I guess I don't have to say my age, just read my login name. But I was always wondering if age really does matter for an SP? When I book time with an SP, I let her now my age, vis e-mail before the encounter just so she isn't surprised when I show up at the door (I am in good shape and health). I don't know if I'm the only one that lets the SP know my age before hand. I love meeting up with SP's in the 30's or 40's. But I also have meet up with SP's in the 20's. Should I let the SP beforehand my age or does it really matter?
Does age difference matter?
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Definitely not.
Sometimes it varies the services that can be provided, based on ED, though that can be nerves or performance anxiety caused also!
I have always gravitated towards older men, in my personal life. And this also translates into professionally.
I respect and enjoy being around those with further life experience than myself.
And I've always LOVED being the hot blonde on an older gent's arm. Especially with a bunch of fuddy-duddy personas, such as the symphony.
I love the 'harlot' role! Or maybe it's the exhibitionism?
Plus, older (being a relative term, according to my age of 29) men can communicate their desires better, due to having solidified their interests. (generally)
I love young men too, but my preference towards older than myself, will never change. Superficial looks and lack of substance has never been my style.
To answer your question, NO. I don't need to know your age, outside of needing to know pertinent health issues in a domme-scene, which I need to know regardless of your age.
Sometimes it varies the services that can be provided, based on ED, though that can be nerves or performance anxiety caused also!
I have always gravitated towards older men, in my personal life. And this also translates into professionally.
I respect and enjoy being around those with further life experience than myself.
And I've always LOVED being the hot blonde on an older gent's arm. Especially with a bunch of fuddy-duddy personas, such as the symphony.
I love the 'harlot' role! Or maybe it's the exhibitionism?
Plus, older (being a relative term, according to my age of 29) men can communicate their desires better, due to having solidified their interests. (generally)
I love young men too, but my preference towards older than myself, will never change. Superficial looks and lack of substance has never been my style.
To answer your question, NO. I don't need to know your age, outside of needing to know pertinent health issues in a domme-scene, which I need to know regardless of your age.
Really it is not the age. It is more important to see how mature you behave!
On the other hand it is a kind of education! When you see a late teen or early 20s sp, you will have to show them your vitality. In another word that you are still capable to perform ; whereas for a 30ish sp, you will have to show them that you have the experience to handel them as a gentleman!
To handel a woman is an art!!!!!
On the other hand it is a kind of education! When you see a late teen or early 20s sp, you will have to show them your vitality. In another word that you are still capable to perform ; whereas for a 30ish sp, you will have to show them that you have the experience to handel them as a gentleman!
To handel a woman is an art!!!!!
There are some SPs to whom this is important info to know.
Some younger SPs in their teens to early 20s may not be comfortable with a gentleman over 45. If she is informed first, she can determine if the two of you are compatible.
Many SPs prefer older men. I am one of those who prefer a gentleman 35 and older. This being said, I can and have connected well with those under this age.
References or board handle are far more important booking information to disclose.
When communicating about a possible rendezvous, I never ask a man his age.
Of course age matters, sometimes.
I've spoken with girls who really don't care about a guy's age at all.
I've spoken with girls who are 20 who wouldn't be comfortable with any guy over 30
I've spoken with girls who are 20 who wouldn't be comfortable wiht any guy under 30
So, sometimes age doesn't matter, sometimes it does, but when it does, you can never tell if your age will be in the age range that she likes or the one she dislikes.
So, just ASK HER
There is no general rule that holds for every girl, each one is different, if all girls were the same, SPs would all be out of work.
I've spoken with girls who really don't care about a guy's age at all.
I've spoken with girls who are 20 who wouldn't be comfortable with any guy over 30
I've spoken with girls who are 20 who wouldn't be comfortable wiht any guy under 30
So, sometimes age doesn't matter, sometimes it does, but when it does, you can never tell if your age will be in the age range that she likes or the one she dislikes.
So, just ASK HER
There is no general rule that holds for every girl, each one is different, if all girls were the same, SPs would all be out of work.
As a very old participant (mid sixties) I always ensure that any SP I am seeing for the first time is aware of my age. I realize that many would not be comfortable with someone the age of their grandfather. It is in my own best interest to ensure that the SP is aware and comfortable.
Some of the SPs in Victoria have maximum age limits posted on their web-sites. I have also seen web-sites on which minimum ages are also posted. These expressed limits can be useful.
Some of the SPs in Victoria have maximum age limits posted on their web-sites. I have also seen web-sites on which minimum ages are also posted. These expressed limits can be useful.
I`m in the same age bracket and try to not meet anyone under 25 . By that age they seem to be mature and experienced enough to handle the age difference. If it`s someone I haven`t seen before I ask if they are comfortable with older gentlemen and haven`t found my age to be a problem. I must admit my favs are all in their 30`s & 40`s. Trav
maybe his spell checker is Baroque ;-)
get it? he said Handel...
edit...to explain....
Baroque (pronounced /bəˈroʊk/, bə-rohk) is an artistic style prevalent from the late 16th century to the early 18th century.
George Frideric Handel
German-English Baroque composer, who is famous for his operas, oratorios, and concerti grossi.
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I agree with Tav. When I am choosing someone based on description I will pick someone over 25. That decreases the likelihood of a bad reaction to my age, but occasionally either a review or an agency recommendation will indicate that a younger SP is suitable. Frequently, in my experience she is not as suitable as an plder SP.
Since I am a 1SOG person and always book at least one hour I value the conversational maturity that usually is age related. My current favourite is 38, although advertised as 33. My Victoria favourite is Violet, who, although quite young is very mature and very interesting to talk to.
There are some young women who would be suitable for older guys but most reviews don't emphasize those characteristics so it is just safer to choose someone older.
Thanks VID, we need someone to encourage us. We have to do something with our pension and RRSPs.
Since I am a 1SOG person and always book at least one hour I value the conversational maturity that usually is age related. My current favourite is 38, although advertised as 33. My Victoria favourite is Violet, who, although quite young is very mature and very interesting to talk to.
There are some young women who would be suitable for older guys but most reviews don't emphasize those characteristics so it is just safer to choose someone older.
Thanks VID, we need someone to encourage us. We have to do something with our pension and RRSPs.
Funny.
However I think I will be seeing gals still when I am like that.
Hey, my 1500 post!
I'm in my late fifties I don't feel comfortable with those hot 21 years olds I try to pick someome in there mid thirthy's
Before you criticize other people grammatical mistake, please check your own first!
First you start a question with a conjunction . Secondly you have included two conjunctions within a sentence. I don't think that is very good English neither!
Perhaps you should have written" Perfect spelling and grammar is not an art, is it?"I am just a human being;therefore mistake is inevitable,i.e. handle to handel.
In addition English is not my first language! Why don't you try to post in another language and see how capable you are?At the mid 40 mark, I like em young. Perhaps it's just my mid-wife crisis! lol. Mainly been with the heartbreakers from out East but all exp have been 100%. No Shock and Awe when the door opens! And as for having to prove yourself??? If I get more than OSOG then it's the LG throwing me a bonus. If you think you'll have to prove your virility, it's only really to yourself. It's not like your SP is going to go bragging you up to all her SP friends saying "You gotta call this guy, he was totally amazing!. Especially for an OLD DUDE!"
Age does matter
It can get embarrassing when you meet a SP who is not as old as your underwear, especially if you happen to be wearing that particular pair.
It can get embarrassing when you meet a SP who is not as old as your underwear, especially if you happen to be wearing that particular pair.
