A comment on another thread got me thinking, it was something like..nothing worse than that feeling you get when a girl is doing something for money. Does it matter to you if you have to pay an sp extra money to let you perform daty on her or let you dfk/lfk as long as you get to experience that service with her.Do you think she is enjoying it or "enjoying" it because you paid her.
Does it matter to you..
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I don't like DATY, DFK or LFK but if I still don't really see the justification in charging an additional fee for those services. If the SP doesn't enjoy those services and does not include them in a "GFE" (also not for me) session then I'd say don't even offer them. On the other hand I CAN see why something greek costs extra, although I can't wrap my head around $100 extra..?
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hmmmm, I don't know, but is it all right if I'm enjoying it....I am the one paying for it...
In the End, tongue in Cheeks, all that matters to me is, "Am I enjoying it?"
For $$$, I'd better be in DATY heaven. As for the girls, I haven't heard any complaints, a lot of, "yes, yes, more, more, followed by moans, squeals and the odd passionate scream of pleasure.
For $$$, I'd better be in DATY heaven. As for the girls, I haven't heard any complaints, a lot of, "yes, yes, more, more, followed by moans, squeals and the odd passionate scream of pleasure.
But people do stuff strictly for money all the time, no?
Even in MP settings, there are different rates for HJs, BJs, and FS. GFE just adds another pricing tier.
I think its fine to charge more for GFE or sGFE over FS just as its okay to charge more for a BJ over a HJ session.
For me the last time I was with a girl who was just there for the money I walked out of the session even though I had paid at the start, money can`t make me stay with a girl I dont want to stay with. Maybe some women care more about money than they do their own sense of well being.
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That`s my review on her.
If I kiss a girl and she doesn`t kiss back or initiate kissing herself now and then, here and there I know she is not into kissing and I kind of stop kissing her. If the girls a good SP the session can still be saved.
I know there`s 2 SPs I saw in the last little while and reviewed who I have not repeated with because they weren`t big on kissing which is fine for one because she charged Industry standard FS rates but offers sGFE but the other one worked in a MP and charged 300.
Both were good SPs and I had a good time, the session was not ruined by the lack of real kissing, but it is what keeps me from ever seeing them again.
For me the last time I was with a girl who was just there for the money I walked out of the session even though I had paid at the start, money can`t make me stay with a girl I dont want to stay with. Maybe some women care more about money than they do their own sense of well being.
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That`s my review on her.
If I kiss a girl and she doesn`t kiss back or initiate kissing herself now and then, here and there I know she is not into kissing and I kind of stop kissing her. If the girls a good SP the session can still be saved.
I know there`s 2 SPs I saw in the last little while and reviewed who I have not repeated with because they weren`t big on kissing which is fine for one because she charged Industry standard FS rates but offers sGFE but the other one worked in a MP and charged 300.
Both were good SPs and I had a good time, the session was not ruined by the lack of real kissing, but it is what keeps me from ever seeing them again.
Bobo, I`m curious, why is the kissing so important to you?
Don`t get me wrong, I like it too but I find I can really connect to an SP even if she doesn`t offer it. I`ve had some incredibly intense sessions with Kendra Chase for example and she doesn`t kiss. Far more intense sessions I might add than I`ve had with some other girls who do DFK.
There`s more to "connecting" with a girl than just kissing.
I don't really agree with paying extra for DATY, LFK or DFK. For me, it is like a package deal, it is either there or it's not, but I am not paying an extra $30 - $50 for it.
I remember at a MP, chatted with a girl in a room and she advised that there was no DFK or DATY included in the price. Talked to her a bit more because I liked her and did want to stay with her. I told her that I was interested, but if the session did not include DATY and kissing, that I would seek another girl. She thought about it for a second and agreed to include it. The session was a good one and DATY was good and although there was no DFK, the kissing was pretty good. She gave all freely and without hesitation once the agreement was made. I left feeling very happy with the session and she did not give an attitude at all.
At another studio, I was advised by the girl in her early 20's that she would not kiss for the first session but would on the second if it was a GFE session. I was very attracted to this girl, she had a body I liked, a great personality and a fine ass. I agreed and we had a great session that included DATY, but did not include kissing, which was fine, because I knew that going in. Toward the end, she did offer a few little kisses to me after a really fun time.
For the last year or so, I have pretty much seen only Indie SP's, both local and travelling and have not attended a MP for that time. I can't recall not getting LFK, DFK or DATY from any of the girls that I have seen and there was no extra cost for services, all included in the original stated price. Of all the girls I have seen, some have been into it more than others and a very few have been an extraordinary experience, but I have never had this feeling......."nothing worse than that feeling you get when a girl is doing something for money".
