NYC DOM in the event you're out this way - AVOID!
So….I reached out and had an ongoing dialog with her over a few days. We agreed to meet on a specific day/time for an extended session and confirmed via text the morning of (it was an afternoon session).
So, I broke all my ‘rules’ with her (big mistake).
I provided a deposit (yep – stolen).
I had a 2.5 hour drive to her… 5+ hours round trip (I never do that)
I picked up a number of ‘refreshments’ at the store (alcohol/snacks) that she requested (something else I never do)
So not wanting to worry about my vehicle in NYC (street parking only in a somewhat sketchy area), I rented a car for the day. Upon arriving, parking was a problem but I eventually got extremely lucky (if you want to call it that) and happened upon a spot as someone was leaving. Being quite early, I texted her to let her know I was early but would happily wait. She responded about a ½ hour later and then went dark – totally ghosted me. She did not answer her phone nor any texts after that. Subsequent emails also went un-responded to (even 5 days later).
So I wasted the day, drove 5 ½ hours (round trip), lost my deposit, blew $50 on food/alcohol, another 150 on a car and parking.
I’m sure she had quite the laugh – it was obviously all contrived (seriously, what kind of slime would do that to someone?!). I’m taking the time here to spotlight her BS in the hopes I can prevent her from pulling this with someone else.
So, live and learn, those ‘mistresses’ that may seem legit are not always as they appear.
Be safe/careful.
So….I reached out and had an ongoing dialog with her over a few days. We agreed to meet on a specific day/time for an extended session and confirmed via text the morning of (it was an afternoon session).
So, I broke all my ‘rules’ with her (big mistake).
I provided a deposit (yep – stolen).
I had a 2.5 hour drive to her… 5+ hours round trip (I never do that)
I picked up a number of ‘refreshments’ at the store (alcohol/snacks) that she requested (something else I never do)
So not wanting to worry about my vehicle in NYC (street parking only in a somewhat sketchy area), I rented a car for the day. Upon arriving, parking was a problem but I eventually got extremely lucky (if you want to call it that) and happened upon a spot as someone was leaving. Being quite early, I texted her to let her know I was early but would happily wait. She responded about a ½ hour later and then went dark – totally ghosted me. She did not answer her phone nor any texts after that. Subsequent emails also went un-responded to (even 5 days later).
So I wasted the day, drove 5 ½ hours (round trip), lost my deposit, blew $50 on food/alcohol, another 150 on a car and parking.
I’m sure she had quite the laugh – it was obviously all contrived (seriously, what kind of slime would do that to someone?!). I’m taking the time here to spotlight her BS in the hopes I can prevent her from pulling this with someone else.
So, live and learn, those ‘mistresses’ that may seem legit are not always as they appear.
Be safe/careful.
