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Don't you hate it when...

lostviking

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May 5, 2014
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You check in with your SP on the day of a date to make sure everything is ticketyboo and you get a: "Sorry hun, might be half an hour late". Do you get that sinking feeling , like I do, that you just know they will, or might jam on you? I had a booking this week, that happened, then she tried to make ME feel bad because she had a doctor's appointment. I mean, she knew she had one when she took my booking, then made me try to feel like a schmuck because I was somehow insensitive to her medical condition. I planned my whole day around our booking and then get the runaround. She tried to make me out as the douche when I couldn't accommodate.

My point? I know it's awful when guys book then jam or try to change times, by how is it more okay for SPs to do so?

Does this happen to you guys? How do you feel and react?
Yes it sucks but life happens .Im sure its not done on purpose. I do a few things to lessen the sting.
1) Only make appointments for my days off, that way I don't lose out on seeing the lady and a days wages
2) chores like grocery shopping, laundry ect.. as a back up plan
3) try to re-schedule for a time that works
 

rlock

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May 20, 2015
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Recent experience. I book a late evening appointment, and drive there (a long drive too). It was a hard decision to pick this girl over another one, but I did so because she was available earlier than another SP who I also asked about. I did so because the operation she was associated with is usually pretty reputable - I've been there before to see others, without problems.

As I'm rushing my ass off to drive there, I get a message that she'll be late, like 15 mins - fine.

Then just as I'm getting nearby, another message and the 15 minutes has turned into an hour. Well, bu now it's too late to book someone else - I'd have just as much trouble , if not more, trying to book another girl in an area of the city (far from downtown) that I rarely ever go to anyway.

So what can I do? I drive around the local area like a chump, wasting time. I sit in my car listening to tunes, wasting more time. It's dull as fuck, and I don't want to be seen loitering around an incall location, but I don't have any other options but abandoning the appointment (like I said, too late / too hard at this point to book with anyone else, and home is far away).

Finally 1 hour 15 minutes beyond the originally booked time, she finally messages me that she's ready to receive me at her incall.

So as it turns out the reason for her lateness is...

She had also booked an outcall somewhere else, at the same time / an overlapping time, and she had to be driven back to the incall to meet me. In other words, she was nowhere near the incall at the time I had originally booked.
Fucking disrespectful booking behavior - they had to have known there was no way she could have been on time. This wasn't "I'm getting ready" time, it was "I'm not even near the incall, busy fucking someone else while you wait" time. I could have just booked that other girl after all, or even just stayed home and jerked off (saving $$$ and gas).

Even though the girl was OK (friendly and decent enough in the sack), the numpty lead-up to the meeting had basically ruined the experience for me. I wish I had never booked it at all - WOT to the extreme.

Should I have left a negative review? Aye, perhaps, but I decided to leave no review at all - I had good experiences there before, and because the girl may not have been responsible for the booking fuck-up. That place has other bigger problems than just me, so I do not want to get into some public back-and-forth between that place and me, over one disappointment. I'm not looking for an apology, but it's unlikely that I'll ever make an effort to go back there again.
 
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Avioneto123

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It has happened to me on a few occasions,but it was a blessing because I wanted to cancel the appoinment in the first place.
 

westworld01

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Mar 8, 2018
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You check in with your SP on the day of a date to make sure everything is ticketyboo and you get a: "Sorry hun, might be half an hour late". Do you get that sinking feeling , like I do, that you just know they will, or might jam on you? I had a booking this week, that happened, then she tried to make ME feel bad because she had a doctor's appointment. I mean, she knew she had one when she took my booking, then made me try to feel like a schmuck because I was somehow insensitive to her medical condition. I planned my whole day around our booking and then get the runaround. She tried to make me out as the douche when I couldn't accommodate.

My point? I know it's awful when guys book then jam or try to change times, by how is it more okay for SPs to do so?

Does this happen to you guys? How do you feel and react?
It's rarely happens, but when it does it sucks.

I booked a visiting SP from Calgary for 1.5 hours at 8pm and when I got there, I was told to wait as she was getting ready. There was no eta time. I waited 30mins and I was about to leave but she finally gave me the hotel suite #. When I asked why there was a delay, she said she was fixing the strap of the blouse because it broke off. An hour later, she gave me the signal to wrap up and go. Confused I asked shouldn't the session go to 10pm because of her delay, and she said yes but already had plans to go sightseeing with another visiting SP, so I still have to leave. She could've mentioned that when I was giving her the donation for 1.5hrs. This experience still baffles me because I could tell she was a genuinely kind person, but I also can't deny that my time was wasted and I was ripped off. I don't think I've seen another visiting SP ever since. It's also a factor seeing their tour prices compared to their local prices, but that's another story.
 

JimDandy

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It's rarely happens, but when it does it sucks.

I booked a visiting SP from Calgary for 1.5 hours at 8pm and when I got there, I was told to wait as she was getting ready. There was no eta time. I waited 30mins and I was about to leave but she finally gave me the hotel suite #. When I asked why there was a delay, she said she was fixing the strap of the blouse because it broke off. An hour later, she gave me the signal to wrap up and go. Confused I asked shouldn't the session go to 10pm because of her delay, and she said yes but already had plans to go sightseeing with another visiting SP, so I still have to leave. She could've mentioned that when I was giving her the donation for 1.5hrs. This experience still baffles me because I could tell she was a genuinely kind person, but I also can't deny that my time was wasted and I was ripped off. I don't think I've seen another visiting SP ever since. It's also a factor seeing their tour prices compared to their local prices, but that's another story.
The reason I do not see visiting SPs:

- Any time you see a new SP there is always a significant possibility that the experience is not that great, even when the SP has good reviews. Chemistry always comes into it and therefore there is always the risk that the experience is non optimum. At least when you see a local SP and it is a good experience, you can see her again when you like (schedules permitting). With a visiting SP you may never have the opportunity to see her again. Therefore I would rather take a chance on a local SP.

JD
 

westworld01

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Mar 8, 2018
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The reason I do not see visiting SPs:

- Any time you see a new SP there is always a significant possibility that the experience is not that great, even when the SP has good reviews. Chemistry always comes into it and therefore there is always the risk that the experience is non optimum. At least when you see a local SP and it is a good experience, you can see her again when you like (schedules permitting). With a visiting SP you may never have the opportunity to see her again. Therefore I would rather take a chance on a local SP.

JD
Good points. I saw visiting SPs when I first started this hobby and during that time I had the belief that higher price = better. Then I realized we have a lot of strong local talents and they're also more readily available and reasonably priced in comparison. But I am getting off topic.

Another frustrating experience is B&S. It's even more frustrating when you realize it's a WOT that was premeditated, and from a reputable agency that advertises here nonetheless. Fortunately I've only had to experience that once.
 
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