I think that talking to the girl you are interested in and having a mutual and clear understanding of the session is a key point. As well, doing your research and choosing a girl that is likely to give you the type of session you want is very important.
I remember at a MP, chatted with a girl in a room and she advised that there was no DFK or DATY included in the price. Talked to her a bit more because I liked her and did want to stay with her. I told her that I was interested, but if the session did not include DATY and kissing, that I would seek another girl. She thought about it for a second and agreed to include it. The session was a good one and DATY was good and although there was no DFK, the kissing was pretty good. She gave all freely and without hesitation once the agreement was made. I left feeling very happy with the session and she did not give an attitude at all.
At another studio, I was advised by the girl in her early 20's that she would not kiss for the first session but would on the second if it was a GFE session. I was very attracted to this girl, she had a body I liked, a great personality and a fine ass. I agreed and we had a great session that included DATY, but did not include kissing, which was fine, because I knew that going in. Toward the end, she did offer a few little kisses to me after a really fun time.
For the last year or so, I have pretty much seen only Indie SP's, both local and travelling and have not attended a MP for that time. I can't recall not getting LFK, DFK or DATY from any of the girls that I have seen and there was no extra cost for services, all included in the original stated price. Of all the girls I have seen, some have been into it more than others and a very few have been an extraordinary experience, but I have never had this feeling......."nothing worse than that feeling you get when a girl is doing something for money".
I think that talking to the girl you are interested in and having a mutual and clear understanding of the session is a key point. As well, doing your research and choosing a girl that is likely to give you the type of session you want is very important.
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Sex is kind of boring to me at this point, so I find with out kissing its just near impossible to maintain interest in the girl.
There was this one girl in 07 I would see pretty often for a while at supreme, great girl, never reviewed her because at the end of the first session we started talking about forums and she said she doesn't want to be reviewed which was cool with me because she was great so not a issue for me.
I saw her once a week some times twice a week over three or four months, near the end I just could not maintain an erection and the last several sessions we had I had to finish with a HJ and a couple times just gave up. I really enjoyed talking to her as the personality she has is really great and she is beautiful but with out kissing there is this wall there that I just cant get past. If I'm with a beautiful woman, I want to kiss her, but if she is not up for it/into it, its just a reminder that she is not into me and that reminds me I'm paying for it which is just a turn off.
I remember she even kissed me on the cheek a little one time to try and help me along but that just felt totally forced to me and was quite a mood killer. I totally respect a girl who does what she wants to, but it just doesn't work for me personally.
Plus there are SOOOOO many amazing girls right now who are beautiful, young and providing great sGFE sessions to be easily found.
There was this one girl in 07 I would see pretty often for a while at supreme, great girl, never reviewed her because at the end of the first session we started talking about forums and she said she doesn't want to be reviewed which was cool with me because she was great so not a issue for me.
I saw her once a week some times twice a week over three or four months, near the end I just could not maintain an erection and the last several sessions we had I had to finish with a HJ and a couple times just gave up. I really enjoyed talking to her as the personality she has is really great and she is beautiful but with out kissing there is this wall there that I just cant get past. If I'm with a beautiful woman, I want to kiss her, but if she is not up for it/into it, its just a reminder that she is not into me and that reminds me I'm paying for it which is just a turn off.
I remember she even kissed me on the cheek a little one time to try and help me along but that just felt totally forced to me and was quite a mood killer. I totally respect a girl who does what she wants to, but it just doesn't work for me personally.
Plus there are SOOOOO many amazing girls right now who are beautiful, young and providing great sGFE sessions to be easily found.
Thanks for your answer, Bobo. It's a good one. I appreciate it.
But it's still the best alternative to masturbation right?
If the rate going in is truly "all inclusive" and you know it ahead of time, then I don't have an issue with a slightly higher rate for a GFE over a standard FS session. But if you're in the room and it's like extra items on a list, like "Oh, you want kissing too? That'll be an extra $50" and she puts her hand out, then yeah, it would kind of ruin the rhythm of the session for me and probably impact the mood in a negative way. I should note that I have mostly seen independent SPs where I knew the rate going in and have not really tried the MP scene here in Vancouver -- but I gather that the "a la carte" type rate issues is how things are done there as well.
Oh yea, but I've had like 6 gigs of porn on my iPhone, 200 gigs something on my laptop? So I don't repeat with porn either. Plus if you go to empflix.com you can watch good quality porn for free and there's no annoying banners popping up.But it's still the best alternative to masturbation right?
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Masturbation reviews?!? OMG, is this what perb has become?!? LOL, thanks anyway Bobo.
