area to disrobe and a bathroom to shower, before going into the rest of the house. Todays modern mudroom type (for sports and recreation now), which every house should have.
I remember my uncle's farmhouse. From the garage (where you hang up the outer jackets or pants), you entered a area to disrobe and a bathroom to shower, before going into the rest of the house. Todays modern mudroom type (for sports and recreation now), which every house should have.
I dont think any lady would appreciate me showing up smelling of work..particularly after branding...the build up for me is in the preparation of the appointment...and I wouldn't appreciate it if she wasn't squeaky clean either...
