Does an SP showing her face compromise YOUR discression?

[Cami Parker]

Hey Gents,
A question I was pondering this the other day and figured perhaps you lovely gents would have the answer for me...
I know a lot of guys who prefer to see a lady who is happy to show her face in photos so they know exactly what they're getting... (A pretty face is important!) but I was wondering... Do you ever wonder or worry if you are with an SP who is happy to show you (and everyone) her face, if you might get recognized while out together? Like if you and your favorite SP had a date to go to dinner and a movie, would you think twice or worry about other people recognizing her as an SP, and therefore compromising your discression? Or do you think this is a slim chance? Or are you not really concerned about what others think either way?
I'm dying to hear what you all think...

 

[sybian]

No....What I do is my business, and have never cared what people think.
If anyone knows her face,...they are up to the same damn thing.

 

[sybian]

Well said....I tend to have a big personal bubble...If you tread within it, you'd better be respectful, to both of us.

 

[resercher]

not being marred of having a wife or girlfrend so I prety much dont care . and i like to see sp' s faces in there advertisments as well as what they would charge . As for going out on a date The cost of that is beyound my finaces . Plus the thing is if they recognize her as a sp from back page or whatever .


It sort of becomes like somone following you into a strip club to tell you that they caught you in the strip club . My next qestion to that person would be so yea and what are you doing in the strip club ? Ie how do you know she is a sp have you also used her serveces If it's your wifes femail married frend or whatever . I would say so i did not know you liked girls. You should tell your husband about this maybe next time you use her service's you two can have a threesome .

I supose another thing you could say is what jesus said when the preist questiond him as to why he was talking to sinners . He said something to the efect that a doctor does not see the helthy . Ie your trying to save her from damantion and hell fire or whatever . The sin is so deep that you have to see her a lot to help her etc.

 

[Atticus]

Due to my current situation I would be in trouble if I was seen having dinner with any woman! Besides, if the person who sees you knows your date is an SP, what does that say about them? One other thing, if there is a big age difference between you and the SP, or she is "way out if your league" so to speak, that would raise a few eyebrows on its own! So, as far as I am concerned, if you feel comfortable, keep posting your face pics!

 

[mylander]

It wouldn't affect my thinking one way or the other.

I'm single, I'm 'older', and I don't give a rat's arse what anyone thinks of me or what I do. Most of my close friends, as well as my adult son, know what I do. I don't hide it. Mother on the other hand, well she's best kept in the dark, lol. I make decent money, if I want to take a lady out to dinner, that's my prerogative. Who she happens to be is irrelevant to anyone but me.

I do like to see a face shot in an ad, as it lends something to my choice of an SP. I think that I would be more turned off by an unappealing face, to me, than any bodily feature. (And I'm not calling anybody here, or anywhere, ugly. I just find certain features attractive, and some less so.)

Just my two bits.

And next time I'm in Vancouver, I may have to look up the lovely Miss Parker.

 

[clu]

I would think there are more obvious things an SP could do to compromise discretion than the remote chance someone who doesn't approve/partake recognizes her from her photo.

 

[EuroSZabina]

Most of the ladies who's showing their face I have seen them in the city doing fotoshoot in Stanley park, or shopping.
I just saw an advertiser from perb driving since her unique hair cut it was very easy to recognize.
I'm guessing they don't care but I sure wouldn't like to be recognized by not knowing it.
I'm so glad I never showed it and I would never ever dream of doing it.
It could really bite you later when you least expected.

 

[westwoody]

Speaking as an unattached rogue male I could not care less what anyone thinks.

Actually one guy has seen me with a super-out-of-my-league babe and complimented me.

 

[huggzy]

None whatsoever.

 

[sdw]

When in BC, I used to see a very beautiful young SP who showed her face in all of her advertising. Nobody, not in any of the restaurants, not in any of the shows or galleries ever recognized her. People that aren't in this market don't come here or to Leo's List. All the public saw was an ugly old man with maybe his daughter or niece doing stuff together. Maybe, if she was hanging all over me, people might have thought something different. But that wasn't what I wanted and I didn't ask her to do it.

