Just curious if anyone has any idea about > If there happens to be any rules / laws etc. About getting your stuff back from your ex's > I have no way of proving the stuff is mine. But i know for sure she still has them or should i just forget about it and call it a right off. We've totally broken up and are NOT together anymore and don't ever plan to get back together. I currently have my own place and she has her own place. Is it even worth the hassle to try to get my self. But first things first >If i wanted to get my stuff back > Is there a way of doing this? Thanks in advance for everyone's advise / helps .
Does anyone know >>> I thought i would ask the Perb erts?etc..
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Probably not the best advice, but if the stuff REALLY means a lot to you and you exhaust all other avenues, IE calling her, asking her nicely for it, etc., you could show up at her place and raise a stink to the point that the police are called. They will have no choice but to ask her to allow you to get your stuff back as a way of settling the dispute and solving the problem.
Just don't get violent or threaten her in any way or they will arrest you and you'll get nothing.
Panther
Just don't get violent or threaten her in any way or they will arrest you and you'll get nothing.
Panther
I guess the OP is the only one who knows what she's really capable of. But if he's not breaking into her house, I have a bizarre feeling that the police will see that once they arrive on scene, no? They may have to taze him a couple of times to get him into cuffs as he shouts "I'm innocent!"What if she starts screaming blue murder about how he's entering her home against her will to take things that are in her home? Hell hath no fury . . . .
"Sorry, man, that's the best I got for ya. Hope it works out well. Good luck."
But I'm sure they'll see she cried wolf.Panther
Look OP.
If what you left behind is really that important and she's really that crazy, see a lawyer. Bring a cheque for a $1,000.00 to show that you're fucking serious about getting your shit back.
Otherwise, let it go man. It's just stuff.
If what you left behind is really that important and she's really that crazy, see a lawyer. Bring a cheque for a $1,000.00 to show that you're fucking serious about getting your shit back.
Otherwise, let it go man. It's just stuff.
I couln't get my ex to take her stuff.
After 6 months of telling her to come and get it (she still had a key at that time) I gave her 3 weeks to remove it from the garage.
She didn't, and I took it to the dump.
Proabably the best advice - let someone else take care of it so you can move on.
If you can live without getting your things back (i.e. no sentimental value), then just let it go and start over.
There's a good way of getting him tasered. The only way the cops have no "choice" is if he is holding a court order for the return of his property. Even if he shows up there with a receipt for any of the stuff, they'll still consider it a civil matter and there is no way they can force her to return anything. Going and raising a stink is the last thing you want to do.
Whatever you do, do not show up at her place uninvited, that's a recipe for getting arrested. What I would do (depending on your cash situation) is either send her a registered demand letter via a lawyer or yourself. If she doesn't respond and depending on the value of your belongings file a claim either in small claims or supreme for the return of your goods or compensation for replacement value. Its a judgement call based on the value of your belongings, your and her disposable incomes as this will determine how much of a fight she'll put up and how miserable you want to make her life.
That's a very good suggestion. But still, raising a stink at her place is NOT going to get him arrested. Arrested for what? And don't tell me trespassing. As long as he isn't violent the worst they'll do is remove him. I still think they would try and talk some sense with her and get her to give him back his property. But yes, a registered letter demanding the return of his property is probably a good first step.
Panther
