Does "No Drama" make you think "Lots of Drama"?

[tedsweettangv]

I was wondering if I am alone in this. When I see an ad on LL or elsewhere and they state in the ad "No Drama" or "No Scam" I automatically wonder why you would put such a thing in there unless you were known for or accused of the opposite. It is like when I see "real pictures" but they aren't verified I automatically assume fake pictures.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Right.
Add those two to the 'suspicious ads' list.

 

[2bfair]

"No drama, no scam, 100% real" , puts me off right away. Might as well say ""I am not a flake ""I am not a thief" " I won't rip you off" " I don't bait and switch".

 

[Lo-ki]

On LL....NO means YES......

 

[roverdog]

Yes
Just like on dating sites in general. No drama, usually means, lots of drama.

 

[grizzly]

We all have our "identifiers" as to fake ads, and you should. I have seen plenty of ladies who have used many of the quantifiers suggested in this thread and had a wonderful time. Some ladies aren't adept to self promotion and take suggestions from other ads, thinking this is a selling feature. The difference is in my research. I will always research all the boards for multiple positive reviews before I pass judgement on their ads.

 

[steverino]

When an athlete says it's not about the money; it's about the money.

 

[luvsdaty]

I'm not a cat.

 

[g eazy]

LL ads mean next to nothing for me.

If I see that for real-life descriptions... e.g. someone describes themselves to me as drama free, then all sorts of red flags are going off.

 

[Iwandaboobis]

Yes
Just like on dating sites in general. No drama, usually means, lots of drama.

Yep. In my experience, the ones on dating sites that describe themselves as "intelligent", "cultured", etc, are usually the least so.

 

[tedsweettangv]

Also on LL ads these days I am seeing things like "No questions on pictures", which might as well just say THESE PICTURES ARE FAKE, which of course they are.