She's retired now. Doesn't live in BC anymore and nobody knows how she became an educated homeowner where she is.

 

[johnsmit]

Seeing an SP'S face was generally a must for me
And those that I saw earlier in my fun and games use use to post pics with there face
Later I only saw girl that I had see from being a driver. I new something about them and their personalities ..which is another biggy for me .

As for sone one regognizing her ..I am single and can do as I like ..and see who I want to
Thry can assume what ever they want ...but as many have pointed out ..Of they regognize the girl I am with then they have been looking or have seen her them selves.. so what have they got to say for them selves..l will be happy to here their story☺

 

[westwoody]

Being sen in public is one thing, but taking her to a social function and introducing her as your girlfriend?

That's just asking for trouble.

 

[Cami Parker]

Interesting. Everyone here always brings such interesting opinions to
The table. It's really fantastic to be able to see so many different perspectives.
Much obliged!

 

[summerbreeze]

Hey Gents,
A question I was pondering this the other day and figured perhaps you lovely gents would have the answer for me...
I know a lot of guys who prefer to see a lady who is happy to show her face in photos so they know exactly what they're getting... (A pretty face is important!) but I was wondering... Do you ever wonder or worry if you are with an SP who is happy to show you (and everyone) her face, if you might get recognized while out together? Like if you and your favorite SP had a date to go to dinner and a movie, would you think twice or worry about other people recognizing her as an SP, and therefore compromising your discression? Or do you think this is a slim chance? Or are you not really concerned about what others think either way?


I'm dying to hear what you all think...

couple of comments,

showing the face on the internet is similar to providing your identification..... for those who are working part time in the business and would prefer to keep this away from those who know you, (future employer, family, friends, friends of friends) it makes sense to use some discretion.

regarding being seen together with someone in a public or social venue, most people over 40 and have a level of maturity know everyone has some issue or personal secret. could be health, relationship, family history, work related. peers in this group knowing this are likely to ignore any potential indiscretion and be accepting (males at least)

the exception to this is the inevitable situation that someone has a grudge against you and wants to harm you or your reputation. this risk increases over the years as well.

best bet would be to have a story worked out in advance as a back up plan for the worst case scenario which would describe the relationship in a non-punitive fashion

would also protect third parties (family members for instance) who might have received collateral damage in terms of the character assassination attempts......

good thread topic.......

 

[pro-boner]

I agree with westwoody, dates around town no problemo, love the envious looks from the young men around the bar when a gorgeous young woman drapes herself on your arm and holds your hand, in definitely not a familial way, and snuggles close in the booth making sure to rub the leg at least a few times during the evenings festivities.....LOL!

But taking her to the Xmas party, one has to choose carefully, someone who can carry a conversation, and is at least remotely in the conventional ball park....(ie. half your age plus 7, LOL)

pb

 

[Sibar]

Since I am vertically challenge. 5 foot 7. I try to stck with the shorter sp's or mp's.

 

[voodooking]

I won't book an SP unless I can see their face in the ad.
A woman can have a perfect body and if I am not attracted to their face I am honestly not interested.

If by chance I am ever seen with an SP by someone I know I could care less what they think. :wave:

 

[hedgeman]

All i know is I'd LOVE to be seen out in public with you!

Hey Gents,
A question I was pondering this the other day and figured perhaps you lovely gents would have the answer for me...
I know a lot of guys who prefer to see a lady who is happy to show her face in photos so they know exactly what they're getting... (A pretty face is important!) but I was wondering... Do you ever wonder or worry if you are with an SP who is happy to show you (and everyone) her face, if you might get recognized while out together? Like if you and your favorite SP had a date to go to dinner and a movie, would you think twice or worry about other people recognizing her as an SP, and therefore compromising your discression? Or do you think this is a slim chance? Or are you not really concerned about what others think either way?
I'm dying to hear what you all think...

 

[sdw]

All i know is I'd LOVE to be seen out in public with you!

I can just hear the comments floating in the air. "Isn't that Cami Parker?", "is she doing a show in Vancouver?" "he must be one of the stars in the show" "Cami wouldn't go out with a nobody" "he's not very handsome to be a star, it must be a reality TV show"