does sp like to be friends with pooners?

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imanewbie

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i mean by not only meeting up for paid sex but as a friend. Just hanging out and eating out?

Recently the last few kgirls ive tried, 2 of them, i felt that ive got great connection with them, not as in potential lovers kind but as a genuine friend. SP also need friends right? I asked for her number for wanting to repeat with them. And they gave it to me. I started texting with her and it was going okay and we actually met outside for lunch. Im not looking for free sex or cheap sex, but it has developed into somekind of a real friendship, which is priceless as compared to sex which can be had for 160$ for kgirls.

Im not sure if this is right thing to do? as in the SP maybe would like to keep work separated and want to be as discrete as possible. Many kgirl sp would like to stay here for school or work. A person who knows what she does and also know alot of her personal info, i dont know if she like it or not.

anyone who became friends with sp could share their stories as well.
 
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imanewbie said:
i mean by not only meeting up for paid sex but as a friend. Just hanging out and eating out?

Recently the last few kgirls ive tried, 2 of them, i felt that ive got great connection with them, not as in potential lovers kind but as a genuine friend. SP also need friends right? I asked for her number for wanting to repeat with them. And they gave it to me. I started texting with her and it was going okay and we actually met outside for lunch. Im not looking for free sex or cheap sex, but it has developed into somekind of a real friendship, which is priceless as compared to sex which can be had for 160$ for kgirls.

Im not sure if this is right thing to do? as in the SP maybe would like to keep work separated and want to be as discrete as possible. Many kgirl sp would like to stay here for school or work. A person who knows what she does and also know alot of her personal info, i dont know if she like it or not.

anyone who became friends with sp could share their stories as well.
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Yes, some SPs can be friends with pooners -- I've known three, maybe four, SPs outside of work, where we've hung out outside of work and it was not paid. I know their names, been to their houses, met some of their friends, etc. Two of the four I had never seen for a session.

As Nina said, the work can be isolating, so even though SPs meet a lot of people, depending on their social network and how private they have kept their line of work, they can be quite lonely.

That being said, in all of my cases the SPs have made the first move, and I would strongly encourage you to not push anything or else you will come across as being weird or a stalker. One thing I have learned is that SPs are typically not shy people, so if she wants a friendship outside of work you will not mistake the signal.

I would also suggest that from your end of things, you should go slowly too, to make sure that you are not being set up. Some girls will make that personal connection with you, only to give you a sob story and hit you up for money later. That is how accidental sugar daddies are born.

You also want to make sure that you have a connection with the actual girl, rather than the character she is portraying in session. The two can be quite different sometimes.
 
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When I was a much younger sp I might consider doing the 'friendly' thing, but, ya gotta remember that younger folks are looking for their 'happy-ever-after' life mate so they are inclined to be turning over every rock looking for that possible connection.

Older sps know you can't find it under a rock.
 
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I am single.

But, I'm not seeking, anywhere, any who, anyone.

And, I need to pay my bills.

I have a ton of really intelligent, fun, down-to-earth folks already in my life....I have enough people on my plate that already keep me busy. And I'm a people-collector/social butterfly.

I only have so much time and energy.......both for building personal and client relationships, and taking time for myself.
 
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dood said:
All things in life are possible man, but you need to ask yourself, exactly what IS your motive? If your goal is to acquire a FWB and hopefully get laid for free, you're walking down the wrong road. Trust me....SP's are the SMARTEST wom........
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why are you so animated over this. Ive said already in my thread, the connection was there and we became friends and that was it. And read my thread again, im not trying to get free laid. Taking advantage of poeple for a mere 160$, that pretty low i think. This is a human interaction afterall althought somewhat unconventional , but it is, and human do form bonds, like it or not.

im just wondering if anyone sucessfully become friends with an sp and share their stories.
 
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dood said:
LOL, nah, I'm just asking you a realistic question dawg. What's your fascination with hookers? You say you have a connection with them...as if it's some "exotic" thing that you bond with women that sell their pussy for a living. For real dude...i can't help but see your post as some patriarchal rant.....you're such a great dude..I mean you'll be "friends" with SP's. Would you brag about being friends with "women" in general? Because SP's are women..the only difference between them and the chick at the bar is they charge for you to stick your cock in them. That's the only difference.

As one poster said "we already have our own friends"....and there is a good chance those friends see their career choice as "inconsequential".
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you sound like a angry teenager. Why are you so angry. Im not going to argue to you. Is it that sp are really bad in calgary and you are really fustrated? Dont blame me though, its not my fault that although calgary is only 1 hour flight away ,but vancouver sp's are million times better in quality and quantity.
 
