Hello!
Yesterday I had a session with a beautiful girl and although it was a great experience, I noticed a strange kind of dynamic happening between us: We were both somehow trying to pleasure the other more than oneself.
Of course, I would imagine that this is normal for the SP, since she is the one offering the service, therefore she may be the one who produces the pleasurable effect in the client, pretty obvious concept here; but what happens when the client (me) obtains more pleasure by producing pleasure in the other person (SP)?
In the first part of the session I was DATY and she allowed me to move my hand close to her orifice and penetrate her with my left index finger while my tongue caressed her clit and my whole mouth sucked playfully there too. She resisted at first but then she was even moving as to get my finger deeper into her. I looked for the precious G-spot and found it, so she was clearly enjoying herself, even repressing some moaning (she's a quiet one - this was the second time I've seen her) and I spent about 10 minutes like that until suddenly I felt/tasted her juices starting to come out. She immediately asked me to stop (in a good way, not like brusquely or anything), and proceeded in a jump to give me a delicious BBBJ, but keeping her rump as far away from me as possible.
From then on the session was all about how to make me cum.
She's not a clock watcher, nor was she trying to rush things. What I did recognize is what happens most of the time: The girl wanted to make it ALL about me, and NOTHING about her. As if she wasn't supposed to enjoy any of this.
Could it be that this happens because they don't want to waste their energies if they have more clients for that evening? Or is there a psychological, deeper reason to this?
I can say that not always has been like this. One session that was the opposite of this, and that for this reason I enjoyed greatly, was with Kayla. She seemed to really enjoy what she was doing and letting herself go, trying to make me make her cum. Now THAT'S a good session for me.
Although it sounds as if I'm complaining that not all the SP look to cum or to satisfy themselves in the sessions, it is not anything like that, it is more like a question in case there is something that everybody should know about this (some hidden protocol) and that I don't know.
But, really, if anybody is taking suggestions, here's mine: If you really try to get the most satisfaction out of the client, the better you make the client feel... at least THIS client.
Now, please let me know your opinions about this.
Yesterday I had a session with a beautiful girl and although it was a great experience, I noticed a strange kind of dynamic happening between us: We were both somehow trying to pleasure the other more than oneself.
Of course, I would imagine that this is normal for the SP, since she is the one offering the service, therefore she may be the one who produces the pleasurable effect in the client, pretty obvious concept here; but what happens when the client (me) obtains more pleasure by producing pleasure in the other person (SP)?
In the first part of the session I was DATY and she allowed me to move my hand close to her orifice and penetrate her with my left index finger while my tongue caressed her clit and my whole mouth sucked playfully there too. She resisted at first but then she was even moving as to get my finger deeper into her. I looked for the precious G-spot and found it, so she was clearly enjoying herself, even repressing some moaning (she's a quiet one - this was the second time I've seen her) and I spent about 10 minutes like that until suddenly I felt/tasted her juices starting to come out. She immediately asked me to stop (in a good way, not like brusquely or anything), and proceeded in a jump to give me a delicious BBBJ, but keeping her rump as far away from me as possible.
From then on the session was all about how to make me cum.
She's not a clock watcher, nor was she trying to rush things. What I did recognize is what happens most of the time: The girl wanted to make it ALL about me, and NOTHING about her. As if she wasn't supposed to enjoy any of this.
Could it be that this happens because they don't want to waste their energies if they have more clients for that evening? Or is there a psychological, deeper reason to this?
I can say that not always has been like this. One session that was the opposite of this, and that for this reason I enjoyed greatly, was with Kayla. She seemed to really enjoy what she was doing and letting herself go, trying to make me make her cum. Now THAT'S a good session for me.
Although it sounds as if I'm complaining that not all the SP look to cum or to satisfy themselves in the sessions, it is not anything like that, it is more like a question in case there is something that everybody should know about this (some hidden protocol) and that I don't know.
But, really, if anybody is taking suggestions, here's mine: If you really try to get the most satisfaction out of the client, the better you make the client feel... at least THIS client.
Now, please let me know your opinions about this.