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If you have enough money to spare and have a special connection with sp, Can you have a special relationship with sp? She is willing to meet you at your convenient time since you are very busy with your work while you compensate her very well for her time in addition to some nice gifts. You might take her to the hockey game or concerts as well as going somewhere for vacation together. Of course, you will compensate her, but for more reasonable fees? Would you consider as a special friendship?
 
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Congratulations imanewbie!

imanewbie said:
you sound like a angry teenager. Why are you so angry. Im not going to argue to you. Is it that sp are really bad in calgary and you are really fustrated? Dont blame me though, its not my fault that although calgary is only 1 hour flight away ,but vancouver sp's are million times better in quality and quantity.
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I almost never post here but you have reeled me in. I don't have a clue who dood is, (and I am certain he doesn't need my---or anyone else's---help) but if you really think that what he posted is "angry" then you are completely clueless.

Just because someone disagrees with you, or has a different perspective, it does not necessarily follow that they are "frustrated" or "immature." They may, indeed, be trying to tell you something that could be of benefit to you.

(Oh, and BTW, when you say you are not going to argue with someone and then proceed to do so, that makes you a jackass.)

Feel free to flame me about what a loser I am for pointing out what is obvious to all except you ... LOL
 
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Lmao

:p

First, I LOVE Nina:p

Second, as much as this is hilariously blunt (and made me laugh), it's still kind of sad that we, (as sps) are subjected to the societal nonacceptance. I hope the people that debate the issue of our donations read this, and understand why when applying a dollar sign to our pussy, they might remember that it affects our whole lives.

NOT seeking any form of pity. We have made our own choices...(or so I hope...in lieu of reality for some.)

Thanks Susie Sassy Strumpet, for your continued advocation on behalf of equal rights for SPs.
dood said:
You know man, let me ask a question? If you're so willing to be "friends" with SP's...how willing would you be to admit to others that you're just "hanging out with the hookers?" Gonna tell your buddies you're chillin with a SP? Gonna tell your Mom.."oh yeah Mom, this is Nina, she fucks guys for a living but she's great". Are you going to put a photo of the chick on your desk at work and when ppeople say "your GF is pretty, what's she do" are you going to say "she's a whore". Don't worry, let me answer for you "No, No, No".

The only diffference between SP's and regular women is that SP's sell sex for a living. That's it.
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I should add, that anyone who sees me, knows that I go above and beyond their expectations.

I love having the freedom to do this. Isn't that GFE? It doesn't have to extend past our date, but during our time together, I'd rather be jovial and have good commeradery such that we both have an enjoyable experience. I am good at relating to almost anyone, and find that just being open-minded, non-judgmental, and a little bit of humility (humbleness) can go a long way.

However, perspective on BOTH sides is necessary. And, good honest communication. Guard your heart and remember boundaries at ALL times.
 
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Hello, and it's too early to argue this but I want to say something. Sps are just like all people. We are people that want love, respect and compassion. We know men. We know what you want and what you need more than you know. Just because we're whores doesn't mean we're lost, desperate or lonely crying for a man. You should know something else. Dood probably knows more than you. Some people can pretend with their games. Others will prove how they feel. I was a SP for 10 years. 3 days ago I turned 29. I am done now but I learned about men. On this site there are some good men. They respect SP's for what we are. They have the ability to care for them and even love them. You aren't there yet. You see us as nothing. We are a victim to you. We do this because there is no other choice. And you are stupid to think this. I'm not so good with words but you make me angry

You can laugh and make fun of Dood but he is more of a man than you can ever be. He can listen and understand, you can just judge. One is a man. The other is a boy. You are the boy.
 
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I don't think newbie is trying to convey hostility nor disrespect to SPs.

I appreciate Larissa's POV, and totally hear what you're saying. You make a good point, but I'm not so sure newbie was trying to take advantage of SPs, but was just curious as to his experiences thus far and how others can relate.

Take into consideration, his name is 'newbie.'

I agree though, snippiness about city vs city is unproductive as per the original topic.

imanewbie said:
why are you so animated over this. Ive said already in my thread, the connection was there and we became friends and that was it. And read my thread again, im not trying to get free laid. Taking advantage of poeple for a mere 160$, that pretty low i think. This is a human interaction afterall althought somewhat unconventional , but it is, and human do form bonds, like it or not.

im just wondering if anyone sucessfully become friends with an sp and share their stories.
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As long as he has no expectations, we as SPs can just say no to anything outside of professional.

Perspective...things go a lot smoother when you don't have to deal with daily life with another person. SPs create an experience. We aren't wives or girlfriends. We can certainly be friends though.

Friendship is a mutually consenting agreement. NOT an assumption.And certainly, it is priceless.

But, as written by others, don`t expect it. Be realistic. Respect boundaries and limits. We aren`t doing this so we can have a bigger social network. Perspective.

alinburnaby said:
I think you have to read the first post to get the context.
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